Another thing I don’t approve of.  Yes, I’m a pretentious bitch.  But I don’t need to approve of everything,and I hope she knows that. 

There was a time that we talked about “players” and“sluts”.  It seems more acceptable for a man to be promiscuous, though many women will avoid such men.  Men will talk badly about a promiscuous woman – but then they’ll still bang her.  Men have sex with women they don’t like. That must mean women have sex with men who don’t like them.  This isn’t always the case with a sexually active woman, of course, but when it is, that seems pretty slutty to me. 

The prostitute is the ultimate example of this.  Men who hate women have sex with prostitutesso they can look down on them.  They perform the act as a degrading thing. Many dislike their significant others, or can’t form stable enough relationships to have significant others, and they take it out on the whore.  Not all Johns truly hate women, of course, but they virtually all see themselves as better than or above the prostitute.  It’s demeaning for the woman, but the men aren’t exactly victimizers when the woman has a choice in the matter.  She chooses to degrade herself, and sells her dignity.  Virtually any job is better than that. 

Prostitutes probably don’t see things this way, of course, so is it still possible for her to be degraded if she doesn’t see the act as reprehensible?  For argument, let’s say no.  How does she see it then?  As an easy way to make men give her money.  This objectifies men, turning them into animals, objects of uncontrollable lust.  Both people are having sex.  One of them pays for it.  If that isn’t demeaning, I don’t know whatis.  This highlights, of course, a natural advantage of women.  They are themore desirable ones, the sexier sex. Prostitutes take this natural imbalance, this inequality, and exploitit.  They make men pay for something that should be free and natural.  And men resent it.  The more they resent it, themore they resent women, and specifically, prostitutes.  Then they have sex with them, because men fuck women they hate.

She thought most young men were too horny to have strong morals regarding sex.  Most men do, though.  That’s why they look down on the prostitute.  They just don’t think about it, and they act selfishly.  There's a lot of actions with a socially destructive side that escape my ire, of course, so why make out prostitution to be so particularly bad?  Because I think that sex is particularly special.  I don't know why, but I do know I'm not the only one.  It's why rape, pedophilia, and sex slavery are so horribly shocking.  It's why our society is so fixated on sex, and why there's so much business for prostitutes.

Men need to stop screwing people they don’t like.  First it’s that slut he trash talks.  Later it’s a hooker.  For some of them, the next step is rape.  Women, for their part, shouldn’t encourage them.  They should stay away from players and other men who don’t value them, and never treat a man as a horny lesser being.  I’m a man, and I want to be treated with equality and respect - don't ask if I want a happy ending in the massage parlor unless you're willing to give it away for free.  When a man isn't looking for a caring partner and doesn't care about the women he's with, we should keep that on equal terms too.  The woman should look the player in the eyes and scream, “Say my name, bitch!”  That doesn’t sound very slutty at all.