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| Wow!! It's been about 3 months since I last wrote an entry. I think the main reason is that I've gotten a little more hooked onto facebook since it does practically everything now with all the different applications and how you can even play games on it. The last several times, I played pacman on it, which was pretty cool. At least i don't need to download it...lol. Not only that, but there's also a texas hold 'em application that I got pretty hooked on to. Facebook even has an application that helps with job search. Honestly, there's so much you can do on just one site that it may take awhile before I sign out. Well, that's all i gotta say for now.
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| Nice guys finish last??
You have probably heard this saying so many times. However, is it really true? Do nice guys end up having to act the complete opposite just to get the girl? Just because of the fact that there is a nice guy, does it mean that we're just not considered to be worthy or capable of being in a relationship. I also think that every nice guy out there ends up being pretty frustrated to watch other people get the girl and make the nice guy wonder, where did I go wrong. Some non-nice guy will say "don't even think about getting with her. You're gonna get screwed." I've witnessed this so many times and I can see how upset they can get thinking nothing that makes them who they are can help them get the girl. Sometimes, it just means that girl isn't right for you. Other times, it just wants to make them want to prove people wrong. Can it be proven that nice guys don't always finish last? Just check out these three videos and you'll know what I mean.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZrnK-qPARYI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMGeWGvDHTA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5lJL2peXik
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| Another year and another b-day. Being 23 seems like it's nothing so special. My next special b-day is probably when I turn 25. Until then, please don't remind me I'll be 25 in the future until I actually turn that age...lol
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| Whoa...it's been a while since I posted my last entry. Not only that, but I haven't wrote anything emotional lately for some time.
After hearing the Virginia Tech incident so many times already, sometimes I wonder why people feel so lonely all the time. This guy was a complete loner and I've heard that people have tried to acknowledge him in some way, yet he passes on it every time. Sometimes I'm thinking that there are more of these kinds of people out there, maybe not as psychotic, but definitely some people that feel like there isn't anybody for them. When I think about it, sometimes I felt lonely too when a bunch of my friends are in one place, but I was alone somewhere else. Sometimes there were situations where I had trouble fitting in and trying to get other people to like me, but I found friends that not only acknowledged me, but cared about me too. Because of that, I do the same for them when they need help. Having that circle of friends around you doesn't make you feel like you're alone or you're dejected. Because of that, I'm grateful in millions of ways. What would have happened if any one of us didn't have the friends that we have that cared and acknowledged us? What would have happened if throughout our lives, we shied away from everything, including all the encouragement from other people? Would we just end up sitting in the corner of our room all the time and cry ourselves out? Anyway, all in all, be grateful for the friends or the relationships have at the time because it means that you have broken out of that loneliness that drains you. Therefore it goes back to this question, can we acknowledge people in a way that they won't be such a loner? I guess only time can tell.
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| What to look forward to in March...
Well, 2 months passed since I started working and it's good that I'm considered likable according to my employees since I usually get everything done as planned. But even with work and school tying me up for the moment, I always feel like I need my weekends to do whatever I want to do, just to get away from the things that stress me. On some of my weekends, I go up and visit some of my friends in Stony Brook and just chill, go out to eat for 2 days and a night. Sometimes, there's a part of me that just wants to go out and not stay home over the weekends because then I feel like my weekend isn't that satisfying or fulfilling. I guess sometimes it's difficult to find friends that are willing to do whatever with you. Some of them say "well, i'm just not in the mood." Some of them say "i'm busy." Unfortunately, that's a reasonable excuse. But what happens when every time you want to hang out with that person in particular and they always say they're busy. Are they really that busy or are they just making up an excuse not to come hang out with me? I guess it bothers me sometimes when things like that happen. However, I try to stay optimistic and hope for the best. Putting that aside, I'm looking forward to:
1. going to my friend's move-in party
2. visit stony brook at least once this month
3. win more tickets at dave and buster's
4. play mahjong if anybody's available
5. going paintballing (wanna tag along??)
6. going speed dating (yes, this is very new to me and I've yet to try it)
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