| | weekendI made a checklist of what I don't want in my wedding this weekend. My cousin's wedding was really nice, but there were definitely some things I would change. First, I don't want my friends and family's view to be obstructed by the photographer at any point. All of my processional pictures will be staged, and I'm okay with that. Second, I don't think I have to worry about this with my pastor, but I refuse to be referred to as "his bride" if he's not referred to as "her groom" at any point in the service. Marriage has changed, I'm not there to serve him if he's not gonna serve me as well. Third, people aren't there to hear a sermon, so the message/readings should be less than 10-15 minutes. Fourth, music selections need to fit their purpose in the service. Lighting a candle doesn't take 4 minutes, so the music behind it shouldn't be 4 minutes. As for the reception, I just need to make sure I get to throw my bouquet before everyone leaves. Then there's the thought, am I actually going to have a big wedding? I hope not, just close friends and family. But, I think I'll have a bigger reception. Maybe, we all know how I don't like people very much.
Mom and I spent Saturday night in Wichita, and then decided a trip to the IKEA in Dallas was necessary. If you don't know, IKEA is possibly the best home store in the world. It's got every other home store I've been to beat. We were going to stay in Wichita that night, but when we finally got there at 10, I wasn't very tired and convinced her to keep driving. There was an ulterior motive - Zac was in town. He was gonna surprise me by coming into town, but I got to do the suprising :) We got to spend all of yesterday together - it was nice cuz neither of us really had anything we had to do like normal when he's here. It was one of my favorite days in a long time.
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| | Posted 5/30/2006 11:07 AM - 1 view - 5 comments
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