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Original: 2/23/2006 11:18 PM
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Thursday, February 23, 2006

 Yay! Another good day... well emotions-wise. I made some pretty iffy choices with food after school, but I'll see how it all plays out...

Breakfast: 5
    Granola Bar... with chocolate on it =\

Lunch: 4
    Cheez it pack: 2
    Chips Ahoy pack: 2
    Water

Snacks: 5
    Popsicle: 1-2 (?)
    Some Chocolate: 3
    1 tater tot: not even 1...

Dinner: 9
    Beef Stew: 5
    2 slices of bread: 4

Total: 23/28 (Lol... okay, what was I worried about?)

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I have a question...

There is this guy... who (I think) is interested in me... he trys to talk to me all the time at school and online... and I made the mistake of giving out my cell phone number and now he's texting me. The problem is... I'm not interested in him AT ALL. He's not my type in the slightest way shape or form... he's dumb as a rock. He 'hypothetically' asked me out a few days ago... and I said no, but he's like not giving up.

... How do I tell him to back off? I feel really bad being rude about it, because I know how bad it feels to be rejected... but I'm not going to lie about it and pretend I'm interested. I'm not, and chances are that I won't ever be. I can't have a relationship with someone that I can't even have a complex conversation with. =\ (This also makes subtlely -sp- hinting that I don't like him even more difficult.)

... Thanks guys. I can't really ask my friends, I'm afraid they'll laugh. It's something they deal with a lot... the pretty girl thing... but they don't understand how I just can't blow him off and act like a bitch about it. =\

Hmm... good news though-- I'm over the guy from camp. I don't ever see him, so it's silly to even think about something developing from that. It's a BIG campus and if we can't keep in touch, there's no reason to fanticize... there is one other guy that's sorta sweet-ish, but he's in a long-term relationship with this girl, and I don't really think I could see him as boyfriend material. He's almost too perfect, lol. Annnnyways. I'm a loner... always and forever I guess.

<3 Kiri
 Posted 2/23/2006 11:18 PM - 1 view - 6 comments

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hm, thats a toughie. i would tough it out until he "asked" me out again (or even made mention) and then say something like im not interested in a nice way. or, i would complain randomly about how stressed i was and be like i dont have time for anything! i could never have enough time for a bf right now! or something. yeah, lame answers. but i tried, haha.
Posted 2/23/2006 11:40 PM by shamrox42 - reply

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yay girl.stay strong.your doing wonderful too!<3
Posted 2/24/2006 7:49 PM by x10000fakesmiles - reply

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Good job on intake! I dont know what you were worried about looks like you did great!

On the guy thing... There was a guy who was doing that to me a little while ago and I just finally asked him, are you interested in me or not? Because he would call, text message, and talk to me online all the time. And he was like, no... why? It turns out he was just looking for a good friend. Maybe the guy is lonely? Ya never know until you ask. It will be kinda awkward, but you will feel much better when everything is out in the open and you (or him) dont have to wonder anymore.

Sorry I couldnt come up with anything better! Hope things go well!

Posted 2/24/2006 8:24 PM by Mrs__Mraz - reply

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Just be open and truthful to him but be nice to him about it..  On the other hand, I agree with the above commenter.  Don't know if that helps much.
Posted 2/24/2006 9:43 PM by LacyBunny - reply

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Thats a tough place to be in cuz you really dont want to hurt his feelings. I would just tell him you arent interested at this time. I agree with the other comments too...he might just want a friend! Very good point!
Posted 2/24/2006 10:38 PM by Fit_Fat - reply

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You could say that you're interested into someone else and that you only think of him as a friend. That's the easiest and least hurtful way..

Great job on your intake!

-Shelby

Posted 2/25/2006 11:12 AM by iknowmagic_fatbegone - reply


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