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Name: Melissa
Country: United States
State: Virginia
Metro: Fairfax County
Birthday: 9/29/1978
Gender: Female


Interests: Traveling, Eating Ethnic Food (particularly sushi), Hiking, Knitting, Listening to Live Music, Painting, Drawing, Photography, Reading
Occupation: Education/training
Industry: Nonprofit


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Member Since: 3/17/2004

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Thursday, September 28, 2006

It's been forever since I've posted. I recently uploaded some pictures from my journey to Asia. Enjoy.

Hopefully, I will be returning soon.

I'll keep you posted on any new developments!

 


Tuesday, May 24, 2005

Finally home-a month long adventure comes to a close…


We recently returned to Calcutta just in time for May, the hottest time of the year! Our team all breathed many sighs of relief as the rains came down bringing cool breeze as we journeyed home on our 27 hour train ride. Though my time in Chennai (Madras), Sri Lanka, and Bangalore was absolutely incredible and life transforming (read more below), I am so thrilled to jump back into city life and investigate future ministry opportunities in Calcutta. 

I continue to thank God for all of you, your prayers and words of encouragement as I seek the Lord for his direction in this phase of my life. I am very enthusiastic about the work here in Asia and all the Lord is accomplishing through His people. Praise God. He is moving. 

 

Oh, Sri Lanka you warm my soul… 

With great remorse, I packed my bags leaving once again one of my favorite little islands in the world. There are so many stories and sweet memories that I will carry in my heart for a life-time…building side by side with my teammates and nationals, forming sweet friendships with families, playing games and singing songs with bright-eyed, rambunctious children, relishing in the natural island beauty- sunsets, tropical flowers, stunning tall and elegant people. I couldn’t stop smiling for three weeks. What an incredible privilege it was to serve those families in Sri Lanka with Habitat for Humanity and Word Made Flesh.  I must admit, more than once I asked God if he was calling me to work there.

Though I was in no way proficient in doing construction work which was all too obvious, I was struck by the gratitude, kindness, and hospitality of the Sri Lankan families. I would often spend no more than 10 minutes working when these generous people would bring me a cup of chai and biscuits, to thank me for my “work”, or just come over to chat. They were so pleased and overjoyed to have us rather inexperienced Americans working along side of them. It always seemed that they were giving so much more than I could ever give them. How humbling. Many times, it appeared that most important aspect of our ministry was not the physical labor, but the relationships cultivated. Again this was a rather hard truth to swallow being such a task-oriented American. 

Though our team could speak limited Singhala (about two phrases actually, “How are you?” and “Hello”), our prayer was that Christ would be reflected through our interactions. We continue to pray that this will be answered . Rumor has it that Word Made Flesh is “thinking” about starting a new base in Galle, Sri Lanka due to the great pressing needs and all the positive feedback. Praise God! Maybe I’m hearing God’s call there after all (wink, wink)? 

Please continue to keep the country of Sri Lanka and her precious people in your prayers. There are literally thousands without homes and the ability to support themselves. Yet, the president of Sri Lanka has officially declared that everything is "back to normal." May the love of Christ continue to spread across this country as Christians from all over the globe are His hands and feet.     

 

Seeing Jesus in children's eyes in Bangalore…   

Our servant team leader, Kristin, had been sharing with me for months about the children’s home we would have the opportunity to visit in Bangalore. I came expecting something a bit out of the ordinary, but after working in several orphanages in different parts of the world, I was a little skeptical of this place. My expectations were completely exceeded as I got to know Tammy and her children.  

Tammy, a young Christian missionary, dedicated her life to ministering to destitute Indian children. After working in an orphanage for nearly five years, she left her ministry to begin her own. She envisioned having a home of children who would otherwise be homeless, come to live under her roof. She prayed that a new generation would be raised in the knowledge of Jesus Christ and empowered to reach their nation with the Gospel.   

After years of prayer, the Lord opened the doors and provided her and her family with an incredible property and facility in rural Bangalore. She now has 42 children from the ages of 2-17(24 boys and 18 girls) living in three homes. Committed Christian house mothers live on each floor of the home to help raise the children. What is keenly extraordinary about this place is how firmly rooted these children are in Christ.   

On Sunday evening, Tammy and her children routinely meet for an hour to fast and pray for their community, their nation, and their commitment to follow Jesus. I, along with my teammates, were invited to participate. Tammy began her meeting encouraging the children not to worry about the new faces around them but to be solely focused on conversing with their Father in heaven. I recalled my own timidity as a child to pray aloud in front of strangers (even as an adult) and I wondered if our presence would hinder that communion. How low were my expectations. As these children began to worship and pray, I was amazed by their genuine prayers and worship. At one moment Tammy encouraged the kids to move around the room to pray for their "Aunties" and "Uncles". I sat silenced and stilled as twenty little hands rested firmly upon me and as tiny voices asked Jesus to give me wisdom, more of His presence, and a bigger desire to know Him. I have never known children with such a powerful relationship with Jesus.  

There is no doubt that Tammy's children are just like any other kids. They have their moments when their not so sanctified. But what is evident is that these ones are secure. They know they are loved and cherished. They know they have a safe home and all their physical needs will be provided. They trust in Jesus and boy, do these kids know how to pray (extremely convicting for me!).  

The Lord used this time at Tammy's to expand the boundaries of my faith in Him. Anything is possible though Jesus...just look at the young lives He's growing.    

 

Chennai…nearly home, but not quite.    

At the conclusion of our travels, we spent one week taking a breather, and visiting a Word Made Flesh children’s home, Mahizhchi Illam (Home of Happiness). Patrick and Victoria Samuel national staff with WMF, and directions of the home, have committed their lives to caring for abandoned and destitute children. Their primary ministry focus is AIDS care (for HIV positive children or children whose parents have AIDS) and interestingly, this home was the first of its kind in South India.  

What is so striking about this ministry, are the precious and beautiful hearts of Samuel and Victoria who have given over 30 years of their lives to children’s ministry. The peace and joy on their faces was enough to convince me that this couple loved the Lord and these children, but their story was a testimony of how faithful the Lord is to giving us the desires of our hearts.   

In 1975, Patrick and Victoria were married and served the Lord together by evangelizing children through conducting weekly meetings, retreats, camps, and puppet shows. God began to give them a burden for the abandoned children who were of the poorest of the poor. The Lord was faithful to find a way for it to be fulfilled.  In 1994, they met with  the directors of Word Made Flesh and are enabled to open the home. After nearly 20 years of prayer and ministry, God placed them in the ministry of their dreams. How faithful is He.  


Tuesday, April 12, 2005

I'm sending my warmest hellos from the GARDEN of EDEN!
 
Yes, I find myself in Sri Lanka again. What a refreshment it has been to be in this beautiful place experiencing island hospitality, bright Sri Lankan smiles and colorful tropical flowers!
 
For the last ten days, our group has been partnering with Habitat for Humanity. We've been assisting the nationals build houses in a small Muslim district in Galle. The labor has been especially strenuous, but I've enjoyed doing something more physical! Though we've been working a 9-5 schedule 5 days a week, I've been able to spend time reflecting on my time in Calcutta.
 
My Vision...
As a senior Christian Education major in college, I researched and developed a philosophy of ministry program that used the visual arts to share the Gospel with the poorest of the poor. I envisioned using art therapy as a tool to minister to broken and abused people in addition to teaching skills that could be used to better their livelihood (i.e. making crafts to sell in markets). Since coming to Asia, I have been actively searching for ministries where I could put some of my ideas to action.
 
Looking Ahead...
I would particularly covet your prayers as I'm praying about the ministry opportunities that await me with WMF in Calcutta. It is becoming more and more evident that I could begin an art therapy program in the Red Light District as I've shared my vision with the staff. Once I return, I plan to visit Free Set Bags (a ministry business that provides sex workers with alternate work) and discuss future partnership with their ministry doing rehabilitation work.
 
There are other opportunities that have been presented to me as well. After I finish my servant team, I am thinking about visiting other bases in Nepal, Thailand and Cambodia which have successfully incorporated the arts into their ministries.


Thursday, March 24, 2005

Greetings dear ones!

I apologize for the weeks I've been out of touch. I little while back, I was under the weather. I'm feeling completely better now and fully able to enjoy my work here in Calcutta!
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It's been a blessing to have the opportunity to get acquainted with so many different ministries in Northern India. Over these past weeks in particular, Kristin, a full-time staff with Word Made Flesh, has shared with our team her vision and passion for the women in the Red Light District. She is currently spearheading a ministry in this area and in the future hopes to open a rehab center. Through her my eyes are opening to the harsh realities for so many women and children who've been manipulated and exploited through this trade.
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Here is the story of one young woman, Kalpana, age 28:

    My mother was a widow in Bangladesh. She arranged my marriage when I was a child, and married me to a small businessman. Although he was quite successful in his work, Hindu-Muslim tensions in the area affected his         businness and the money stopped coming in. Eventually we decided to leave the village and cross over to India in search of work. My husband suggested we cross separately as we were going illegally, and one person would be less conspicuous than two. After crossing by myself I could not find my husband at the arranged meeting place. I don't know if my husband planned this. I spent several days searching for him. I was young, and people looked at me in a bad way when I searched or asked for refuge. One day I was approached by an old woman who befriended me and gave me shelter in the border area. This woman persuaded me to give up the search and go to Calcutta to find work- I even thought I might find my husband there. She escorted me to Sonagacchi where I found lines of girls and women of all ages standing on the streets, over made-up and wearing indecent clothes. The old woman took me to a small room where another lady gave me food, and then I just fell asleep on a mat on the floor. I soon realized what I would have to do.

    -from "Guilty Without Trial"
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This testimony is like so many of the women Kristin daily meets. These women are despised and stigmatized in Indian society. There are few who have the compassion to care for and stand up for the lives and right of these women.

As I've been exposed to this, I've been broken by the horrendous bondage over these women's lives. They are bearers of God's image. They are priceless, precious, beautiful creations. Yet mankind has allowed them to be trampled upon.

Kristin recently invited me to accompany her and next week I will have the opportunity to meet some of these beautiful daughters of God. A million thoughts and emotions flood over me.
 





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