Apologies?So, it's been a few days *cough* since my last entry here. I would apologize for that, but most likely non of my old readers are around anymore, so I have no one to apologize to. I suppose from this point forward, this will be a whole new blog, so I'll reintroduce myself so that I can save you time back reading (if anyone is drawn to do so).
About MeMy name is Michael DuPlantis. The profile picture up right now (the one with the black background and metallic bubbles all over) was taken at least 2 years ago (3 years ago even) so it's a bit outdated... but, that's basically me. I am 23 years old and still in school; plan to finish my bachelor's degree in February. Currently, I'm a licensed real estate agent. I just joined up with a company (Keller Williams) in October, so I'm still quite the novice in my Realtor skills. Being a Realtor is not a career goal of mine, just an interest I have. It's more so a learning experience than anything. You see, my parents have been real estate investors for as long as I can remember. Because of this, I have a natural interest in real estate. Most jobs for people my age offer terrible wages and even worse hours, so being an independent contractor is really a perk for me. I make my own hours, work off of commission (so I determine how much I make), and best of all, I get to pursue a passion of mine. My ultimate goal is to become a pediatrician, but I'm taking my time on that. It has taken me 5, almost 6 years to graduate from college. After I graduate, I plan to take a year or two working strictly in real estate then, if all goes well, I will buckle down and take on medical school. Of course, such a decision is very difficult to make (the decision of entering medical school, that is), so I will use my time after I graduate from college to make sure that is how I truly want to spend the rest of my life.
Relationships
Relationships . . . I fail at them. For some odd reason, I repulse girls that I'm with. It's really quite tragic. I'll explain myself (pardon if it doesn't sound very modest. I AM modest, but at the same time, I know how things are, so my explanations may seem a bit big headed. I'm sorry.). I'm the guy that all the girls want to be with. I have stalkers; have had stalkers my entire life. I'm seen as handsome, charming, witty, intelligent, and all around, the perfect guy (and have been called all of those things many times in my life). Unfortunately, I'm dreadfully shy, so I cannot ever bring myself to talk to a girl whom I am interested in. I have only asked out one girl in my entire life. Odd, I know. If, by some freak of nature (luckily freaks of natures are a bit common in my life) a girl develops the nerve to ask me out, I accept, and we are happy together, I will undoubtedly find some way to screw things up. I think the best way to describe myself is a "One Minute Man": Keep me around for a minute, no more... 'else you will suffer. I am exaggerating a bit here, but honestly, when it comes to the dating scene, I am one of the most hopeless men you will probably ever meet. I've only been in two serious relationships. One lasted 7 months, the other 2 1/2 years. I broke up with the first girl. She had too much emotional baggage for my liking; not to mention she planned to move out of state as soon as possible.... with or without me. The second girl left me. Claimed she fell out of love with me. Guess I get boring after a while. That's my luck with relationships in a nut shell. Now, enough of this boring nonsense.
What You Should Expect from This BlogHopefully, this blog will keep my personal life to a minimum. I know how boring it is to read about other people's lives, so I'll do my best to spare you. I plan to use this blog to hold intelligent discussion. On, what, you ask? Why, anything and everything that peaks my interest. Science, politics, religion, culture, art, history, etc... I'll discuss anything and everything that is taboo. Regardless of my personal opinion on a subject, I feel it is important to understand both sides of the story ([/end cliche]). If we seclude ourselves in our "safe zone" of ideas, then we become close minded and cease to grow. My objective is to prevent that from happening by holding discussion on things that are out of the norm.
I am not sure how often I update this blog. If I am the only one reading it, I may only update it once or twice a month. But, if I somehow manage to develop a following (regular readers), I will be feel driven (and will be obligated) to update many times a week, so as to keep your interest and spark new and interesting debate.
Conclusions are SweetPlease feel free to say anything and everything here on this blog. If you don't like my writing style, say it. If you don't like my blog layout, say it. If you disagree with what I say and want to ban me to the deepest pits of the Earth, say it. Self expression is invaluable. I may not agree with what you are commenting on, but that doesn't matter. Never hold back. The day that you stop standing up for what you believe in is the day that you lose your freedom.
To wrap things up, I'd like to leave you with a very simple question. I'm sure you've heard it many times before; that's because it's a GOOD question. Please think about it, dwell on it, write a journal about it, whatever ... just acknowledge that it is a question that you need to answer. The question is:
"Are you happy?"
Simple and common, yes. Easy to answer, not at all. If you're happy, explain WHY you are happy. What is it that brings joy in your life. If you're not happy, explain why. What are the negatives in your life? How can you rid yourself of those negatives? I believe an unhappy life is not one worth living. No, I'm not encouraging suicide (a disgusting act), I'm saying.... why waste your life being unhappy? You only have so long to live. Your choices are: (A) Be happy or (B) Be sad. Very simple choices to make. I'm sure many of you are grimacing right now and saying how ignorant I am of the true mechanics of life. If you are one of those people, please bare with me. People are put in negative situations either because of their own action or because of someone else's actions. You can decide if you want to smoke that marijuana. Filing for a divorce is a way out of an abusive marriage. You can either beg on the street corner and live on the streets or get a job at a fast food restaurant and work your way back up the ladder. These are all choices people make all the time. Why do people sometimes choose to go with the negatives rather than the positives? Fear of change, peer pressure, ignorance, etc... My point being, don't say you can't fix your problems, you can. I encourage you to write a journal addressing the question "Are you happy?". Just let the words flow out. You may discover things you never knew about yourself.
On that note, I bid you a good day!
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