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Friday, August 15, 2008

  • What would you do if you knew you would not fail?

     

    There are a dozen things that I would like to get away with and the only thing keeping me from them is, of course, law and order and all that jazz.  Oh... and my children who bear hold to the leashes belonging to the collar around my neck to ensure I don't stray to far from the developing of our foundation.

    However, there is one thing that I am shying away from - One thing that I absolutely want to do and the only reason I have not gone about completeing it is because of my fear of failing.  If you are asking yourself what that one thing is then you obviously don't know me in real life but I will go on and tell you anyway.  This one thing is the Agility Test. Anyone interested in joining Law Enforcement has a series of tests of which comes the much dreaded Agility test.  Now prior to leaving London, Ontario, and having my daughter I was still in my MCJROTC body shape - I didn't own a car and walking was like thearpy to a girl like me... Now I have two cars (who together don't equal ONE) don't walk unless I must (But I am also 39 weeks pregnant right now and walk like Fred Sanford which is NOT cool) and am overall sluggish.  My fear is that after this pregnancy I will not get back into shape which means that I will not acquire the one thing that used to sit highest on my list of aspirations.  Of course this method of thinking will cease and desist soon after little boy is pushed out of my system and I am no longer as hormonal as a teenage emo kid but ... right now, thats my answer and I'm stickin to it so Nyah Nyah Nyah!

       

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Tuesday, July 22, 2008

  • What can a person do to be more optimistic in life?

    Simple... place themselves around more positive people or people who are just like them.  I have come to realize that we are greatly influenced by the company that we keep; giving them the power to make or break the route in which we take in any given day.  Read below for further iteration and inspiration:

    "THE COMPANY YOU KEEP"
     
    By ANONYMOUS
     
    It Is Better To Be Alone, Than In The Wrong Company. Tell me who your
    best friends are, and I will tell you who you are.  If you run with
    wolves, you will learn how to howl.  But, if you associate with
    eagles, you will learn how to soar to great heights.
     
      "A mirror reflects a man’s face, but what he is really like is shown by
    the kind of friends he chooses."  The simple but true fact of life is that
    you become like those with whom you closely associate -
    for the good and the bad.
     
    The less you associate with some people, the more your life will
    improve.  Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others, it increases your
    mediocrity.  An important attribute in successful people is their
    impatience with negative thinking and negative acting people.  As you grow,
    your associates will change.  Some of your friends will not want you to go
    on.  They will want you to stay where they are.  Friends that don't help
    you climb will want you to crawl.  Your friends will stretch your vision or
    choke your dream. Those that don't increase you will eventually decrease
    you.  Don't ask someone who's lost themselves to help you find your way -
    if they can't help themselves, they certainly can't help you.
     
    Don't spend time with people who do not contribute something of
    substance or value to your life, that means: don't waste your major
    time with minor people, life's far too short for that. Remember, nothing
    ever stays the same - in a year from now you will either be better off or
    worse off, your relationships will either be strengthened or weakened, you
    will either have progressed or regressed.
     
      Look to people who are humble/spiritual/charitable/joyous/friendly
    without any hidden agendas or motives, so that you can aspire to be
    like them and look to people who have less than what you have, so that you
    can be grateful. And remember, it's not the quantity of friends or
    acquaintances that you have that's important, it's the quality of your
    friendships that really matter - it's better to have a handful of
    unconditional, true-blue friends that will be there for you at the
    drop of a hat in the good times AND the bad, and who knows you inside
    out,than having many superficial, fair-weather friendships.
     
    Consider this:
    * Never receive counsel from unproductive people.
    * Never discuss your problems with someone incapable of contributing
    to the solution, because those who never succeed themselves are always
    first to tell you how.  Not everyone has a right to speak into your
    life.  You are certain to get the worst of the bargain when you
    exchange ideas with the wrong person.
    * Don't follow anyone who's not going anywhere.  With some people you
    spend an evening: with others you invest it.
    * Be careful where you stop to inquire for directions along the road
    of life.
    * Wise is the person who fortifies his life with the right friendships.



       

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Wednesday, June 11, 2008

  • What is one thing you find yourself doing that you promised yourself you never would?

    Being a mother.

    Long before Pitt and Jolie's baby boom, there was a humble girl at the age of sixteen. She didn't want any children of her own, that would destroy her body! So she was going to adopt children from visted countries, with a definite being from the Philipeans. That sixteen year old was me, six years ago.

    It's a known that I had my daughter last year, her father and I had been friends for a little over six years and he made for a good 'get out of a date free' card since, even though he was a Country away, I wouldn't of been lying when I told people I was taken.

    I am back to my old self now but for a while during 2007 I started the whole dating thing, something I never saw myself doing. I am a lady who deserves to be courted, never touched or bored with fickle conversation. I didn't care for it, the three that I have been with throughout the entires of my life pretty much validated my original beliefs and so I am back to being me and -well- me, but this time I have my two chitterlings, the Queen Nasstashjia and Lord Dominic Elijah; considering Nasstashjia looks like my mom who is twenty shades lighter than me and I expect Dominic to favor his father (who by chance looks like my nana, who looks like my brother) walking around I will still look like I adopted them =P Up until I get my job as a overnight stripper and the stretch marks tell all, lol.



       

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Monday, June 02, 2008

  • Do you collect anything out of the ordinary? If so, what is it, and why do you collect it?


    Goodness, what don’t I collect? I’m a packrat! There was even a point in time where I collected human beings; you would be surprised with how easy doing something like that is.  I know I wouldn’t allow anyone to own me, but what can I say, I was a young bossy girl who liked collaring people and telling them what to do.  Now that I think about it, I should of stayed that way, it was much better back then - you know, in comparison to the time (2005) that I actually started dating and thus come to realize why and the world I never saw and could never see the jest of the acquired ‘pets’, and most acquaintances, as equals – let alone a life long partners.  *cough* Malicean *cough* (You have a lot of nerve commenting on Xanga when you don’t have a job AND need I remind, I’m still mad at you, idiot)

     

    Outside of ‘people’ there was my collection of paper dolls, a creation that I worked hard on for nearly several years before retiring in 2003/2004.  I still have the box of them inside of another box somewhere in my closet, I have it there as my ‘scare off’ tactic for people who try to get to close.  Needless to say, it doesn’t work, if anything it made people more impressed *rolls eyes*

     

    I have a starter collection of stamps and anything foreign; including a can of cola from Pakistan!  It’s in the car right now so I cannot give you the exact name, now the manufacturer information that was printed on it.

     

    It seems as though the only thing I haven’t started collecting yet is ‘shoes’, as a woman it would be to cliché, but I’m getting older – AND – I am a mommy now so it may be a good time to upgrade the closet =P … Maybe in December, therefore my daughter will be a year and six months while my son will be five months – money should be right and so it will be high time to upgrade all of us.  What, you didn’t think those onsies would last forever did you?  Oh, hoho, you thought that I would actually give Lord Dominic clothes that were brought for Queen Nasstashjia when we believed she was a boy to be, HAH, you’re out your mind.  That’s why I loves ya!


       

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Thursday, May 29, 2008

  • Do you think it is OK to be friends with ex girlfriends or boyfriends? Why or why not?


    First and furthermost I am going to announce that I, the composer of coming response, is the epitome of an modern day Sagittarius; with that said you, the reader, should know that we are the ‘best friend’ of the Zodiac.  The need for me to continue on with how I know that the X can still be a cool beans partner would be a waste, wouldn’t you agree.

     

    Well, do you?

     

    If you do, you shouldn’t! *maniacal laughter* the whole world is not composed of Sagittarian beings.  There are the Leo’s who feel as though their short comings should be blamed on the other party and thus communication with them would not be beneficial to either party.  Personally, I love Leo’s and will go as far as to call the Leo in question a fake Leo, just because he fell short of all the things a Leo was supposed to be, strong, bold, dominant, all the things a lil ol gal like me would want from a man *roll of the eyes* moving right along…

     

    Nasstashjia’s father and I are still good friends and we can talk to each other about anyone and anything without much incident until I start feeling like an hormonal basket case and thus change into the three headed red eyed snake haired demoness of the abyss with the pointy finger and loose neck – as he would so articulately describe it. There is no sexual tension between him and me, nor is there a slither of it between me and the aforementioned ‘fake-Leo’, and when it comes to guys and general *toss of the hand* nope, nothing.  Blame it on the pregnancy all you like but after this one I’m sure my interest in sex is sufficed for the next several years *smiles wickedly as predators seek prey elsewhere*   In defense of others out there who cant refrain from humping the leg of their ex I will admit that some of the male and female friends of mine are more attractive than the life partners I had chosen – Gia’s dad and the rebound fake-Leo guy.  So, it takes more then physical attraction  and common ground for a girl like me to bless you with the honor and supreme torture of being my future husband/wife ^^

     

    Now, if the relationship had dissolved in regards to cheating, abuse, or something equally severe leave the X alone!  Especially if you are the offending party because we don’t want (in some cases want should be need) to hear your apologies


       

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