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Thursday, May 08, 2008 Once Again 有一位朋友跟情人分手之後，隔了一個月在街上被人撞見他牽著另一位的手。 有一位朋交被深愛的人傷害過之後，有愈十年未涉情場。 人們總會認為，前者太快另結新歡。同時，後者卻太裹足不前。不過，一輪指手劃腳之後，問起要多少時間，才足夠叫一個人重新開始，又有誰不是無言以對？ 結束與開始之間，我們需要的，大抵不是時間吧。只是不清楚，要怎樣才可以再開始新的關係而已。 對緣滅緣起覺得豁然開朗，是自黎堅惠的專欄接觸到Kübler-Ross 的哀悼週期(Five Stages of Grief)之後的事。它闡述了，人面對情感上的失敗之後，到重新開始之間，情緒上必經的過程。自然，情侶分手和尚未開花便要終止的愛戀，都屬於這個界別。 開初是Denial，因為曾經付出過，要承認關係終結，便等同努力付之流水。 繼而是Anger，那是因為接受現實，而產生的情緒宣洩。 然後Bargaining，是激動過後心態上的自我調適。 接下來是穩定下來，但未整頓好自己的Depression。 最後就是Acceptance，收拾心情重新開始。 說穿了，就的是情緒與心態的整頓。當心裏對前度的悵妄痴恨都告一段落時，也就準備好去迎接新的關係來臨了。當然，那不是自以為可以就可以的事。不過，我無意鞭撻在新的關係裏讓自己復原的方法。只是到頭來，不過是愛的替身的話，那對雙方都不公平吧。   5:45 PM - 8 eprops - 3 comments - email it Thursday, April 10, 2008 Adoption 盡人事   雜誌附送的贈品，有不少是你不太會用的東西。 那不過，是雜誌社令讀者覺得有賺的小把戲而已。 偏偏，為贈品而買雜誌的人，已經是目標讀者的一部份。 那已經是本末倒置了吧？ 幸好，我會買的那幾本雜誌，不盡然只會收買人心。 偶爾遇上沒用的贈品，我棄之也不會是雞肋。 再不然，轉交胡太君處理好了。 然而今次，要將這個散子包丟掉，我於心不忍。 同時胡太君，又神經質地怕狗。 所以呢，路過見字的人，願意領養的，跟我說一聲吧。 在我要處理掉之前。   12:11 AM - 6 eprops - 3 comments - email it Sunday, April 06, 2008 Sun 藏私 自去年在芝麻灣呆了三天之後，我迷上了那種暫忘紅塵的氛圍。 不過那處遠在城西，決不是可以動不動就去的地方。雖然我對那柳暗花明的癡迷，只怕跟洛華君的病不相伯仲。不過，我跟洛華君終究不算慣居山野的閒鶴。芝麻灣之行能來個一年一度，就已經很好。但這兩位L 先生，卻麻煩在偶爾總會靜極思動，想念起那不為紅塵所勞的光景。所以，對那些在繁囂中絕無僅有的暗處桃源，自是寧可藏私，只跟友人分享。 這次相信是拜菲小姐的童女手所賜，在城南找到一處連我也不曾到過的好地方。一家兼營飯餐的食品店，更設有露天坐位，在慰轆轆五臟之先，單論環境已叫我傾心。明明大馬路依然近在眼前，只消轉入橫街的橫街，已連空氣都變了個樣。固然舉頭一望，依舊是城南深處，綠意也說不上央然。但要隔開那要人命的所謂城市節拍，卻是足夠有餘。自然管它要經長命斜，上天梯。更莫說，那樓梯根本是自動的了。 食物方面，店方左一句天然，右一句有機，本來足以叫我退避三舍，所以有勞菲小姐和瑪格兩位女士發板。 先來的芝士餅已叫我另眼相看，不是那些只靠死甜的味道，伴以似有還無的芝士氣味來魚目混珠的味蕾土石流。豐富的奶酪香氣，在口腔中輕輕掠過。然後在香甜之後，仍有一分奶酪特有的鹹味在盤桓。唯一美中不足的，應是怕層層的奶酪香味被蓋過，所以甜味不足。不過甜點好比人生，還是甜一點好。 至於三文治，選用西班牙白豬火腿也令我喜出望外。雖不及黑豬火腿，但佐以其他有機蔬果等材料，味道遠勝於連鎖咖啡店所供應又價格相若的三文治。而在芝士餅與三文治之後，我立即由退避三舍變成意猶未盡。可惜，當日午餐經已售罄，惟有下回請早，不然我必要一試。 從食入文向來矛盾，將心儀的店推介得座無虛席時，總怕會促成店家質素下降。不然，令自己要久候坐位亦十分無趣。所以這次，且容我藏私，友人有意我自會帶去。   6:13 AM - 6 eprops - 2 comments - email it Tuesday, April 01, 2008 5年 12:44 AM - 6 eprops - 2 comments - email it Wednesday, March 26, 2008 Now Playing：<9 Crimes>Damien Rice & Lisa Hannigan Lisa: Leave me out with the waste This is not what I do It's the wrong kind of place To be thinking of you It's the wrong time For somebody new It's a small crime And I've got no excuse Is that alright with you? Give my gun away when it's loaded Is that alright with you? If you don't shoot it how am I supposed to hold it Is that alright with you? Give my gun away when it's loaded Is that alright with you? With you. Damien: Leave me out with the waste This is not what I do It's the wrong kind of place To be cheating on you It's the wrong time She's pulling me through It's a small crime And I've got no excuse Damien: Is that alright with you? Give my gun away (Lisa: is that alright )when it's loaded Is that alright with you? If you don't shoot it how (Lisa: is that alright ) am I supposed to hold it Is that alright with you? Give my gun away (Lisa: is that alright ) when it's loaded Is that alright Is that alright with you? Damien: Is that alright, yeah? Give my gun away (Lisa: is that alright ) when it's loaded Is that alright with you? If you don't shoot it how (Lisa: is that alright ) am I supposed to hold it Is that alright with you? Give my gun away (Lisa: is that alright ) when it's loaded Is that alright Is that alright with you? (Slight Overlap..) Damien: Is that alright yeah? Lisa: Give my gun away when it's loaded Damien: Is that alright yeah? Lisa: If you don't shoot it how am I supposed to hold it Damien: Is that alright yeah? Lisa: Give my gun away when it's loaded Damien: Is that alright, is that alright? Damien & Lisa: Is that alright with you? Damien: No...   7:36 PM - 8 eprops - 4 comments - email it Next 5 >>

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