| Words are a double-edge sword, effective when used....correctlySum people have it easy for them, sum people have it cut out for them. Sum people have to work for it, and sum people have to reach and go the distance to get wat they want.
but...there are some people who are too pathetic to know that they have it cut out for them and yet, they still complain. Complain to love ones, to friends, to family....slowly, they drifts away. Never knowing when to stop. We all got our desires, we all got our needs....
But to go around, sayin a crap load of excuses to get attention, to get notice....is pathetic.
To go around complaining about sumone, is pathetic.
To go around saying crap about ur own family member is pathetic.
To gain respect....u gotta show respect
people have it cut out for them, their parents are always there, their love ones are so close to them, their parents cares about them, their friends are there for them. And once, sumthing so lilo happens, they go and blow it outta proportion. They cry and complains about it. they continue to do so without any intention of stopping. To go and get attention, to b pamper....excuses, excuses, excuses....
people not gettin wat they want, THEY WORK FOR IT! they strive to reach for it, with all their heart and soul. They think of ways to achieve it, to do wat needs to b done. People are able to take care of themselves with a few help from others. But to CONSTANTLY grab it, to demands it, is when things get outta hand.
They are people who in my eyes, considerate n passionate, no matter wat situation they are put in....They never judge r b biase, nor do they resent r show hatred. Wat comes to mind to these people are, this person ask for help. I'll do my best to help them. Not for my interest but in their. They HELP EVEN WHEN IT KILLS THEM....they see how helping others are benefit n continue to do so. Even when the person they help are smiling, happy, and did not say thanks. Even when the person helping is feeling pain and nuttin but pain. And these people who they helped, Brings about more pain, more suffering, more torment, and wat's worse, is that most of the time, they dun no that they are bringing about pain. becuz these helpers....are quiet and does wat is right. even when the right thing is not in their benefit and that it kills them and bring them suffering in the end....
there are others who....tries to help others but fail to do so. Fail to put themselves behind others n do wat can b done, wat may b done, wat needs to b done. Those people, find it hard to help people, hard to understand wat the situation requires, wat can b done....those people help to their own benefit, to make themselves feel betta about themselves....
I ask myself this many times, Why do i put myself thru so much pain, so much suffering....y do i do things that make me suffer just as much....
It is becuz, ultimately, I do wat i feel is right, and even when wat's right isn't and does not bring my joy r happiness but pain n sorrow, I still do it. I still continue to stand and face it head on to do wat is right. To live a sad past is one thing, but to learn n pass it on, To HELP others, to do wat needs to b done, that's wat compassionate is about. That's wat passionate is about. To b caring, to b considerate, to b understanding....
To accept ur love is one thing, to accept pain n sorrow in love is another....
Compassionate n understanding isn't accept sumone for who they are. Compassionate is being about to comprehend how a person is feeling, how they are mentally. Understanding is knowing wat had happened. TO accept wat had happened and not wallow in it, to see the big picture of not that one person but everything surrounding them, to take everything in when u're out of the loop and understand fully the extent of the situation. And to b passionate, is not to love. Is not to feel pain. but the strive to do wat is right. TO do the right thing when pain is the only result in the end. not to fall in love, not to feel happy, not to feel gud about sumthing....passion, is the drive...tru passion in life, is to do wat isn't selfish, to do wat is right, no matter wat the end result is....
To b compassionate, understanding, and passionate, is not to love sum1, to understand them, to b with them, to accept them for who they are. These are selfish views of looking at it. compassion, to relate, understand, to grasp the big picture, and passion, the drive to do wat is right. To look away, to question, to ask urself y must u do it, are not one of these quality. To meet it head on, to ask no question but to do wat is right, to know wat is right....is....
To do wat is right is one thing...but to know wat that right thing is....is another. To sacrifice oneself for three years to lose a love one to sumone else in three days....passion to love sumone. selfish reason, unable to see the bigger picture. but how have our society came to b this way....do any of u read this to the end? do u all help others in need not to feel gud about it but to do it cuz itz right....
in the end, in the millions of life out there, people just miss the angel that shines brightly alone. people just dun see how well they have it. people just complain for attention, people who does things which causes so much pain and not THINK TWICE about wat they did....wat about the other people....
the other people who suffer for the sake of others. the others who help n ask help in return but receive nuttin. the others who does wat's right but meet pain n suffering in the end, the others who suffers in pain n cries alone, who suffers helping others due to all the pain they feel inside. To them, helping is wat they learn in life. from their past, from their childhood, all horror, all terrible.
compare to those who are quiet, naive, and cant show their feelings due to their past, how can they help others? even though they live a bad past, they still dont help, dont know wat to do.....
compare them to those who work hard, who help, who cries, who suffers even more than their own share of pain....wat about these people who uses their past as examples, reliving every painful thoughts n memories to help others, to constantly living thru it just for the sake of others to not make the same mistake.....
who are u....how do u see yourself....how can u look at the sky and think the world's happy, your world is trash while things are cut out for u.....
this is our society todai....wat will become of us, to our kids, wat will we pass on? our ethics r our greed....wat will we show them, how inconsiderate we are, selfish? there are people who do the right thing but always go unnotice....they are our future for humanity....
look at urself as i always go invisible..... |
