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Wednesday, May 07, 2008

Tuesday, May 06, 2008

  • See you around....

    I'm going to be rather scarce throughout the rest of the month. I may get a post in here and there (I still owe a vid from my delightful lunch with one of the most enigmatic of xangaroos) but, I won't have much time to visit until next month.

    So, I thought I would leave you with my latest design obsession.

    Ever wish you could live in Bilbo's Hobbit Hole?

    Well....you can. Sort of.

    Check out the Monolithic Dome Institute (in Italy, Texas). I so want one of these (though the interior design of some of these are not my tastes, that's why you build your own). Apparently, they are more energy efficient than a standard shaped home.

    So, would you live in a dome home?

    Currently Watching
    Supernatural - The Complete Second Season
    By Jared Padalecki, Jensen Ackles
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Thursday, May 01, 2008

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

  • Showing the Love

    A little gratitude is in order.

    Thank you all for your birthday wishes, despite Little Bitch, it was a wonderful birthday and the party continues (I celebrate for a month).

    Gratitude is a funny thing. Saying "thank you" just to be polite is nice, but saying (and, better yet, showing) "thank you" when you really mean it, is even better. Even for something small it is just nice to be appreciated.

    I have a philosophy when it comes to interpersonal relationships in general*†.

    • If you are interested in people, people will find you interesting.
    • If you appreciate people, people will appreciate you.
    • If you are nice to people, people will be nice to you.
    • Conversely, if you are mean, disinterested, or unappreciative, you can pretty much expect that back.

    Oh, sure it isn't new or revolutionary, after all some variation of this exists in most religious philosophies, not to mention the "Law of Attraction" (as it applies to relationships/psychology not necessarily Physics).

    Of course, going along with that, is one more little point:

    • What you allow you encourage.

    If you permit someone to treat you poorly, they will continue to do so. You don't have to raise your voice or get violent or plot and scheme. Simply state in a calm voice, "your behavior is unacceptable to me." Then, walk away. Then, come here and vent (oops, that might just be me). It works amazingly well.

    Not sure why I felt the need to post this, other than perhaps, I needed a reminder.

    Regardless, life is good, and I am happy. The open road is beckoning seductively, and I am ready to be seduced. Of course, three more weeks of nose to the grindstone, then I'm free.

    *Toxic relationships notwithstanding. Some people are just bad for each other and you should know when it is time to purge your life of people who are toxic to you.

    This is a general philosophy, and not everyone will follow the pattern, as one size does not fit all.

    Currently Listening
    Lynyrd Skynyrd - All Time Greatest Hits
    By Lynyrd Skynyrd
    14. Free Bird
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  • skibo8100
    Hi Serve me some of that "Social Cyanide"Fill er up!:)I'll chat anytime you are available...Thanx, S~BTW, enjoy your drink....LOL
  • multidemencia
    hello.. i'm new to this site, but thanks for the add!
  • PunkDiva
    On a cold day in san francisco...I work.Though, it is a great walking city.
  • bluemarsupial
    So what does a Punk Diva like yourself do on a cold day in San Francisco? Does she go for a walk, underwear shopping, or perhaps ride a trolley car? Inquiring minds want to know!
  • StephanieJ73
    I've never even noticed this before. I guess I haven't scrolled all the way through your Xanga page in ages. And I think I want to try one of those Social Cyanides as soon as you figure out what's going to be in one.
  • PunkDiva
    I really like the chatboard feature, I don't know why I don't use it much.
  • PunkDiva
    Ooh! We'll have to invent a drink of our very own and call it Social Cyanide. That way we can get quizzical looks from cute bartneders.
  • cherbola
    If social cyanide comes with olives, I'll have one!!
  • PunkDiva
    Nobody wants to chat with me, I am social cyanide.