|
BlueFireStar
|
read my profile
sign my guestbook
Name: YucHi*
Birthday: 4/24/1988
Interests: Hanging out with Friends, Manga, Anime, Chatting, Games, [Day]Dreaming, Reading, Meeting new people, bascially, Anything that's fun!
Expertise: Procrastination. Being a teenager. Helping a friend in need. =)
Occupation: Student
Industry: Hospitality
Message: message meEmail: email me
Website: visit my website
Member Since:
6/20/2003
|
|
SubscriptionsSites I Read
|
|
|
|
| Things unexpected.The best things come unexpectedly.
On the bus the other day, this person unexpectedly helped me when I was asking my other friend for help, which she refused. That just made my day. I was so happy. To think that I never asked him for anything, I never wanted anything from him, and yet he just gave it to me.
And then I realized that the good unexpected things always make you happier than things asked for. Because when you ask for something and it happens, then the happiness comes from the fulfillment of the expectation of receiving it and not from the sole reason of receiving such a thing. And actually, when something occurs unexpectedly it’s that much greater because you get double the happiness: receiving what you secretly wanted + the random unexpected kindness of another person or event that led to you getting what you wanted. The latter happiness lasts longer and grows deeper into your mind.  
Having expectations is not good one way or the other cuz
1) if it is fulfilled—you expected it so it’s not that special
2) if it is unfulfilled—that leads to disappointment and you get sad or down.
So think back and smile at those unexpected things that have happened to you (ie: you thought he forgot but he didn't. you thought it wasn't going to happen but it did. you have no idea that someone would do that or something like that can happen to you....but it did!).
Be grateful to the world, to life, to people that made it possible, to have these unexpected pleasures happen to us. They bring you simply ineffable joy.
| | |
| And so the end of First Semester...Hello Hello there! It's been a while! I've missed you all =)Here's a look at my First Semester at Rutgers University:I've made a lot of wonderful friends. I love them all. Floormates, classmates, clubmates, Mates in general! haha. Here's a picture slideshow representing the last 3 months:  Most my my lovely floor. Mattia 4 is THE BEST!! 
 Left: Asmi--The Best Roommate anyone can ask for. Right-Steph--the Best Neighbor.  A Mattia Christmas. We did Secret Santa and it turned out awesome =) Thankx for all the presents, laughs and good times guys!  My Loves--Oppa, Nina, Reeni, Caspar.  Last but def. not least: Me & My Boyfriend, Chrispy. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ So a lot has happened...drama, boys, girls, failures, fun times. You know, College stuff  and I've loved Every Single Bit Of It. So if you were wondering, I'm good, really good, and I'm Happy, really Happy. However, the grades...yes, my grades... let's not talk about them...but I will say that I did Horribly. Annnnnddd my mom said that if I don't get a 4.0 next semester, she's not paying my college tuition. Yea, so I better start working my butt off. I can't even explain it. College is the best thing that's ever happened to me. I've had the most fun these last 3 months than I've ever had in my life. (a bit exaggerated but close.) and I love everyone there. I've made great friends, and you know what, they're nice and they love me too! haha. So, all is good, all is well.
And so, I hope You're Having the Time Of Your Life.See you in another semester! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~` Oh and how could I almost forget: MERRY CHRISTMAS
AND A
HAPPY NEW YEAR
TO ALL!! | | |
| checking up...and i hope you're having the time of your life.  | | |
| HAPPY 3RD BIRTHDAY MATTIE!!!!!!!!You are the bestest brother that anyone can ever ask for!!! You truly are a bundle of joy ♥  Look at how happy he is!  Thinking hard to make a wish!  Yummy! Cake Face! <3 I wish you the best kiddo. I Love you with all my heart, more than I'll ever show, more than you'll ever know. | | |
| This past week...It's been a while, partly becuz i've been internet-less, and partly becuz i've been losing interest in updating my xanga.
I've found a new toy and it's called facebook. Search for me (Yuchen Zhang) and be my friend! =D
Congratulations on your graduation! Bloomfield High School Class of 2006 I Love You Guys(Dimmie, Gene, Saurya, Joekly, Fahim, D-Chan, Frank, Will, Gabe, & LingLing)! Woot!! College! The Classic Cap Toss =) I was waiting for that all night lolz
Chinese Reunion =) There's nothing like seeing good old friends. <3 Gentz: Boris & Xiaoyuan. Ladiez: Angela, Xiao, Me, Lil. Cat, Jiaqi Two of my bestest friends in the whole live world. Angela & Xiao (Damn it, Alice, why didn't you go!) Everyone! Angela L., Me, Irene, Xiaoyuan, Addy, Jiaqi, Boris, lil. Cat, Xiao, Angela W.
If you get a chance, look at the pictures in "Sam's Cottage"....incredible views of the skie, grass, waterfalls, and just overall beautiful pictures =) Sam's Cottage...was... Magical. We forged a bond that weekend. oC. sT. arL. jG. yZ. <3
As usual, all my pictures are uploaded here.
| | |
|
|
