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Wednesday, April 30, 2008

its been a while..

its been over a year since i posted a xanga entry.. the last time i posted was around january of last year.. much has changed.. new job.. new phone (same number though).. i have started to wear glasses.. some of my short term goals also have changed.. i have decided to take the CFA.. however one thing that hasnt changed are many of my habits and thoughts..

so i am work right now.. i left ernst & young as an auditor and am currently at blackrock.. i am now an investment accountant.. its not ideally what i want to do.. however the economy is pretty shaky right now and the positions that i have been trying to aim at are ont necessarily open.. in fact its the opposite that is occurring..

i felt that i have grown up a bit more this past year.. however much of this year consisted of worrying over various things.. stress level was quite high.. high enough where at times i wasnt able to think straight.. it was a combination of job related.. health related.. family related and market related stress.. i was almost at the point where i took on more than i could handle.. however thats been surmounted.. i have took drastic measures to forge change.. and i am still a work in progress..

one thing about me is that i dont necessarily fear change.. i am open to it.. however theres always that level of uncertainty in which i work hard to make certain.. i was only at my prior job for 18 months prior to leaving.. i guess thats a first among my group of peers.. to have left one employer for another.. it really felt good though.. to leave the dreadful audit world.. the world where i am overworked and underpaid.. redoing the work of other accountants (as if accounting itself was not bad enough).. waiting and harassing clients to give me what i need so i can get my job done.. i would have to say that relative to what i had to deal with.. my position now is so much better.. i no longer go to work thinking to myself what the f#@! am i doing here.. i am focused and am absorbing.. i like learning about investments.. learning about the accounting for them is another story.. its bearable.. lols..

in terms of any things i have been thinking about this past year.. there hasn't been too much.. i normally like to think about specific things and just analyze it.. but since my last entry.. its pretty much been all action.. setting forth the change that i wished to see relative to my goals.. theres also been much reevaluating and reassessing.. many people have always commented about how i have a master plan laid out and that i should be flexible.. i was quite flexible this past year.. many of my short term goals have changed.. however.. the life mission hasnt.. and it never will

i can see some additional changes in the coming months.. till then probably might not be any entries.. for the foreseeable summer in the coming months.. its pretty much gonna be studying for the CFA.. volunteering at UEAA.. and playing sports..

 


Saturday, February 10, 2007

my views on helping others..

been too long since i xangaed.. hate busy season.. anyways i was just playing around with my turbotax software i got through a friend.. anyone need help with their taxes? in preparation for my plans to start a business doing tax and financial planning i am offering to help limited numbers of people..

so i did the internship fair at baruch yesterday for EY.. so i saw a lot of people i knew.. spoke to a lotta people.. spoke to about 40-50 people in a matter of 3 hours.. giving them a substantial amount of time.. it was fun.. i learned a lot.. but extremely exhausting.. thankfully i got some time off of doing dreadful audit work.. being me.. i felt i had to add a bit of value when i spoke to them.. whether its giving them advice on what they should do to be able to maintain the level of competition to obtain a position relatively similar to mine.. or just career advice in general..

not a day goes by where a person doesn't ask for my help for something materially important to them.. whether its doing resumes.. reviewing essays.. recommendations to jobs.. advice or what not about different things.. i honestly dont mind helping people with personal added value "services".. but i do hate it when people ask me to do administrative work for them.. unles its materially saves them a lot of time or adds great value and at the cost of very little time on my behalf..

aligning myself with my life mission.. i have primarily focused on helping people who in turn will help others.. generally when i help people.. i dont expect anything more than you being able to.. number one.. pass along the time that i saved you through helping you so that you will have time to help others.. or the knowledge and skill that i have taught where you will pass along to others also.. number two.. when i ask for help that doesnt neccesary make you go out of your way.. i dont expect to not be helped (this is different from expecting to be helped).. and third.. when i help a person.. to me its an inherent offer of friendship.. ideally i would like for everyone i have helped out to become more than just an acquaintance.. not that i am dying to make tons of friends through helping them.. cuz i do have a lot of good friends that i have made over time.. not neccessarily built on the foundation of me helping them.. but on a deeper level.. but it never hurts to have an extra friend..

generally i do like helping people.. my life feels more meaningful when i do.. although sometimes i am hesistant in helping selfish people who just take my value added services and keep to themselves for their \own satisfaction.. discontinuing that free flow of services that i ideally like to see.. cuz in the end my life mission is to improve the quality of life of asians and to empower them with the skills and knowledge to achieve equality.. you can see where this is going.. my services rendered will eventually help others and create a free flow effect.. where it improves the quality of life of asians on a wider scale..

with this in mind.. i have developed a mindset where i am always trying to obtain information.. or gather resources.. where i know its gonna help a lot of people one day.. i am always asking people questions to learn more about certain things which are irrelevant to me.. but will help others.. i am always trying to hook people up with jobs so in turn they can hook other people up with the same thing.. rather than selling my textbooks.. i just lend them to my friends.. same with my CPA prep software.. i made sure i finished everything in time so that i can lend it to my friends so i can save their asses a bunch of money.. even recorded a bunch of lectures and have those floating around the market somewhere to help people pass the CPA.. some of the things i do..

i guess sometimes people find it strange why i like to help people.. i mean yeah.. to some degree there is an alterior motive. cuz i am trying to accomplish my life mission.. whether directly with my own effort or indirectly by helping others.. i always view my time as valuable.. but in many cases its never too valuable when i have the opportunity to drastically change someones life forever.. and they in turn will be thankful and be obligated to change someone elses life the same way..


Sunday, January 14, 2007

procrastination..

Put off reading this until tax time: Americans procrastinate

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• 26 percent of Americans think of themselves as chronic procrastinators
• People who procrastinate tend to be less healthy, less wealthy and less happy
• Men are worse than women
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WASHINGTON (AP) -- After 10 years of research on a project that was supposed to take only five years, a Canadian industrial psychologist found in a giant study that not only is procrastination on the rise, it makes people poorer, fatter and unhappier.

Something has to be done about it, sooner rather than later, University of Calgary professor Piers Steel concludes. His 30-page study is in this month's peer-reviewed Psychological Bulletin, published by the American Psychological Association.

In 1978, only about 5 percent of the American public thought of themselves as chronic procrastinators. Now it's 26 percent, Steel said.

And why not? There are so many fun ways to kill time -- TVs in every room, online video, Web-surfing, cell phones, video games, iPods and Blackberries.

At work, e-mail, the Internet and games are just a click away, making procrastination effortless, Steel said.

"That stupid game Minesweeper -- that probably has cost billions of dollars for the whole society," he said.

The U.S. gross national product would probably rise by $50 billion if the icon and sound that notifies people of new e-mail suddenly disappear, he added.

And there's good reason to worry right now about the problem of procrastination.

"People who procrastinate tend to be less healthy, less wealthy and less happy," Steel said Wednesday. "You can reduce it, but I don't think you can eliminate it."

Psychologist William Knaus, who has written several self-help books on fighting procrastination since 1977's "Overcoming Procrastination," said Steel is "absolutely right."

Tough habit to break

He said he found it harder to wean chronic procrastinators from the habit of delaying than to wean alcoholics from booze. Knaus mentioned one businessman who spent 40 hours of delay time to avoid five minutes of work.

"It's a huge problem," Knaus said. "I think the majority of mental disabilities people have -- anxiety, panic -- they can be defined as a special case of procrastination."

There is personal financial fallout from procrastination, too. Delay in filing taxes on average costs a person $400 a year and last-minute Christmas shopping with credit cards was five times higher in 1999 than in 1991, Steel found in a review of more than 500 economic and psychological studies about putting off unpleasant chores.

Steel's study found that in the past quarter century, the average self-score for procrastination (using a 1-to-5 scale with 1 being no delaying) has increased by 39 percent.

Overall, more than a quarter of Americans say they procrastinate. Men are worse than women (about 54 out of 100 chronic procrastinators are men) and the young are more like to procrastinate than the old, Steel said. Three out of four college students consider themselves procrastinators.

Early studies looking at U.S. and Canadian cultures didn't find any differences in the two countries' procrastination problem, but Steel said when he has more time he'll get around to more cross-cultural studies.

The causes of procrastination combine temptation, sense of immediacy, the value of doing the job, and whether you believe you can get the work done, Steel found. He even created a complicated mathematical formula, complete with Greek letters, to figure out when a person is likely to procrastinate.

Temptation is the biggest factor. And it's why procrastination is getting worse, Steel said, citing technology.

"It's easier to procrastinate now than ever before. We have so many more temptations," he said. "It's never been harder to be self-disciplined in all of history than it is now."

But procrastination goes back thousands of years, before technology. Ancient literature harps on the problem, Steel said. Knaus mentioned a book from 1852: "Thoughtless Little Fanny: The Unhappy Results of Procrastination." The author is just called "a friend of children."

While many self-help books say perfectionists procrastinate because they don't want to get things wrong, Steel found just the opposite. Perfectionists procrastinate less and do better because they avoid delaying. However they do worry more about putting stuff off, he said.

Studying procrastination as a field has a benefit, said the professor. The more he knows about the problem and the causes, the less he procrastinates -- even though he sheepishly acknowledges his study was completed five years late.

The good thing about studying procrastination, he said: "If you take a day off from it, you can always say it's field research."

from cnn.com..


Monday, January 08, 2007

lols..

Jack,  this is your registered Fall 2006 course schedule.

Start Date:  August 30, 2006 End Date:   December 13, 2006
COURSEMON TUE WED THU FRI SAT SUN
TAX 9866     Start:05:40pm
End:08:10pm
Room:3125
Bldg:VC
       
TAX 9863   Start:05:40pm
End:08:10pm
Room:4125
Bldg:VC
         
COURSEREG
CODE
DESCRIPTIONSECTCREQ
CR
HRSGRD
TAX  9866 0341 CORPORATE TAX I W54A 3.0 3.0 3.0 B+ 
TAX  9863 0340 PRIN FEDERAL INC TAX T54A 3.0 3.0 3.0 B+ 

 

yeah my grades suck.. o wells..

busy season kickoff today.. since there was night enough work for me to do today.. i got to leave at around 7.. i wont be as lucky in the future obviously.. about 9-10 more weeks of this..

anyways.. recap for 2006.. not too many memorable highlights.. i was in shanghai this time of year last year.. that was awesome.. kareoke for new years.. puked my lungs out.. niceee.. then i spent my last semester just laying back.. at first i wanted to push myself.. but then i decided just to relax a bit to fix up my neck problems and asthma.. then i finally graduated.. i didnt have fun like most people for the summer.. put myself into nerd mode and studied for that damn cpa and i did some volunteering of course.. so relieved i passed.. then came part time grad school.. and then working full time.. then passing the cpa..

anyways long story short.. the first half of 2006 i enjoyed and the last half was just about being productive.. i miss it when life was pretty simple.. i have been watching a good amount of tvb lately though.. i turn tvb into homework lols.. i watch and take notes.. i know its odd.. but its my way of improving my chinese while i am entertained.. thats what i try to fill my time with.. do fun things but at the same time theres gotta be some type of long term benefit to what i do.. o wells whatevers.. i am very tired..


Monday, January 01, 2007

new years resolution time

first off happy new years everyone..

almost forgot about new years resolutions this year.. last year this time of the year i was in shanghai.. i miss shanghai when life was sorta simple.. much has changed in 2006 as it had in 2005.. i seem to change fairly quickly.. cuz i focus on always improving the different aspects of my life

a couple of things that were a part of my new years resolution for 2006.. graduate.. pass the CPA.. adjusting to working full time.. finish all my books for chinese school.. learn 5 canto songs for kareoke by summer.. get a part time accounting job in chinatown once i got back from shanghai.. read 12 books throughout the year.. half business half nonbusiness.. continue to influence people about investing.. hit my net worth goal by my birthday.. improve my health..  

heres the evaluation just glancing through the list of resolutions i have made for last year.. i have graduated.. passed the cpa.. adjusted to working fulltime.. as for the other goals.. i am up to the second to last book for chinese school.. i learned 3 canto songs by year end.. i didnt get the accounting job in chinatown after coming back from shanghai.. i didnt even read a single book throughout the year.. i have continued to make differences in peoples lives.. i was on track for my net worth goal.. but things soured throughout the summer in the markets.. as for my health.. my back got a bit better.. but neck got worse.. and so did my breathing..

i tend to take my goals very seriously.. and yes i am somewhat disappointed that i was not able to accomplish everything.. for various reasons.. but reflecting back.. i have made incremental changes yet again.. i have learned a great deal about myself.. but this year more importantly.. i learned a great deal about the people around me and the world.. whether its from shanghai.. or just reading about the world events.. this year.. i have been a bit less focused on wealth building and more on making a difference.. but regardless of not living up to the new years resolutions i have made.. i am satisfied overall with who i have become.. some of my goals have changed along the way this year too.. which is always a good thing because that simply means i am more clearly defining the path to get to where i wanna go..

for 2007.. what is to come for old jaqo here? discipline was an area that i truly focused on in 2006.. i said i was gonna focus on it in 2005.. i never realized that i can discipline myself to such a great degree.. i have tested myself as i finished and passed the CPA through consistent study habits and developing that mindset.. i learned that to truly succeed in your goals.. you have to assume the mindset of that goal.. i think thats probably the most important thing that i have learned in 2006.. mindset.. you have to align yourself with the goal.. and most importantly.. it begins with the mind.. you have to think it.. feel it.. breathe it.. sleep it.. eat and shit it.. lols.. you just gotta program it into your subconscious mind.. have a plan of action.. and then just execute with consistency.. i am really glad that cpa is over.. i am moving on to my next short term goal of improving my canto and mando.. then theres the LSATs..

well alrite.. the resolutions for this year.. its mostly gonan revolve around improving my canto/mando.. the LSATs.. and school.. everyday that i go to work and come back i must listen to my mando learning audios.. i am going to watch a minimum of 10 tvb episodes on a weekly basis.. i will finish my chinese school books and the classes by may of this year and then review it for the rest of the year and start reading a new chinese book.. gonna go over to one my friends home at minimum 3 times a month just to speak canto or mando only with her.. i am gonna read 4 books this year.. 3 nonbusiness and 1 business related.. begin studying for the LSATs in march.. i dont know when i will take the LSATs yet.. possibly in october or november.. maintain a 3.5 gpa per semester that i have classes.. volunteer in at least 3 organizations by the end of the year.. i am already doing vita and i know i am doing UEAA.. and attend some community board meetings.. catch up on my networth.. and most importantly.. improve my health.. i feel this was an incomplete entry that i just wrote.. and i am not really thinking straight today.. my next entry will include my disappointing MS in tax grades and a recap of the year 2006..



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