1) Lack of enthusiasm. Ok, even WE know about hygene, so we've done our part to keep clean, but if there ain't any enthusiasm at the task, we feel as though your just treating one part of the package instead of realizing that we're human too.

2) It ain't always the hard-on that needs attention. Just like when a guy know's to change things around and shake things up, so must the person giving the blowjob. Make us guess how much you're going to make us feel good so when it's our turn, we'll go all out.

3) BJ's are a part of sex, so make it a  part of the whole thing, not as a 'special' treat or something that he has to earn. I'm not saying do it all the time, but if you make it regular enough, he won't bitch and whine so much when it's his turn.

'nuff said...

I would be EXSTATIC if my boyfriend needed as much fourplay as I did. Sex is a two way street, and if I expect it from him, then I am def. more than willing to give it. Pleasuring him, in turn, a lot of times pleasures me, so the whole fourplay thing is awesome. I only wish men felt the same way...

1) contact

2) heat

3) skill

Honestly, I've yet to find a woman who's really skilled at giving head.

3. Lack of Skill.  I need more than the simple insert tab A in slot B.

2. Timing.  Sometimes I'm just not ready to cum and I need a little more heating up.

1. Lack of Enthusiasm.  It's not a chore, show me you're enjoying it and I'll enjoy it.  If you treat it like doing laundry I'm not going to be feeling it or you after very long.

Yes, I would be happy to give as much foreplay as needed.

It's a type a foreplay for me... it's such a turn on, to see him in pleasure, and especially knowing it's because of me! =)