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Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Wed, 20 Feb 2008 23:35:00 GMT

I can show you the world
Shining, shimmering, splendid
Tell me, princess, now when did
You last let your heart decide?

I can open your eyes
Take you wonder by wonder
Over, sideways and under
On a magic carpet ride

A whole new world
A new fantastic point of view
No one to tell us no
Or where to go
Or say we're only dreaming

A whole new world
A dazzling place I never knew
But when I'm way up here
It's crystal clear
That now I'm in a whole new world with you
Now I'm in a whole new world with you

Unbelievable sights
Indescribable feeling
Soaring, tumbling, freewheeling
Through an endless diamond sky

A whole new world
Don't you dare close your eyes
A hundred thousand things to see
Hold your breath - it gets better
I'm like a shooting star
I've come so far
I can't go back to where I used to be

A whole new world
Every turn a surprise
With new horizons to pursue
Every moment red-letter
I'll chase them anywhere
There's time to spare
Let me share this whole new world with you

A whole new world
a whole new world
That's where we'll be
That's where we'll be
A thrilling chase
A wondrous place
For you and me

Monday, November 12, 2007

Mon, 12 Nov 2007 14:38:17 GMT

Source: California Psychics

PSYCHIC ANSWERS

Can ending a relationship be less painful?

Sometimes it makes it easier to weather the effects of a broken relationship by keeping in mind that life is impermanent: situations, people and relationships can change - and sometimes end. Yet no matter who is doing the leaving, there is a sense of loneliness and isolation that comes with taking the next steps to a solo path. "There's a three-part process to make this transition period less painful," says Joey ext. 9406 , who as a psychic and empathic spiritual advisor, picks up on every nuance of her client's pain and strives to help them overcome it.

Here's what she said:

To make this transition period less painful and complicated, nurture yourself during the recovery process by surrounding yourself with supportive friends, employing a "no contact" rule with your ex, and making a serious effort to nurture your body, mind and spirit as you heal.

When the people who are close to you tell you to lean on them, do it! Good friends and relatives will listen, give you feedback, validation and, more importantly, get you out of your environment and make you laugh. This kind of distraction and diversion is an excellent tactic to take your mind off the breakup. Of course the hurt will be there, but there's nothing like knowing you are loved and cherished for who you are by the people who stand by you in life.

Another thing to take very seriously, when the breakup is real and of the forever nature, is to do your best to have a "no contact" rule - or at least as little contact as possible with your former love. Time is wasted on push-pull arguments and blame games. Even sending out others to spy and report back to you doesn't allow for the "space and time" you need to mourn the end and begin to heal. The very worst thing to do is hate the other person or seek revenge, as it ultimately feeds on itself and destroys the vessel in which it is contained.

Take care of yourself tenderly during this period; take long walks, workout, get massages or whatever else makes you feel a little spoiled or happy. Who knows, with that kind of self-love and care you may just meet the person you are "supposed" to be with. But having said that, avoid looking for a relationship on the rebound to try to repair your loneliness. Chances are that when the relationship went sour, you were already feeling lonely. How many times have you heard, "It's better to be happy alone, than with someone who does not make you happy." And as trite as it may sound, it's true that in order to attract someone great and worthy of you, you do have to be happy yourself.

You will recover and radiate again. In the meantime, meditate, breathe, pray if you are so inclined. Having a spiritual guide to help you through this can be as important as having good friends. And, when you're ready, don't forget to visualize what you want and need from your next relationship.

Saturday, October 20, 2007

Sat, 20 Oct 2007 05:03:42 GMT

SO Today I havea makeover in my room and decided to set things up and arrange my blog accounts.. So many things inside my head i want to do alot i feel energetic, i feel clean i feel happy. I am in the mood...

So All that i will do is arrange and update the new blog i am creating since this one is full of my past..

I will keep two things differently, this one for past or emotions, the other for proffessional thoughts (haha) and my art..

Wednesday, July 18, 2007

Wed, 18 Jul 2007 23:10:09 GMT

checking..

Something i came across that just made me LOL

Fri, 16 Mar 2007 10:21:02 GMT

Why nice guys SUCK

Date: 2006-09-10, 9:19PM EDT

This is a long rant, so bear with me or hit your back button. I'm frustrated and in no mood for your shit either, so if you don't want to read it, well...

So I'm dating a nice guy now and it SUCKS. No other way to explain it, it just SUCKS. He's no challenge. He agrees with everything I say. He's got it all though - a decent job, a nice house, no kids, no psycho ex-wives, and he's tall and cute. Anyone ever seen that Friends episode when Alec Baldwin played Phoebe's boyfriend?? YEAH, my boyfriend is THAT nice. He's just too fucking nice. Nice is boring. I've never heard him raise his voice. He's never aggressive. He has no edge. He won't even drive over the speed limit and that fucking annoys the shit out of me, yet I sit in the passenger seat and keep my mouth shut... watching everyone whiz by us.

And don't get me started on the sex. Oh, excuse me... making love. After he cums (note I didn't mention anything about ME cumming), he rolls over and says "Oh, that was nice" with a little sigh. I KID YOU NOT, he says it EVERY TIME and then he sighs like he has just woken from a refreshing nap. I finally got so tired of missionary and him looking lovingly into my eyes and smiling as he came, that I threw him down on the couch one night and mounted him. At first he was terrified - yes, TERRIFIED. He thought something had possessed me. And it HAD -- it was sheer MADNESS. I fucked the shit out of him that night. And then he sighed and said "Oh, that was nice".

Now that we had the cowgirl position conquered (always with that sigh afterwards), it was time to move on to doggie. His ex-girlfriend never did doggie (hmmm... maybe there's a "nice" ex-girlfriend to blame for his timid niceness?? That bitch...). Anyway, I digress. I tell him I want him to fuck me from behind. Yes, I used the word "fuck" and I didn't care what he thought about it. He gets behind me and enters me, and damned if he didn't say "OH, THIS IS NICE" !!! Are there any 35 y/o men out there that haven't smacked a woman's ass when doing her doggie?? YES, and he's my boyfriend!

Tonight during sex, I think I'm gonna tell him to stick his finger in my ass when I'm riding him. THAT should be interesting.

So for the nice guys out there, my advice is this: It's great that you're nice (to an extent), but have some backbone. Don't be a spine donor all your life. When your girl is out of line, say something. Don't let her walk all over you. Occasionally, be a "bad" boy (being bad doesn't translate to abusive or criminal). Say "No" to her sometimes. Raise your voice and be heard. Say something dirty/sexy to her occasionally. Drink a few too many beers and piss out in public. Smack her ass. Don't ever use the word NICE to describe things, especially sex (okay, that may be a personal pet peeve). Have an interest in at LEAST one sport (or pretend to). Drive 5-10 miles over the speed limit once in awhile. Run an old lady off the road just for kicks (yeah, I'm kidding about this one... just ride her bumper for a few miles). Be aggressive during sex. Take off those damn white socks and Jesus sandals. Grow a goatee for a few weeks. Shave your balls. Stray from your routine and shake things up.

BE A MAN FOR GOD'S SAKE... and the women will fall at your feet.

Whew... THAT FELT NICE.

this is in or around A rant from a mad woman
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Friday, March 16, 2007

Fri, 16 Mar 2007 09:57:49 GMT

143 Reasons That I Will Be The Best Girlfriend You've Ever Had

Date: 2007-02-19, 2:30AM PST

I'm reposting this because I got some really awesome responses. (I added some!)

Please note: this is an ad for a people who are looking for a possible girlfriend, if that is the farthest thing from your mind please head to the next post or the NSA section! <3

1. I don't like to snuggle everytime we bang.
2. Sex isn't always love-making to me. Sometimes its just wild, sweaty monkey fucking. It's cool.
3. I'm short so I will always be able to look up at you
4. I have gorgeous eyes
5. I enjoy being a girl (But not a valleygirl!)
6. Can be one of the boys
7. I don't wear grannie panties!
8. I am curvalicious!
9. I go to the gym
10. I love dogs and cats, even lizards!
11. I have long hair
12. I won't drag you shopping with me (that's what girlfriends are for!)
13. I will scratch your back (in and out of the shower)
14. I will not move into your apartment the first chance I get.
15. Like you, I am scared of commitment
16. I won't steal food out of your plate after ordering a salad.
17. I wont order a salad.
18. I'm genuine.
19. I have all my shots.
20. I've travelled.
21. I didn't vote for Bush or Arnold Swaggawaggadingdong either.
22. I'm in.
23. I will hide around corners and try to scare you in the dark of the night.
24. I will end up scaring myself and you'll have to calm me down.
25. I will sneak out of the bed and brush my teeth before you get up so we can have hygenic morning sex. (I might drop a mint into yours. don't choke)
26. I collect keychains and currency.
27. I won't nag you when you watch sports. (I'll watch if soccer is on!)
28. I write the date with European notation (Today is 13 January, 2007)
29. I'm Indian (from the country) and I speak Spanish!
30. I like the color purple.
31. I will let you be the man in the relationship.
32. I get my toes done.
33. I work.
34. I school.
35. Did I mention that I like the color purple? I do.
36. I have excellent spelling and grammar. (ya, I goof sometimes!)
37. I watch Family Guy, Simpsons, American Dad.
38. I know something about cars.
39. I can't drive automatic (You shouldn't be able to either)
40. I give heart-felt (sometimes homemade)gifts.
41. I don't hold grudges.
42. I will love your penis
43. I always smell good. (well almost)
44. I dance!
45. I keep-up my nails
46. I listen to pretty much everything.
47. I know that 4 stroke isn't a dirty joke.
48. I know what makes the rocking world go round.
49. I'll lay naked in bed with you.
50. My bed isn't overstuffed with furry animals (except my cat, but he's real)
51. I don't ghost ride.
52. But I can get hyphy.
53. I'm artsy without being artsy.
54. I give supreme oral.
55. I have a car (6 speed mani trans anyone?)
56. It turns me on when you work on your car.
57. I'm not opposed to having a hump-session anytime anywhere.
58. I don't want you to spoon me everynight
59. I like you to poke me in the butt in the morning
60. I will rate your burps. (1-10)
61. You can pee while I'm brushing my teeth.
62. I'll put sunburn cream on you if you go crispy.
63. I make a bomb spicy chicken alfredo risotto.
64. I don't mind taking out the garbage.
65. I let you open jars that "I can't open"
66. I won't ever cheat.
67. My first boyfriend used to hit me and then he cheated, so I've learned to stand up for myself.
68. I 'm gracious.
69. I laugh like there's no tomorrow.
70. I would sneak into your office and give you desk head.
71. I would fax you my ass.
72. I know what displacement means. (In reference to cars)
73. I can cook, clean, bake and I'll drink a beer while doing it.
74. I will hold you when you need it.
75. I listen when you need to talk.
76. I will be your date to anything that you need. (even that monster car rally, you hick)
77. I will remember your birthday (and I'll make it so that you will always remember it *wink wink*)
78. I don't need fancy things to have a good time.
79. I don't care what we are doing as long as its with you.
80. You will always look hot as hell to me first thing in the morning.
81. I'll initiate sex.
82. I get free condoms from school.
83. I'm 22 with the mind of a 30 year old and a heart of a 10 year old.
84. I dont do drugs. I don't smoke.
85. I won't sleep with your best friend.
86. Your dog/cat can sleep with us at night.
87. I only need to see you 2-3 times a week.
88. I only need a 2-10 minute phone call everyday. (Make sure you're okay. I worry!)
89. I make bomb brownies.
90. I have sexy lips.
91. I am a bio student and I know all about anatomy. (ie. I know where the good parts are)
92. I will hang out in your clothes to keep your smell close to me (it wont be your gym clothes though, sorry.)
93. I won't put girlie things into your bathroom/shower/room
94. I'll "accidently" leave my sexy underwear in your bed
95. I keep myself well dressed and groomed (for the most part)
96. I won't burden you with my PMS problems.
97. I brush my teeth 2x a day
98. Shower atleast once!
99. I'll never kick you in the crotch on purpose.
100. I won't make fun of your manhood (In public)
101. I take exactly one hour from wake up to car to get ready.
102. I pee as fast as a hamster on crack (but into the toilet)
103. I can operate a fire extinguisher
104. I would rather see an epic movie than a chickflick (that's what girlfriends and gays are for)
105. I treat you for ice cream or dinner too!
106. I love suprises.
107. Any present, big or small, will make me happy because I know that you were thinking about me.
108. I know when Pirate Day is.
109. I have all my teeth (minus wisdoms) and they are straight.
110. I pay my own bills.
111. I'm not looking for financial support
112. I don't want to marry you right now.
113. I can't get pregnant unless I want to. (sex all the time!)
114. I'll let you hug me even when you are sweaty.
115. I won't drag you to the manicurist.
116. I don't eat pizza with a fork and knife.
117. I won't go out all night without letting you know and let you freak out.
118. I'll call when I say I will. (or text in lieu of calling if I'm still occupied)
119. I won't text you while you are out with your friends.
120. Your wallet, car and house don't impress me.
121. Treat me like a lady and I will treat you like a man and I will always be there for you.
122. I have a rack that I will shamelessly display for you.
123. I can pick things up with my toes.
124. I don't hog blankets (well, sometimes)
125. I drink a lot of water.
126. I can burp a couple of letters.
127. I can gleak when I eat sour things. (and pretty far too)
128. I still have the Snoopy I was given the day I was born.
129. I can carry a conversation for long than 30 seconds.
130. I memorize weird facts and will regurge them at random oppurtunities.
131. I love ketchup.
132. I won't go through your drawers or try to get into your cellphone/email.
133. I love showering and just laying in the sun (indoors!) to dry off.
134. I keep my car up to date on her oil changes.
135. Your laugh will make me smile years to come.
136. I will put post-its in random places for you to find when I'm not there.
137. I know what a barometer is.
138. I still have my Minnie Mouse Comforter from way back in the day, because they just don't make them the same anymore.
139. I think quarters are the best coin. and 20's are the best bill.
140. I read a lot.
141. You + Me + Dancing + Outdoors + Rain = Afternoon fun.
142. I don't listen to a lot of pop either.
143. You have already invested by reading this, so take a leap.

Caution before you leap: You must meet the criteria!

*Between the ages of 22-26 (please, if you are 26, 27 do not play the 'I'm older than you, thus more experienced' card. It's not attractive and you don't know what I've been through)

*Tall!! (I love em tall)

*NOT deathly skinny or skinny in general(Meaning, if you're 6"1' and you weight the same as a sack of potatoes.. you're too skinny.. I like my men with meat)

*Intelligent(If you all of your stories start with 'I was so drunk'.. its not going to work.. must be able to carry conversation)

*Have had some interaction with women besides sliding out of your mom's vajay.

*You and your teeth are white and straight.

*Well-groomed (I don't mean that you wear armani crap, but have clean-cut nails and if you keep facial hair, that it's maintained so you don't look like a domesticated animal)

*Please be a gentleman (Don't ask me about my favorite position the first time we talk. Everytime I use a word that could be used in a sexual reference doesn't mean that I am referring to having sex with you. ie: 'do it.' Grow up shall we?)

*Do not be looking for only sex. (I do not come as a sex only package. My vagina is not up for auction)

*Be decent enough to send a pic of your face and a blurb about you that is more that "holla back" or "hit me up short-stuff." (Please don't flatter yourself thinking that a pic of your abs will work like panty-dynamite. It doesn't and instead responses like that send out the signal that you are looking for only one thing, or that you are too stupid to formulate intelligable human conversation in the English language.)

*Dont be adversely opposed to something normal. (for example: myspace, showers, tv, cellphones, radio, music, oral hygiene, living in one place, eating spicy foods, exploring, sunshine. You think I'm kidding but I've met guys from each category. Please be aware that you live in society!!)

*Be unique, but not TOO unique!

Overall, be nice, look like something more attractive than an ogre and try to not such a sleazy horndog! Thanx!

Please respond if you are still interested. Props for reading the whole thing! +15 bonus points for completing it.

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rofffllll.....

Fri, 16 Mar 2007 09:43:07 GMT

Why The Hell Is The Dog Getting Laid More Than Me? - w4m – 35

Date: 2006-01-04, 2:42PM EST

Simply put it’s because animals don’t complicate sex with feelings. Animals don’t “go out for a drink or dinner or whatever”. Animals don’t have a “litany of reasons why they have not gotten out in a very long time”. Animals don’t say things like “Please be under 40, single, good looking, professional or at least well read, D/D free, and available Saturday night.” And animals don’t say “YOU HAVE TO SEND ME A PIC!”

When an animal is hungry they eat. They don’t care much what they eat. Some dogs will eat themselves sick and will eat poisonous things too. When an animal is thirsty they drink. Again, not too much thought goes into satisfying this need. When an animal is in heat they mate. No talking, no dinner and a movie, no nice car, no nice shoes. They give off a pheromone scent and howl to let others know they’re ready.

If you’re truly a good-looking woman, who’s busty, professional, with a big butt, and up for almost anything then the fault is yours alone. I’d do you, and most of my friends would do you too.
But being a girl is so very hard. You want to get laid, but you complicate things with history and emotion. If you make him shower and make him wear a condom you have eliminated 95% of the threat to yourself. If you carry a gun or a serrated knife then you’ve cut the remaining threat 5% down to 2%.
So there you are, 98% sure he’s safe enough to screw. And statistically speaking, most guys are clean and most guys are safe. Just like most guys’ just want to screw. We like women who like us. If you give it to us we’ll gratefully take it.

So what’s stopping you? You’re a girl. You have to talk to him. Have to. Genetic compulsion. If you don’t talk to him then you’d be a guy. Guys don’t talk to the hamburger they eat. If you’re horny then screw. If you’re thirsty then drink. You have to know if he can form sentences like an English teacher, because if he can’t talk then he can’t screw. At least that’s what girls think. You have to know that he has a job, or is looking for a job. You have to know that he lives on his own or he’s had a bad setback and is only living at home recently and temporarily because if he’s not ambitious then he can’t screw.
I mean how good could that steak dinner be if the cow was a mamma’s boy and a slacker and couldn’t conjugate Moos to save his life. If he was smart and sensitive, maybe he wouldn’t be on your plate in the first place.
No I don’t work for PETA.
No I’m not a vegetarian.
My point is that women don’t want sex. Why is the dog getting laid more than you? Because the dog wants to get laid. Women don’t want to get laid. If they did, they would. Women want safety and security and comfort and dependability. Women want a shoulder to lean on, a chest to cry on, a lap to sit on, and someone to count on. Women want to cuddle and talk and share secrets. Women want to go out and be out and stay out. Women want to see a great show, have a great meal, and dance at a great club. Women like dressing up and being seen, but when they stay in women like foreplay. Sex is like dessert, but foreplay is the true meal, the reason you came, the entrée, and the most fulfilling part of the dinner. Women can orgasm standing in the supermarket checkout line. They don’t need men for orgasm. They have better toys then men do, trust me. Women don’t want sex. Women want to make a deep quality connection with someone who will listen and respect them until death they do part, except when Patrick Swayze haunted Demi Moore. Even death can’t keep them apart. How romantic is that?
Speaking as a man, we’re more like dogs. We can be your best friends and we’re loyal to who feeds us best. We’re trainable, if you take the time to train us, but when it’s time to mate, then mate. Don’t have a headache, and don’t plan a special vacation to Vermont next month. Step up or step back and let some other woman try. I know this is wholly unattractive now, but why would I cheat if you were giving me sex when I wanted it? Everything can’t be blamed on women, but men don’t complicate sex with feelings. We just want to get laid. Just like dogs.

Well, I gotta be back to work. I hope this was more educational than funny.
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Friday, March 16, 2007

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Monday, February 26, 2007

Mon, 26 Feb 2007 10:40:39 GMT

We Need To Talk...

How to handle the dreaded final words -- and the end of a relationship

by A.K. Boyle
Published: 02/19/2007

There may not be a right way to handle being dumped. But there's most certainly a wrong way. Here are a few tips for letting go of your relationship--not your dignity.

Keep your cool
No one's exactly thrilled to hear that their union 'isn't working out,' but giving into your anger won't pay in the long run. You can trust that there are two uncomfortable sides to this conversation. If your partner is worth missing, it hurts her, too. And if she isn't, then she's hardly worth a scene you'll regret later. Shouting and name calling will only reinforce her decision. It's possible that your feelings aren't the only things that are hurting, but try not to let your pride cloud your judgment. Your partner's decision to walk away isn't a reflection on you; how you handle the scenario is. As difficult or unfair as your partner may be at the moment, the two of you did choose to share something of yourselves. Don't let an ugly break-up deprive you of a fond memory for the future.

Get answers (but don't expect satisfaction)
If you're up for it, now is the time to collect the explanation you'll need for closure. Communication can become muddled and unpredictable after a break-up, and most of us need a little information before we can close the book on a relationship. It's especially important if your ex-partner didn't have the decency to face you in person. Ask (carefully and in a non-accusatory tone) what has changed and why he isn't happy. When the irons have cooled, his answers could prove useful, especially if it's clear his dissatisfaction has sources over which you have no control. Plus, you'll have your chance to make your own position known (in a civil and rational way you'll want to remember later). Of course, if you're not up for a re-hash of old hurts, feel free to keep it short and simple. Let's face it; some things are better left unheard.

Believe it's best
It isn't lip service. If your partner is throwing in the towel, you don't want to be in that match anymore. A relationship weighed down by resentment or uncertainty has no value to you. At best, staying together now would only mean a few months of uncomfortable uncertainty, followed by break-up further down the line. You run the risk of further alienating each other, and are less likely to be amicable later. Not to mention there's a lot of satisfaction in revenge -- especially when it comes in the form of a life well-lived.

Concentrate on the positive
Seriously. Don't get so hung up on what you're losing that you lose sight of what you have to gain. Take advantage of your newly earned free time to return to yourself. See the friends she hated; watch the movies that made her yawn. A little proactive flirting is the perfect therapy to remind you of how desirable you are and what is no longer off-limits.

Make a clean break
Walk away now, and don't look back. Asking your ex questions is one thing. Arguing your case is another. The moment he announces he's finished trying, he's lost the right to your energy. If you hope to get back together, being apart first is the best course of action. If you want to tackle the friendship thing, give it time first. The easiest way to sabotage a post-breakup friendship is to try too soon. Give it a few months. Then take it slowly