FreeWave was a dear friend long before she was a fellow xangan. She has a dog. The dog helps her all the time. She's very close to her dog. Though I confess to being a "cat person" in general, dogs are truly amazing and incredible creatures. I had a beagle-basset mix as a boy and though he knew no tricks at all, for those delicate years he was my closest friend. FreeWave recently posted something by another dog lover she knows. When I read it I thought about her and the wisdom of her friend struck me as profound and beautiful. So, with the permission of the author, OceanStarr, I submit for your reading pleasure the following original piece...
Things I learned from my dog
1. Be yourself. Always. It's the thing you do best.
2. If you really want to have some fun, you're going to get dirty and you're going to get hurt sometimes
3. Getting dirty and/or hurt isn't bad. Most of the time, you'll heal... you can wash up later.
4. Love unconditionally. This doesn't mean to stay in the company of those who cause you pain... but always love them and want the best for them. People change and people always appreciate love. People respond to love. You attract more flies with honey than with vinegar.
5. We're pack animals. Humans and dogs are both pack animals. We do best when we are connected to others.
6. Forgive people BEFORE they hurt you. If you love unconditionally, this comes as part of the package. People are going to hurt you. Hopefully, most of it will be accidental... Occasionally, I'll step on Monster dog or kick him because he's following too close or we have some kind of tangle when we're wrestling. One time he was walking right behind me and I accidentally kicked him right in the face... hard enough to make him yelp. By the time I turned around, he was already smiling and wagging his tail again. He doesn't follow so close all the time anymore, but he didn't get mad or emotional about the accidental kick to the jaw. Learn from your injuries, but don't hold a grudge. Grudges just sap YOUR energy and extend the duration of the hurt.
7. Enjoy the good things. Smell the roses, chase the squirrels. Sleep on fluffy pillows if you have em. Savor the fruits of your labor. Monster piles all his toys up together sometimes AND THEN props his rawhide bone ON TOP of the toys. He moves pillows around on the couch so he can prop his doggy head up better. The universe gives us good things. Sometimes we're so wrapped up in day to day issues, we forget about the comfiness of the couch and the tastiness of our food. If we don't value and savor the gifts the Universe gives us, doesn't that tell the Universe we don't appreciate those gifts. Does that tell the Universe that it's a waste to give us good things? That we prefer our life tasteless and plain? A dog really knows how to enjoy its toys and its food and its comfort. A dog savors every loving touch from the Great Provider Human. Should we not savor every touch and gift from Our Great Provider?
8. Don't be afraid to make an ass out of yourself. Laughter is a gift. If you can't laugh at yourself, who can you laugh at?!?! We're all goofy animals sometimes. It's ok. We were made that way. We all burp and fart and sneeze and get hiccups and laugh inappropriately sometimes. We all stumble and trip over our own feet. Get up. Brush yourself off. Get over it.
9. Learn from people you trust.
10. Never apologize for who and what you are. If you're being the best YOU that you can be, then there's nothing to be embarrassed about. Learn and do it better next time if you make a mistake, but live without shame.
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