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Name: Brad Country: United States State: Ohio Metro: Dayton Birthday: 8/6/1980 Gender: Male
Interests: God & people... after that there's music/singing, writing, solitude, reading, baseball or most sports really, travelling, the beach, the mountains, the world in general...
I suppose most things interest me... Expertise: 'He is no fool who gives up what he cannot keep, to gain what he cannot lose.' - Jim Eliot Occupation: Minister
Message: message me AIM: walkinromansrd
Member Since:
8/12/2005
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| I got called out... I haven't updated in just a shade over 8 months. It wasn't really a hiatus... I just misplaced xanga.com. My bad... but thanks for yelling for an update. That's encouraging.
So... hmm... in May we got married [5th], honeymooned in Duck, NC (a beach resort off of the NC coast) [6-14], partied in NC with my fam & friends [14-16], came back to OH & resigned from PPC [Memorial Day]. Don't mean to make light of that last note... in short, when God speaks - listen. If He can't get your attention quietly, He WILL speak louder. He did. And He made Himself abundantly clear. It took some time, some painful lessons on listening, maturity, patience, & relationship, & the encouragement of my bride & both of our families... but we left, & our time officially ended on June 10th - no plans, no ideas... no clue.
And whenever you have no clue, do what we did... fly to Vegas. Truthfully, we went out to love on Dan & Keren (one set of my new in-laws) & my only niece & nephew to date, Brian & Ashley. It was amazing. 130 degrees of scorching, cloudless, 'dry heat'. A great decision... a great time. Mix in some trips to Chicago to see the Looney side & Durham for the Caldwell's [who are also looney], Myrtle Beach for Melissa, & Chicago again for the Cubs... who are family. Don't judge!
And in August we moved to Durham. It was a hard decision. We were heading home for sure... just not sure whose home. Chicago is great. We love it. And Grace's fantastic family is there [4 of the 8 at least]. But God made it clear that Durham was home. So with no jobs, no clue, & no plan, we moved everything. Moving was an awful fiasco, our apartment was great, & Jackson loved it...
WAIT!!!! Jackson!!!! We have a dog... a beagle... he was born on April 18th, came to us in mid-July, & is wonderful. He has helped our tough transitions, our boring nights, & has made our family all the more complete. We love him!! I'll make him the new profile pic for everyone.
Back to Durham... shorthand - Grace gets a job at Duke thanklessly helping Duke patients pay their bills, & I go bury people at Clements Funeral Home, while serving at Ted's Montana Grill. Two months later I get a bit of a promotion to Team Lead [think LOWER level management] @ Ted's, leave the undertaking business, & work full-time at TMG, were I'm still at.
Months pass of working, saving, & getting acclimated to NC life... And then Thanksgiving in Durham, Christmas in SC with my folks, Melissa, & both of our puppies [Melissa has a terrier/chihuahua mix named Berkeley], & the next big news... we bought a house!
Right after Christmas, in North Durham, 2 blocks south of my folks, in eye-shot of my old elementary school... we have a great new home. Jackson has a fenced-in backyard, we have a storage shed bigger than anyone should need, a great neighborhood, lots of space to 'grow', & life is good.
Most recent praise... Grace got a new job last week!!! She's now a Medical Assistant for Durham Pediatrics. I don't know what it means, but it makes her smile & giggle... so who really cares what she's doing right?!? No church stuff right now, but God has moved a great deal in the last month...
So we'll see.
10 months... updated... say hey to me! | | |
| May 5th, 2007So... I'M MARRIED!!!
See everyone in a week or so...
Grace Anne Caldwell is my wife!! YES!!!
<3 Brad  | | |
| Wow...Super XLI, Miami, FL... Indianapolis Colts
Words cannot describe how amazing this is. World Champion Colts!?! Outstanding.
And to all of the people I love that love Chicago and their Bears... I love you, and your team is outstanding. I hope Urlacher and Lovie Smith when 3 or 4 Super Bowls. Class... absolute class.
And to my best friend... you're my favorite Bears fan in the whole wide world... I love you with my whole heart.
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| As usual, this blog is more of my thoughts, shot out loud. This entry is actually an email I sent to my youth & our leaders. Be blessed friends... ‘I am undone.’ Those were Isaiah’s words when confronted with a greatness that was beyond his understanding. I imagine a staggering emotion, breathlessness far beyond a loss for words… he was in the presence of something far greater than he, and he knew it… We know that Isaiah was in the presence of God’s manifested glory. A lethal encounter if handled incorrectly. I write this afternoon with an entirely different form of ‘undone-ness’ . My heart is broken by what I read today. Here are some horrible statistics: 29,000 children die every day of hunger Every 3 seconds a child dies of malnurishment or susceptibility to disease [which means a child just died as you read this] In developing countries, as many as 1 in 5 children die before age 5 6,000 children die daily from water released diseases And the light that shines as promised… Since it began in 1992, the 30 Hour Famine has seen the death toll drop from 40,000 children DAILY, down to 29,000. While the task seems enormous, progress is being made. And Asylum Student Ministries is going to jump into the battle. Hear my heart. One day, I want to be found making sandwiches in Sierra Leone, or dressing wounds in Sri Lanka, building homes in Haiti, and sharing the Gospel that changes lives in Guinea Bessau… but God sends missionaries. They don’t simply requests assignments! So WorldVision has an amazing answer! It’s called the 30 Hour Famine. Click on the hyperlink there to look at their website and get the basic info on the ministry. But basically, we raise money [like Relay For Life or the Walk For Breast Cancer] and spend thirty consecutive hours raising our own awareness, community awareness, and church-body awareness of the devastation and senseless loss of children in developing countries, while growing together as a ministry and even having some fun… brace yourself… without food! I recently heard someone says that America is one of the few countries that may never worry about starving to death. Instead, it seems to be content to eat itself to death. If only for one weekend, we are going to turn the tables. We will stop eating for 30 hours, so that a child can live! This is just a heads up email. It’s going to be on November 3-4, outside in the front yard of PPC. There is so much more info to come… but I am supremely excited. This is a youth event that changes lives. We can feed hungry. We can save lives. We can start now… With the 30 Hour Famine – 2007 – ‘Starve Hunger’ Love you guys... Brad | | |
| I'M ENGAGED!!!So what have you missed??? HA!  July 30th - Got voted in as Youth Pastor at PPC August 6th - 26th bday, family came to visit, Youth Missions Sunday - amazing day that was! During August, I got accepted to Cedarville & have since jumped full on into school. Beyond that, my life has been consumed with work, school, & a very wonderful young lady. That being said, we'll pick up with her dad saying yes... We had already seen a ring. But we hadn't seen the money. But God blessed in a tremendous way, brought money in an amazing fashion, & without her knowledge... I bought it earlier this week. Tuesday, I went over the jeweler & told him to go ahead & get it all sized up. She's a 5 1/2. That doesn't matter to the story, but it's fun to know. Anyway, I had so many elaborate plans. I won't go into details, but I did learn a startling truth today... See, I picked up the ring with my phenomenal brother Dave Faile, this afternoon. And from within a velvet box, inside of a gift box, inside of a store bag... that thing burnt a hole through me. And to make it worse... I used it as an object lesson when I spoke to Campus Crusade for Christ at Wright State University tonight. I used it to illustrate how symbols, devoid of affection & passion are meaningless... & then as we closed with a worship set. And all that I could think of was how much I loved Grace, & how that ring really did symbolize sacrifice, completion, affection & passion... so much of what we are & where we feel God leading. What an amazing reality. So clearly, plans had to change!! She was calling, because it was getting late. As I talked with students, making my way out, their encouragement fueled the desire to ditch plans & find her asap! So I called Grace & completely made up a story... 'I need to run to the office, pack some books, get some gas, & I'll see you in a minute.' I did go to church to grab books, but booked to Kroger to buy 12 red roses, a stuffed puppy, & one peach rose in a vase [because it was pretty]. Got to the apt. & called her from the door. 'Go to the balcony & wait for me there.' She did... clueless. Awesome! So I came to the balcony door & laid down the gifts where she couldn't see them. Now it's all left to getting some words out of my mouth... usually not my problem!! 'I need to confess some things to you. I've lied to you several times lately. And I bought you some things to say that I'm sorry.' 'Ok?' 'First, I lied about getting gas tonight.' And I handed her the peach rose. She smiled, but was still so clueless!! Then I said that I had lied about having a meeting tomorrow after class. This was a part of my most recent plan to surprise her tomorrow, but again, the ring in my pocket & that girl anywhere near me... impossible! So I apologized for fabricating that one, & gave her the stuffed puppy [it's wicked cute]. And then I apologized about what I said I wanted to do tomorrow: 'And last [with a bouquet of roses in my hand], I want to apologize because I lied about wanting to go to dinner with my girlfriend tomorrow [handed her the roses. Her face, wildly confused]. Instead, [I move to my knee, & pull the box from my pocket] I really just want to have dinner with my fiance instead. [Her face... amazing] 'Grace, will you marry me?' [Opened box...] 'Yes... yes, of course.' [BIG OL' SMOOCH!!] In fact, she kept kissing & hugging & for a second I forgot to put the ring on her finger... Now that's a cool feeling. Never even thought about it before, but it was amazing. And now... I have a ton of homework, I won't sleep tonight, but I have a fiance. Grace Anne Looney is going to marry me... how beyond amazing is that?!?!?!?!? I have a fiance. And she's the best woman I've ever known. Goodnight everybody. Hope YOU sleep well, because there's no sleep for this kid! | | |
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