Hello everyone, how are things going.  I am doing well, just been really busy. You know how it is, working, kids, home life.  It is overwelming sometimes. 

My baby is getting so big, she just turn 2 in January.  Her personality is developing so fast.  She is a lot like me, I feel for her.  If she is like her mother she will be very out spoken.  That might get her into trouble in school.

I have started going to church regularly, but my husband and I are having some issues.  He was raised Catholic, went to catholic school, church everyday at school and then on Sunday.  Me on the other hand, I can count on one hand how many times my mom took me to church.  We didn't talk about God in my house.  I knew nothing, and I mean nothing.

When we got married I went to the RCIA classes and converted to be Catholic, I still am not sure what I was converting FROM.  Now we have a child and I want her to know the church and know Jesus.  So I started going to a Christian church with a friend and her little girl.  We would take the girls to Sunday school, then we would go to church.  Well this upset my husband because he doesn't like the church.  I fell in love with it.  It is a very large church, about 5,000 members maybe more.  He doesn't like how big it is.  I loved it.  I have been reading a life application study bible at work in the mornings and at lunch sometimes.  He came to my work last week and saw the books on my desk.  He had a fit.  When I got home he ask me about it.  He said he wanted to go to our Priest about it.  I told him I was just reading, what is wrong with that.  His biggiest fear is that I am going to turn into, what he calls a holy roller.  ha ha ha :).  He is so funny.  I have not changed, but some of my behavior has changed for the better.  I don't curse like I used to, and I pray, and try to use God's word in my everyday life. 

O.K. I am done, let me know what ya think.  I have missed the communication with everyone, hope you are all well.  Have a happy day.  :)

T

Hey everybody, long time no talk.  I have not been out here for so long.  Things are going great.  Malayne is growing so big and is getting more beautiful as each day goes by.

The last time I logged I had just had a wreck and was going through a buch of shit.  Well that all is over well.  Thank God. 

So everyone tell me what is new with you.  I want to know how your summer has been.  Sorry I have not responded but I have been so damn busy.

T

Here I am trying to deal with this damn accident stuff.  I really want to say shit, because that what it is, a bunch of SHIT. 

I now have to go buy a car and have another damn car payment.  I was not prepared to buy another car.  Oh, I am so mad.  That damn old man should not be allowed to be on the road any more. 

I am done now.  I just need to let some of this anger out.

Long time no talk.  Sorry it has been so long but I have been under the weather.  Actually, I feel like I have had a damn hailstorm following me around for the last month or so. 

 I had an accident last week on Wednesday, December 4.   I was going to driving down the Greenbelt, a highway through an industrial park.  The speed limit is 55 in that area, but reduces to 45 a few minutes up the road.  The place my accident happened was in the gray area.  I was doing about 50 mph.  I was in on going traffic, no stop sign, and no red light.  I saw this car setting there on the right side.  I remember saying to myself, stay in there old man.  Well guess what, he didn’t.  He pulled right out in front of me.  I didn’t even have enough time to brake.  I T-Bone him going about 50 mph.  It was the scariest thing that has ever happened to me. 

 Damage to My Car: Both my air bag deployed. My windshield is busted all up.  The hood folded, and the doghouse is gone.  Basically the whole front of the car will have to be replaced.  We should find out today if they are going to total the car or fix it.

 Damage to His Car:  I hit him on the driver side at 50.  His car was worse than mine.  The whole driver side is caved in the front driver wheel is leaning under the car.  This man was at least 65 or better.  The worse thing about this wreck was, he didn’t even know he had a wreck.  He had no clue.  I couldn’t believe he was even driving.

 Personal Damage:  As soon as the accident happened I felt this pain in my forearm and wrist.  I had to claim out of the car, and I knew I had hurt my arm as soon as it happened.  The EMS and police arrived on site about 10 minutes after it happened.  The police officer on site was my neighbor, plus I went to school with him.  Boy it is a small world.  Anyway, I went in the EMS and let them look at my arm.  The police helped the other man out of his car and he was up walking around.  As far as I know he wasn’t hurt and didn’t go to the hospital.   Once I was in the EMS I said boy I am getting a headache.  As soon as I said that they strapped me to that damn backboard, taped my head down and put that big neck brace on me.  I know it was for good cause but I was freezing to death. 

 After getting to the hospital they did 15 x-rays on me.  The nurse called my husband and he came up to the hospital to only make fun of me after he found out I was o.k.  That is how he hides be scared.  Anyway, they put this huge brace on my arm and put it in a slag.  I was told to wear it for a week and go see an Orthopedic Surgeon.  They told me that I just sprang my wrist.  But I hurt my back too.  They put me in Physical Therapy for three weeks, three times a week. 

 Just when things are going right a long good something like this happens.  I feel sorry for that old man.  He didn’t even know he had an accident.  He could have been really hurt.  I hope he has someone who can drive him around now.  He could have been killed.  The accident was bad. 

 TT

Hey whats up. It has been a while since I have been out here.  Just been to damn busy lately.  It is that busy time of year again. 

I cooked my first Turkey for Thanksgiving and it turned out wonderful.  The damn thing fell right in too when I went to take it out of the pan.  I guess that is a good thing.  My mom told me it was a good turkey.  That is always a good thing. 

My mom, boy there is a funny subject.  My mother just turn 53 on Sunday, and I think she might be getting back into the dating seen after being widowed for 8 years.  I think it is about time.  She says they are not dating, they are just friends, but you tell me.

My mother called and ask me if I cared if she invited her friend to Thanksgiving Dinner.  I told her, no I didn't mind, I didn't want anyone to be alone on the holidays.  She works with this man, and they tease each other all the time.  She talks about what he says at work and things they do at work.  He has invited her to his house several times, and she had gone over there.  She says they are just friends and are just watching movies. 

O.K. mom I wasn't born yesterday.  She is going to his house to watch movies, he has cooked her dinner more than once and brings her CD's (music) to work and gives them to her.  Now she has invited him to Thanksgiving Dinner.  I don't mind, don't get me wrong.  My sister and I both like him, he is really nice and good looking.  Mom got a good one this time.

My dad died when I was 14 and my sisters dad died when she was 12.  So my mom had to husbands die on her by the time she was 44.  Neither my dad nor my stepdad treated my mom very well.  She has this hard shell wall up and doesn't let it down very easily.  I told her to let him open doors and do things for her. She deserves that type of treatment. 

This woman is so damn independent she can't stand to let anyone do anything for her.  She is getting there thou. 

What do you think.  I am 30 and witnessing my mom getting back into dating.  Oh my she is a grandma.  I am happy for her, but it is weird. 

Moms got a boyfriend.

TT