Gah, I know just whatcha mean - hence why I am here instead of still over there---->

Anywho, I am too lazy to do the math but if that site ever shows up I'm subbing

Hugs you big

You are right of course.  There are things I don't think twice to say on here which I would hesitate say in real life (granted, not many, but there are some).  The only person in real life and here I know will understand enough to be trusted what I mean, is Ed.  I don't like friends or family to know where my Xanga site is or what I write on there.  It's a sounding board, this place.   Those that don't have such a sounding board don't "get it."  For me, it's always been easiest to keep those in my life I'm "stuck with" (lol) off my venting place.  I too don't want to have to censor myself, and I've more than once let Ed "have it" for giving out my Xanga address to some persons in real life.  (Ed didn't quite "get it" for some time though I think he does now.)

Don't go away without leaving a trace of yourself to those of us that do "get it,"  tho, or I shall have to cry lonely teardrops.

((J))

 

Yes, leave a trace, as shyewolf says, so we know where you are, 'kay?

Have a great weekend, chickadee.  This is not the end, just a new beginning.

I understand... don't forget to leave a trace.....

This sucks ass ~ but I totally understand your reasoning.
I'll miss DaP . . . as I know you will . . . but a name is only a name, and you'll always be DaP to me.
And ya know what?
I am so fuckin' glad that you explained where DaP came from ... b/c I've ALWAYS wondered.    But I didn't want to look stupid and ask.  ROFL!  So, better yet, I wait 'til you explain it, and then I admit to not knowing   hehe

I hope, that if you stick around these here parts, you'll contact me

I'm not even gonna pretend to be polite...ya better let me know where you are or I'll kick your butt! LOL

Love ya girl, and believe me *I* get it...but I'm too stubborn to change names now. But if I knew then what I know now...this would be written from another name...

NO!!  You can't do away with Dap! Of course, if you send me your new addy and pen name, then you can change Dap!

its a sad sad day in xangaland

Ya gotta do what ya gotta do

don't lose me in the move..you were the first person I subbed to..

Lol i like the name :P lol makes me laugh .. i see you found out bout what happened .. I am soo embarrassed =( .. I dont kno what to do .. and we'll right now ma and i are waiting for doug to come home at 3 am .. i hope he didnt do anything stupid ... but yea i have to go now much love ! /hugs

Anna :)

I understand, but I will miss you. If you decide to make an appearance under another name please stop by and say hi! DaP will always be missed, but it's only a name, you will always be you! Take care, and thanks for all of the sweet and supportive comments!

I can totally understand your needing to move on, please DO leave some sort of trace if you decide to continue your writings. Or atleast stop by my blog and say "hi" so I can find you. *wink*

Best wishes and hugs~

Kim

HEY!!  You are so right!  That is why we all love Xanga.  Who could ever imagine saying what we say, ranting on and on about the people and situations in our daily lives?  After all THEY are the ones we are probably ranting about so how on earth could we sound off to THEM.  Although, truth be told, that's exactly what SHOULD  happen.  Heehee!! 

Xanga is a faceless community.  The readers of our  "work"  are not close to us in any way, shape or form and are therefore  "safe".  It's crazy to sit down and think of it.  Total strangers giving other total strangers advice on life.  Sometimes it's total bullshit and other times,  because they are strangers and because they are subjective and because they are so far away and "safe"  they give advice or comment that is absolutely spot on.  100% fab.  I think that is the beauty of it.  It's a release for both the reader and the writer.  And hey, why the hell not?  Anything that helps in this mad thing we call life - it's ok by me.

Listen.  You were one of the first Xangans to catch my eye on here.  I love the fact that you shoot from the hip and tell it exactly how it is.  You are blunt with your delivery and sharp with your humour, I think alot like me.  Hahahahaha!!  Ooooh, watch my big head!!  Hee!  I will miss you and your rantings and your  "sock it to 'em"  approach.  I will miss hearing about your ups and downs because I relate to it alot.  The balancing act - studying, working, raising family, dealing with the realstionship, keeping it all going at home, then somehow managing to find time to live, breath, eat and sleep in all of that. 

If and when Dap disappears please let me have a forwarding ID for your Xanga.

Take care.  It's been fun.   Shorts.

Urm..... relationship.  That's the word.  Yep.  R.E.L.A.T.I.O.N.S.H.I.P.  Correct spelling....unlike the one above.  WTF??  (LOL)

Shorts

:(  But we need you! Please leave a trail for us to sniff you out, or a simple email with updated information would help. (hugs)

Isn't that ironic? Are we sharing one brain? Let's keep in touch Dap, even after we have found our new "home"....

*kiss*

Oh my gosh, you must email me - I need you to vent about 8 month old baby sh*t!! Spuds and D would be great baby friends if we lived closer together!

We've done this whole mommy thing again at the same time, you can't vanish without a trace! I love reading your blog and DaP will be missed!

Correction:

Oops - make that Spud, not Spuds! My fingers get to typing too fast....! LOL

I know what you are feeling. As you have been reading me over the years, you have seen me go and return many times. I only hope that you will share with those you feel comfortable with (I hope that's me) your new place and face to reside. I will miss you more than I want to guilt trip you into knowing. Be well sweet sister.

Love and Hugs

AhhhhhHA! *snicker*

What ever happened to admiring life before it sailed by? Take some time and sort things out. Even life has to dock at some point...

Very clever blog. 

The point of online/real life people is that we are real on here until we get oppressed by (the feelings of) what is essentially an audience.  We aren't 'real' in that way offline because we have to consider other people's feelings and expectations of us to a much greater degree. Oil and water.

hey you, just as i come back you leave??? Hope all is well and how is Tater? be good!!

ciao