| | "lola, im having some real insane problems. My ex broke up with me about
three and a half weeks ago and I cant get over it. I keep thinking
there is another chance for us, but he is very adamant that there isnt.
Ever since then, I've been hurting myself and going around with all my
guy friends. People tell me to get over him, and that fooling around with
everyone is just going to make it worse, but I feel like there is
nothign else! please help me lola
~crazy santa cruz girl"
Crazy Santa Cruz Girl,
I know it sucks hardcore being dumped and such, and however cliché it sounds, you're going to need to give yourself a lot of time, especially if you really loved your ex. If he is telling you that there is never going to be another chance for you two to get back, you might want to respect that, and give him some space. As for your friends, tell them to go to hell. The only person in your mind and heart that know what you are ready for (and what you can or cannot get over) is you. Take your time. Don't hurt yourself, because not only does that hurt you and all those around you, it also makes you seem super desperate. Hang out with friends, keep yourself occupied. Maybe you will realize that there has been someone around all along that will keep you more than occupied, if you know what I mean ;c) Be careful about who you surround yourself with, because a lot of people might take advantage of your pain and use you, which won't help at all.
Hope I helped!
Lola |
| | Posted 2/14/2004 5:52 PM - 4 comments
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