The whole topic of gay marriage is lame! It's also being faught in the wrong battle. The government has very little to do with a marriage in the first place. The only benefit to a marriage recognized by a government is tax rights, and spouse rights. Honestly, we are fighting the government for the wrong things, we should be fighting for the rights awarded to married couples, not asking them to allow us to marry. Honestly, the act of marriage is held in the religious sects of life. Each individual church makes a decision to allow gay and lesbian couples to marry. Jewish temples allow and recognize gay marriage, Catholic churches do not.

So be very clear, what exactly are you fighting for. Are you fighting for your right to equal taxation, equal spousal support, ability to adopt children...or are you fighting for the right to have our relationships recognized by the government. Honestly, I could care less if the government recognizes my relationship as long as I get the same rights as everyone else. The only people I need to recognize my relationship with my partner are me, my partner, and god (whom ever he may be). Being Catholic this causes a little problem, because Catholics don't beleive in gay marriage, there for, god does not recognize it...says Man! It's still there for my choice to acknowledge my own personal commitment to my partner.

I find that gays are fighting the wrong battle. They are definitly not fighting the right way, and honestly this topic is never going to move forward until people start really talking about the issues they want to fix. Heterosexuals are never going to allow two men to get married. They will certainly allow us to have the same legal rights as everyone else though, just as they do with common law marriages. So why don't we stop pretending like whoa is me, cause this is total bullshit whinning crap, and it's annoying as hell, and makes me sad to be part of the so called Gay group. Grow up!