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Wednesday, February 13, 2008
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Don't let go too soon; don't hang on too long.
Saturday, February 02, 2008
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Go Through Emotions
A passage posted on my xanga 2 years before.
'Detachment' doesn't mean we don't let the experience penetrate us; but we let it penetrate us fully. That's how we are able to leave it........ How we feel a surge of love for a partner but we don't say anything because we're frozen with the fear of what those words might do to the relationship....... Turn on the faucet. Wash ourselves with emotion. It won't hurt us. It will only help....... If we don't allow ourselves to go all the way through emotions -- we can never get to being detached, we're too busy being afraid.
I did it, and I feel more capable to love myself as well as to love others by minimizing any hurt and harm. Personal breakthrough is hard, but one will discover a more beautiful world after undergoing a difficult period. Love is an on-going lesson.
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
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To let go
Letting Go . . .
To "let go" does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else.
To "let go" is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control another.
To "let go" is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself.
To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about.
To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.
To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.
To "let go" is not to be protective, it's to permit another to face reality.
To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.
To "let go" it not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings, and correct them.
To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.
To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate anybody but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.
To "let go" is to fear less, and love more.
Author Unknown.
Wednesday, January 02, 2008
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Everyday is changeable, both for things and people.
2008 New Year Eve, I've got two special companions with me to count down ... they're Sebastian from UK & Richie from Holland. Of coz, I also felt happy to have Terrence from Hong Kong.^.^
Sebastian & I had innocent affection for each other in childhood, we gave each other a title 'special friend'. We then throw ourselves into different professions when we grew up. When an accountant met a social worker, it's fine that we never argue with each other, perhaps except one special occasion. A friendship has been lasting for near 20 years, how rare it is. To count backwards, I also knew Terrence for 10 years and I have been witnessing his positive change, I was touched when he started learning to care about others.
Encountered Richie is something special to me, not because he is a Dutch but someone who is never fail to show his concern on such a distant relationship for more than 2 years. This time, his maturity did impressed me a lot and his understanding on me is far more than I expected. Thanks Richie, you inspired my self-awareness unconditionally.
Saturday, December 08, 2007
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Holiday Mood
明晚便起程往宿霧了，
可是在holiday mood的影響下，
最後一份paper的進展是何其的慢....................................
望著幸福的娒明和科妮，
我要努力，然後便可以和胡迪有個快樂的假期 ^^
我們的娒明和科妮有機會去Cebu了
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