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Thursday, July 03, 2008

jojo taipei dinner

catie:   so how long have you two been married?
beata:  2 years
loren:   forever
ken:     ha. i like those answers.


Monday, March 31, 2008

Book Review: Rich Dad, Poor Dad

I just finished Rich Dad, Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money--That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not!, and the overall concepts/ philosophies really resonated with me.  [Not so much the writing -- way too repetitive.]   I'm realizing that financial literacy is as important a life-skill to learn as living on your own, finding an apt, getting a job, learning how to cook, learning how to date, etc... but for some reason, it's very low on people's priority lists here in Boston.  I understand that life is busy, that there are other "more important" things to think about and work on first.  But I also find it a little bit irresponsible to not bother learning something about finances at all.  It's like sticking your head in the sand.  I'm starting to wonder, if perhaps, in an effort to make it really clear that money isn't one's idol, people give themselves a pass to purposefully not-learn.  But I might argue that financial literacy actually enables you to be a better steward of your time, efforts, and finances. 

So this book confirmed alot for me in terms of what I've been doing right and what I've been doing wrong.  Now before I even started working, I knew 2 things were true of myself: 1) I can't sustain a high-stress work life forever, and 2) I don't like doing things by brute force. (For example, I can either go out and do 10 hrs of volunteer work myself or I can mobilize 10 friends to do 1 hr of volunteering each.  I can give money to missionaries myself or I can find a business that regularly buys from Amazon, and funnel their purchases through a referral program that kicks back donations directly to the missionaries.  Actually it's not "either/or", it's usually "and", but at least I know things are multiplying beyond my hr-by-hr or dollar-by-dollar efforts.)  So when I started working, I made a conscious decision to manage my expenses rigorously.  For every 1 month of work, I tried to buy myself 2 months of freedom/ options/ ability to take a paycut, or even not-work.  It wasn't painful, I just maintained my previous grad student standard of living.  The painful part was enduring the endless heckling from friends and constantly defending myself (e.g. "what the heck are you saving up for?  you can't take that to heaven ya know.  live a little!").  Ironically, I think everyone expected (and wanted) my expenses to increase except for me.  I realize now that there's a big difference between hoarding and being savy.  7 months in, I've bought myself 15 months worth of freedom to not-be-tied-to-a-paycheck.  This means I can actually afford to dream, think about what I want to learn from work (versus whether I'll be able to pay my bills), and think about where I'm going in life.

On the other hand though, I realize my mentality is still in the poor dad/ middle-class column (reinforced by a lifetime of messages from parents, education system, society at large, etc).  This book has definitely changed my attitude on work and forced me to open up my mind more.   I have the fiscal discipline part down, so the next step is to gainfully employ those extra dollars and put them to work.  Being young, single, with no kids, and no actual liabilities (no mortgage, no car payments, no credit card debt), I can afford to take on more risk.  Anyway, back to the book...

Here are some snippets.  I recommend this as a starting point for everybody.  It's more about the basic philosophy/approach than about actual strategies.  Most of us are in column 1 (including me).  It has nothing to do with how much you make.  It has everything to do with how you think and what you do with what you make.

Poor Dad

Rich Dad

“I can’t afford it” --> self limiting, dead-end statement

“How can I afford it?” --> open ended, forces-you-to-think question

“Study hard so you can find a good company to work for.”

“Study hard so you can find a good company to buy.”

“Play it safe, don’t take risks.”

“Learn how to manage risk.”

“Entitlement” mentality: what work/gov owes you

Total financial self-reliance: autonomy & competence

Grievances: getting what you feel like you deserve/earned, or you’ll quit your job

“I don’t work for money, money works for me.”

If you’re the type of person who gives up everytime life pushes you around – you'll live it safe, wait for a big break, die boring and old with lots of friends b/c you were a nice hard-working guy/girl, but deep down you were terrified of taking risks.  Really wanted to win but the fear of losing > excitement of winning.  So you didn’t go for it.

Life teaches you by pushing you around – each push is saying “Wake up, there’s something I want you to learn.”  Don’t just get angry and push against your boss, job, low pay, that’s just life pushing you.  “You’d best change your point of view and stop blaming me, thinking I’m the problem.  If you think I’m the problem then you have to change me.  If you realize that you’re the problem, then you can change yourself, learn something, and grow wiser.”

Blaming others gives you limited choices.  “If you don’t pay me more or show me more respect, then I’ll quit.”  Most people quit, look for a new job, more pay, but it doesn’t solve the problem.

What solves the problem is using your head.  The poor and middle class work for money, the rich have money work for them.

Fear directs most people rather than passion.  Fear keeps most people working at a job they don’t like.  There’s fear of paying bills, fear of being fired, fear of not having enough money, fear of starting over.  You become a slave to money because of all your fears.  Most people work hard for little money, cling to illusions of job security, vacation, and a skimpy pension.

Learn how money works so you can make it work for you.  True learning takes energy, passion, and a burning desire.  Work to learn, don’t work for money.

Each human being has a week & needy part of their soul that can be bought.  There’s another part that’s strong and filled with resolve that can never be bought.  This part has no price. 

Fear and desire/greed lead most people to live life chasing after paychecks, pay raises, and job security, but they don’t know where this is leading them.

Tell the truth about how you’re feeling.  Then use your head to think, not just to emotionally react.   

“Stay in school, get good grades, so you can find a safe, secure job.”

For many, school is the end, not the beginning.  Schools focus only on teaching people to work for money, but they don't teach financial literacy.

Life is a moment-by-moment struggle:

-Closing your mind and reacting to situations

-Spend life living in fear and not exploring dreams

-Work hard for money thinking money will buy you things that will make you happy

-Living a life dictated by the size of your paycheck is not really a life

-Job won’t make you feel secure

Life is a moment-by-moment struggle:

-Learning to open your mind and think about opportunities

-Learning how to take calculated risks, think outside the box

-Don’t let money run your life

-The sooner you forget about needing a paycheck, the easier your adult life will be

-Most people don’t see opportunities because they're looking for money and security

-Let go of the idea of working for money, and instead learn to have money work for you --> FREEDOM from the Rat Race


If you read Rich Dad, Poor Dad, let me know what you thought of it.

P.S. I should've clarified that the above chart was just a teaser.  Basically a summary of the first chapter or so.  He gets more into it with diagrams and whatnot.   


Saturday, March 15, 2008

Finance Junkie

I'm trying to read up more on budgeting and investments.  Does anyone have any suggestions for good beginner books/links?  I've started with:

Rich Dad, Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money--That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not!

The Millionaire Next Door

Dave suggests:  Unconventional Success: A Fundamental Approach to Personal Investment
Ben suggests:  The Only Investment Guide You'll Ever Need
Javier suggests:  The Total Money Makeover: A Proven Plan for Financial Fitness
and also:  Basic Black: The Essential Guide for Getting Ahead at Work (and in Life)

Here are some other random but awesome sites:
For personal finances: http://www.mint.com/
For tips on saving: http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/
For more investment stuff: http://www.freemoneyfinance.com/
For practicing virtual investments: http://www.updown.com/

For placing microfinance loans: http://www.kiva.org/
For placing microfinance loans that give you a 3% interest return: http://www.microplace.com/


Thursday, August 30, 2007

Goodbye Vacation, Hello Work!

I had a fantastic August vacationing along the pacific coastlines in California & Hawaii (biking to Sausalito, road tripping, hiking bluffs, exploring tidepools, sitting on beaches, swimming, snorkeling, kayaking, & watching sunset after sunset after sunset).  I ate alot of really good food this month and thoroughly enjoyed chillin' with old friends.

I never understood why people liked traveling so much (since it's expensive) but I kinda get it now, it definitely changes your perspective (and it also doesn't have to be expensive).  Makes you more chill, more apt to roll with the punches, and more capable of handling whatever circumstance you're in.  The very low standard of living we set while camping (not showering vs. literally being hosed off by carolyn) made me appreciate any version of running water from a spout thereafter.  Traveling with friends was also quite eye-opening since everyone's true colors inevitably came out (including my own).  I came back with so much more respect for people -- Kenny is meticulous, organized, efficient, & patient;  Arny is naturally curious about the world, skilled w/fires & tents, and he's also freaking hilarious; Carolyn is a great navigator & lotsa funnnnn.  Our 4-person (2 boys: 2 girls) combo worked well cuz everyone could & did take care of themselves, but also looked out for each other.  There was no drama, no neuroticism, no crazyness.  My kinda vacation.

Highway 1 Road Trip: Point Reyes, Big Sur, Montana De Oro State Park (6 days/5 nites car camping)
highlights: being adventurous & discovering trails, climbing up the side of a cliff, photoshoots, smores, inside jokes
lowlights: 10 mile trek to morrow rock & back, sand-logged shoes  
     
    

     
       
     

Honolulu, Hawaii: Iolani Palace, Oahu Plantation, Swapmeet, snorkeling at Shark's Cove, snorkeling at Hanauma Bay, hiking Diamond Head Crater, kayaking at Kailua Bay, Pali lookout, Waimea Bay, North Shore, Char Hung Sut mah tai su, Waiola's azuki bowl, Leonard's malasadas, Liliha Bakery cocopuffs, korean bbq, haupia, azuki everything, watching tandom surfing & upright paddling competitions (7 days/8 nites)

highlights: ALL OF THE FOOD IN HAWAII (especially desserts), making random hostel friends, snorkeling
lowlights: tourists on waikiki, dirtyness of hokondo waikiki beachside hostel

Hawaii's history is super interesting and unlike that of any other state.  I'm so glad I got introduced to Hawaii through a local's perspective (thanks LDunn!).  I appreciated this even more after I stayed in waikiki for the last 3 days/2 nites on my own, and was put-off by extreme tourism.  I loved Hawaii and hope to return again. There's still so much left to eat!
     
     

     
 

San Francisco (visiting friends) & Los Angeles (xt's wedding): I spent a significant amount of time meeting up with people for meals/desserts/coffee etc.  Here's a video from XT's wedding (although sadly, I am on the wrong side of the dance floor).


Monday, July 16, 2007

Boston Harbor Islands Day Trip

Here's the itinerary we followed in case anyone wants to go later on.  The cost of the entire trip was $12.  Georges Island has a ton of fun stuff to see/do and Spectacle Island has a really great 360 view at the top.  This is an ideal day trip for a group of friends or visiting family members who've already done the faneuil hall/ newbury st/ typical touristy thing.  Lotsa pics: here and here.  If anyone has other fun day-trip itineraries, please e-mail me.

Itinerary:
9:20 am  - meet outside the Aquarium T stop (at the entrance closest to the aquarium/marriot long wharf).  flex time for stragglers.
               - bring: lunch, flashlight, sneakers (not flip flops), sunscreen, bug repellent, digicam, disc/football?, picnic blanket?
               - recommend using the bathrooms in the marriot before leaving
               - there are no places around there to buy lunchy foods (only a coffee shop & a sbux so bring your lunch!)
               - there are no garbage cans (pack on/ pack off) so plan to carry your trash

9:40 am - go around the corner to the ticket booth (north side of the marriot)
              - buy a $12 round-trip ferry ticket to the boston harbor islands

9:50 am - line up earlier for the ferry b'c they only let a certain # of people on

10:00 am - ferry leaves

10:35 am - ferry arrives at Georges Island.  Explore, then take the free inter-island ferrys to visit Lovells & Spectacle.

Georges Island --> lots of fun stuff to see/do, tunnels, art work, & it's picturesque.  there's a big lawn in the middle of the fort for picnicing & playing sports.
Lovells Island --> wasn't a very nice island.  those of us without sneakers suffered, and left shortly thereafter.
Spectacle Island --> much nicer, 20 min hike/walk up to the top provided an incredible view.

5:15 pm - last ferry back to Boston

http://www.bostonislands.com/isle_profiles.html
http://www.bostonislands.com/trip_tips.html

And here's the ferry schedule:
http://www.harborexpress.com/harborislands/schedule_summer_07.shtml



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