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Sunday, April 06, 2008

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    Gilmore Girls - The Complete Second Season
    By Gilmore Girls
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    Being a grownup is rewarding.... if you can get past all the hard decisions!

       Hello my xangan friends  I know that i haven't blogged in a while, but, i do have to say i've been reading everyone else's updates everyday. Maybe one of the reasons i haven't blogged is because i wasn't sure what to talk about. I always have so much "stuff" rolling around in my head and i think it clogs up in front of my creative folder and i can not for the life of me, get to it! aahh! I have, on several occasions tried to dig and sort thru all of the "stuff" in order to get to that creative folder in my brain; but, you know it takes so long that by the time i get there, my time is up and i have to move on to something else on my adult to do list.

       Brad and i have had so much going on in our lives the past few months! The first few months of marriage we did absolutely nothing besides be youth group leaders on Wednesday nights. We would sit here at home and watch movies together, Brad would write his stories, i would talk, and talk, and talk, and talk...(you get the idea) and annoy Brad...

       Oh! Here's a little tangent I can go off on  I don't know if i'm a really terrible wife or if i'm just extremely strange or missing a few fries or just a normal wife, but, when i'm bored, i LOVE annoying my husband! Doesn't that sound terrible?! I purposely use grammar incorrectly, i jabber on and on about random girly things, i'll follow Brad around our tiny apartment and whisper movie lines- of course i screw up the quotes so he sighs and tells me how they're really supposed to be said. While i'm cooking i'll put on my most retarded looking jammies, turn on some girly poppy music(which he despises and i actually get annoyed with pretty easily too but don't tell Brad) and dance around the kitchen with a whisk in my hand! hehe. AAhh, my husband has such extreme patience! There he is, sitting at his computer, writing and studying to keep his mind stimulated while he's not in school this semester, and i can't leave him alone. I try! I tell myself to find another way to entertain myself, but i see my body just doing it anyway! He trys to ignore me for a while, then sighs, then acts annoyed and tells me to stop, then he finally gets up to come and lecture me... and there i am in the kitchen food everywhere(cuz i'm a messy cook-although i do have to say when the food is finished, it is delicious!) with my ridiculous jammies on... and he has to laugh! Of course he rolls his eyes first and tells me i'm being adolescent and annoying. BUT, he does have to laugh, and ultimately helps me with whatever i'm doing. Ah, married life. I'm so glad i can make Brad laugh otherwise i'd be dead by now... cause he would have killed me. He has told me on occasion that he believes one of the only reasons why our marriage is and will always work, is because he never knows what i'm going to do or say next, and i can make him laugh even when he's mad. I'm ALWAYS getting on his nerves, but, i do make him laugh more than anyone else in his life. Inspite of the witchy and conniving ways I entertain myself, i do love my husband very much! I have to think sometimes that he is most likely the only man on the planet who could love me inspite of my odd tendencies.

       Back to why i originally started this blog: Brad is a reserve in the National Guard and left two weeks ago for a mandatory training school in Kentucky. Today at 10am is exactly 2 weeks since he's been gone, and two weeks until he gets home. It's been rough for both of us. Since we've been married, Brad and i have only been apart one night at a time and we like it that way! Now, here we are, trying to live a month without seeing or being with each other. It is rough! I don't think either one of us are really living, we're just surviving. Thank goodness for cell phones and text messaging! Although we can see each other, we do talk just as much as when he is here, if not more. those texts are the highlights of my day. I have been filling my days with catching up with friends, working more hours at the cafe, teaching my girls Bible study, packing to get ready to move, and watching a TON of tv series that i had started a long time ago and never completed, trying to meet more regularly with the girls i mentor... oh! and i've spent a lot of time trying to convince my sister to come work with me at the cafe and move in with me while Brad is gone. oh, so exhausting! This afternoon we don't have our Bible study so i think i hear naptime calling to me and asking me to give it some attention. I think i'll be in the mood for that.

      Okay, i'm done blabbing for this time. I admire anyone who actually made it completely thru this blog! hehe. I do love to ramble and talk about nothing of importance on occasion.

       Enjoy the wonderful spring weather! hugs, MA

Friday, March 28, 2008

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    Hymns Ancient and Modern
    By Passion
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       Brad and I have been following the primary elections pretty close this year and have surprised ourselves with who we are currently choosing as our candidate- Barak Obama. Brad has been following his career since he became senator of Illinois, but i myself didn't even know he existed until the primaries started. Right at first i was pretty sceptical of him. For one, he's a democrat, and because of my moral beliefs, i've always thot of myself as a republican. But, then i started researching the differences between the two parties, and what each of the then 8 candidates stood for. I began to be very impressed with Barak. His personal and professional life was parrallel to the teachings of Jesus, the fruit his life was bearing was in keeping with scripture, and his lifestyle has been consistently pro-family and pro-eco friendly.

       A fellow blogger had the following interview posted on their site and i enjoyed reading it so much i wanted to share it with all of you. Please leave me comments and let me know what you think.

        hugs, MaryAnna

    Senator Obama gave a major interview to Christianity Today this week.  CT is the flagship Evangelical publication, not the normal stomping ground for most Democrats.  But Barack held his own, with candor and without pandering.  Check it out below: 

    Q&A: Barack Obama"I believe in the redemptive death and resurrection of Jesus Christ."Interview by Sarah Pulliam and Ted Olsen | posted 1/23/2008 02:18PM

    Barack Obama wants to set the record straight. He is not a Muslim, as recent e-mails falsely claim.

    The Democratic presidential candidate is fighting the e-mails that have been widely circulated. Obama has been continually speaking about the role of faith in politics since his Call to Renewal address in June 2006.

    In the days before the South Carolina primary, he is driving efforts to speaking with media to emphasize his Christian beliefs. His campaign also sent out a recent mailer portraying the candidate with his head bowed in prayer and says that he will be guided by prayer when he is in office.

    The senator from Illinois spoke with Sarah Pulliam and Ted Olsen today about his faith, abortion, and the evangelical vote.

    What do you think your biggest obstacle will be in reaching evangelicals?

    You know, I think that there's been a set of habits of thinking about the interaction between evangelicals and Democrats that we have to change. Democrats haven't shown up. Evangelicals have come to believe often times that Democrats are anti-faith. Part of my job in this campaign, something that I started doing well before this campaign, was to make sure I was showing up and reaching out and sharing my faith experience with people who share that faith. Hopefully we can build some bridges that can allow us to move the country forward.


    What would you do in office differently than Hillary Clinton or John Edwards that would appeal to evangelicals?

    I have not focused on all of their policies so I don't want to speak about what their positions will be. I know that as president, I want to celebrate the richness and diversity of our faith experience in this country. I think it is important for us to encourage churches and congregations all across the country to involve themselves in rebuilding communities. One of the things I have consistently argued is that we can structure faith-based programs that prove to be successful — like substance abuse or prison ministries — without violating church and state. We should make sure they are rebuilding the lives of people even if they're not members of a particular congregation. That's the kind of involvement that I think many churches are pursuing, including my own. It can make a real difference in the lives of people all across the country.

    So would you keep the White House Office of Faith-Based and Community Initiatives open or restructure it?

    You know, what I'd like to do is I'd like to see how it's been operating. One of the things that I think churches have to be mindful of is that if the federal government starts paying the piper, then they get to call the tune. It can, over the long term, be an encroachment on religious freedom. So, I want to see how moneys have been allocated through that office before I make a firm commitment in terms of sustaining practices that may not have worked as well as they should have.

    One of the critiques of the Bush office on faith-based initiatives — beyond the church and state question — is that while it opened up competition to religious organizations or church-based organizations to compete for some of these federal funds, there was no additional allocation; there was no change in the funding. Instead, there were more organizations competing for the same the slice of pie.

    I think that's right. There's always a danger in those situations that money is being allocating based on politics, as opposed to merit and substance. That doesn't just compromise government. More importantly, it compromises potentially our religious institutions.

    For many evangelicals, abortion is a key, if not the key factor in their vote. You voted against banning partial birth abortion and voted against notifying parents of minors who get out-of-state abortions. What role do you think the President should play in creating national abortion policies?

    I don't know anybody who is pro-abortion. I think it's very important to start with that premise. I think people recognize what a wrenching, difficult issue it is. I do think that those who diminish the moral elements of the decision aren't expressing the full reality of it. But what I believe is that women do not make these decisions casually, and that they struggle with it fervently with their pastors, with their spouses, with their doctors.

    Our goal should be to make abortion less common, that we should be discouraging unwanted pregnancies, that we should encourage adoption wherever possible. There is a range of ways that we can educate our young people about the sacredness of sex and we should not be promoting the sort of casual activities that end up resulting in so many unwanted pregnancies.

    Ultimately, women are in the best position to make a decision at the end of the day about these issues. With significant constraints. For example, I think we can legitimately say — the state can legitimately say — that we are prohibiting late-term abortions as long as there's an exception for the mother's health. Those provisions that I voted against typically didn't have those exceptions, which raises profound questions where you might have a mother at great risk. Those are issues that I don't think the government can unilaterally make a decision about. I think they need to be made in consultation with doctors, they have to be prayed upon, or people have to be consulting their conscience on it. I think we have to keep that decision-making with the person themselves.

    You've talked about your experience walking down the aisle at Trinity United Church of Christ, and kneeling beneath the cross, having your sins redeemed, and submitting to God's will. Would you describe that as a conversion? Do you consider yourself born again?

    I am a Christian, and I am a devout Christian. I believe in the redemptive death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. I believe that that faith gives me a path to be cleansed of sin and have eternal life. But most importantly, I believe in the example that Jesus set by feeding the hungry and healing the sick and always prioritizing the least of these over the powerful. I didn't 'fall out in church' as they say, but there was a very strong awakening in me of the importance of these issues in my life. I didn't want to walk alone on this journey. Accepting Jesus Christ in my life has been a powerful guide for my conduct and my values and my ideals.

    There is one thing that I want to mention that I think is important. Part of what we've been seeing during the course this campaign is some scurrilous e-mails that have been sent out, denying my faith, talking about me being a Muslim, suggesting that I got sworn in the U.S. Senate with a Quran in my hand or that I don't pledge allegiance to the flag. I think it's really important for your readers to know that I have been a member of the same church for almost 20 years, and I have never practiced Islam. I am respectful of the religion, but it's not my own. One of the things that's very important in this day and age is that we don't use religion as a political tool and certainly that we don't lie about religion as a way to score political points. I just thought it was important to get that in there to dispel rumors that have been over the Internet. We've done so repeatedly, but obviously it's a political tactic of somebody to try to provide this misinformation.

    Is there any sense of how wide this e-mail has been distributed?

    This is similar to these smear tactics that were used against John McCain in 2000. We have to continually chase down this stuff. It's obviously being sent out in a systematic way. You guys really help by getting the story straight.

     

    (Thanks for taking the time to read my blog! I'm looking forward to your comments or any questions you might have.)

Saturday, January 19, 2008

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    The Lord of the Rings - The Motion Picture Trilogy (Platinum Series Special Extended Edition)
    By Elijah Wood, Ian McKellen, Viggo Mortensen, Sean Astin, Sean Bean
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      Life goes on... a new year sneaks in and is already taking away our first month. Time comes and goes so fast, a day is never long enough- no matter how much a person is able to fit into a 24 hour period. AAHH! Every day i pray the Lord would give me more time. There is so much in my life i want to start... and for that matter, i have things i want to finish. There is so much i would still love to experience and places i would love to visit. The dictionary describes the word experience to mean: "being affected by what one meets with". I have such a longing to "be affected" by every wonderful,beautiful thing/person the Lord has created in this world. Brad and i often talk of the countries we'd like to visit, ethnic foods we'd like to taste, people we would love to meet and talk to, languages we would love to learn, historical landmarks and buildings we are craving to see.

       Brad and i have made a goal this year, to be healthier, in every way. Hopefully, this will buy us a few more years and we will have that much longer to fulfill our dreams.  The dreams the Lord gives Brad and i are what makes our lives worthwhile; our dreams keep us focused on our calling(s); they remind us of why we are here, on earth. As this new year begins, i challenge you- What is the dream Christ has given you? Do you know why He's placed you on earth? Do you have a reason for living? What joy in life do you experience that could only come from Him? Is there something in your life worth working towards?

     May God bless you and keep you, God smile on you and give you peace, God look you full in the face and make you prosper. Hugs, as always, MA

Tuesday, December 11, 2007

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    Mad Season
    By matchbox twenty
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    Reminiscing...

       Wow! We are getting close to the end of 2007. The year has flown by... way too fast! My life has changed so much as well. The older i get, the more i dread reminiscing. Not that i don't like remembering how my year has been; i just don't like remembering how old I'm getting! Now, it's not that i'm really old, it's just that i seem to be getting older faster. AAHH! I could continue rambling, but i think i'm going to change the subject of my ramblings.
       Here is a life update for those friends of mine who are able to connect with me only thru xanga: I've been working at the Heavenly Brew for almost 3 months now. Sharon is just the greatest boss i've ever had! The hours have been mmaayybbee 30 hours a week which has been a little disappointing
    but i'm waiting it out until after the new year. Brad is finishing up his first semester at IUSB. He has two more exams this week, then he's finished until January 4th(ish). That's about it as far as our personal lives go. Nothing else really that exciting... Oh! wait! This last Thursday i started with strep throat. Now don't misunderstand me, i'm not excited that i had strep throat because it was terrible! but it was something unusual that i experienced for the first time, so i have to share it. Hehe. Of course, since Brad has to do everything i do, he decided to start with it this morning. Silly Boy! Seriously tho, it was one of the worst times i think i've ever had being sick. Mix together a fever, sore throat, migraine, swollen lymph nodes, a small ear ache, and of course a little bit of nauseousness.Yuck! To top it all off, i wasn't allowed to have orange juice or oranges since they supposedly agitated the raw throat. I absolutely love orange juice and have at least one glass of SimplyOrange every day. IT WAS TORTURE! aahh!  I also had to take off work on Friday and Saturday since strep throat is contagious. Since I didn't want to have to take off any days this week, i pumped myself full of vitamins and water and tylenol all weekend. I still have a lingering cough, but, thanks to the Lord ,for blessing me with a healthy body, i was able to kick it in three days. Hallelujah!
       Well this was going to be a serious blog but as you can see... it's not. I guess i'll just have to leave another blog at another date when the urge hits me once again.
     Thank you all for listening. Tune in again next time to hear: Reminiscing-On A Serious Note.
     Hehe,   Hugs blessings, MA

Sunday, December 02, 2007

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  • I am the new employee of a coffee/sandwich shop in Elkhart called the Heavenly Brew! Im short, have an interesting sense of humor, i laugh alot, cry alot, love with all that's inside me, enjoy every single moment Christ places into my life with all the energy i have. I'm married to an incredible man of God who is my prince, my hero, a human that makes mistakes but loves me with the unending love of my Father in Heaven. And I'm a born again spirit-filled daughter of the King of Kings,(hence my name).

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