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Thursday, June 08, 2006

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 20:14:20 GMT

Hey everyone, kinda getting back into updating this yet once more.....I've been busy working etc....

Anyways, it's not even summer yet and it's totally gorgeous outside for the past month or so....for some reason this summer is going to be a HOT one. In a couple weeks my bf, lover, bestfriend and soon to be husband will be visiting me again in a couple weeks for his vacation. Of course I'll be on mine as well which will give us LOTS of time together. We'll be going camping as well, this being his second time in his life, overall it should be fun. We also have an immigration lawyers appointment as well at the end of the month to start the ball rolling a bit better then we have......kinda excited but at the same time nervous about the things the lawyer may ask.......I'll get over it but I won't be alone, Todd will be with me I hope all with that goes well.....as I'm sure it will.

Tuesday, February 28, 2006

Tue, 28 Feb 2006 20:34:50 GMT

Well, it's almost a month later and I seriously have to get in the habit of updating this site lol.

I just got back about 2 weeks ago from visiting my bf(husband to be) in West Haven, CT but my visit to see him this time included a little something special that came along with me for the trip, my little kitty BooBoo.

She enjoyed the trip just fine, mind you she was stuck laying in her travel carrier for the entire trip in the front passenger seat facing me so she could see me :) I haven't seen her since last November because I was having my sister's good friend watch her for me because I couldn't have her where I was living. She was SOOO happy to see me when I went to pick her up. I've had her since she was just a baby, big enough to hold in her hand......so you can see why I couldn't give her up when I moved, I DO love my pussy hehehe. I'll have to post a picture of her next time on here.

Anyways, I gave her the meds she had to take to make her "happy" for the long 11 1/2 hr drive because there was no way I was driving with a crazyass pussy in the front seat lol . Todd is going to be watching her at his apt. until he moves here to Canada so we can be permanantly together, married too of course. He's loving her company and she always greets him at the door and sleep on the end of the bed every night just like she always did when I had her.

Anyways here's a couple picture of Todd and I when we went to Yankee Candle in Deerfield, MA in the USA. It was some gothic midevil section of the candle place....me and my crown and my long sword lol....and todd lookin so cute in her crown, errrr HIS crown :)

Tuesday, January 24, 2006

Tue, 24 Jan 2006 14:35:30 GMT

Once Again(and definately more to come) An Update Occurs.......

Hey everyone it's been awhile since I logged in and updated this thing, I have to learn to do that more often because I really do enjoy this site.

GOOD NEWS, as of Jan. 8th, 2006 at 6pm under the Christmas Tree in Rockafeller Center, I was romantically engaged to my soon to be husband Todd. It wasn't the typical kind of engagement that happens with most str8 couples lol.......Of course it started out with us getting outta bed early in the morning and catching the train and riding it for about an hour to NYC. I personally have only been to NYC like 4 times I think with Todd because there's no way I was able to just up and go on my own, too big of a city and definately a scarey one at that to go alone lol. Anyways, we go off the train at Grand Central Station and it was such a great site to see the station, I felt like an ant on an ant hill inside it. To me, NYC is like a HUGE candy shop, I wanted to go everywhere and see everything lol........and throughout the day I grabbed Todd and was like "lets go in this store, omg lets go in this one....." and so on.....I think we walked the entire city of lower Manhattan and didn't really know it until our feet started to kill us.
We eventually made it into a few billion stores, went into Tiffany's this time because all the other times we visited NYC I felt dirt poor looking at the place lol and didn't go in because I didn't think the guard at the door would let us in cause we didn't exactly look the part of "we're millionaires and we're here to buy something" ya know with what we were wearing hahaha
but we went in anyways and despite what I was wearing, LOL you should have seen WHAT was actually walking around in this 5 story store.......*sigh* of course I wanted to just stop and ask one of the sales people "can I have one of your little blue bags" just to say I went in there but I was too scared. We eventually left the store, more like a fantasy because there wasn't a chance in hell we'd ever purchase anything from there lol. We walked and walked and made it to Rockafeller Center where the huge xmas tree was. I personally never seen it lit up during the day let alone at night, but you can't imagine how big it was. It was the most gorgeous tree I've ever seen, take THAT one Martha Stewart lol !!!

Anyways I'm going to make this a little short, as I could continue for hrs lol......but when I come back from NYC on Feb 19th I'll post some pics of Todd and I together........until then :)

Saturday, December 10, 2005

Sat, 10 Dec 2005 08:54:26 GMT

Finally an UPDATE.........

Well here I am finally, doing an update since it's been awhile. FINALLY winter is fully here, there's just too much snow outside. Don't get me wrong I love the snow, winter etc etc but I just raised the deductible on my car insurance JUST to lower it lol and now the misserable weather is seein just HOW good of a driver I am lol.

All my xmas shopping is done and can you believe just how rude some xmas shoppers can be! LOL.....For instance, the other day I was out shopping for my niece and nephew, of course in a toy store, and I'm pushing the cart around mindlessly pretending to know what I'm looking for and this woman comes around the corner of the isle and just crashes into my shopping cart. No "Oh I'm sorry, I wasn't watching where I was going...." nothing like that came from this woman's mouth, it was "Would you watch where you're going...." LOL I'm like you're the one that hit me, YOU watch where your'e going......of course the little "tiff" we'll call it ended up with her using every word she could think of, of course all bad words, god that sounded like gradeschool there "bad words" LOL.......and we went out separate ways after that... needless to say I knew which car she had in the parking lot cause we kinda left at the same time, so out of the kindness of my heart lol I just left my shopping cart behind her car as I was closing the trunk of my car and well, I'm sure you could guess what happened when she backed up.....

Monday, November 14, 2005

Mon, 14 Nov 2005 17:56:11 GMT

Well I'm finally moved into my sister's place.....all that's left to get is my kitty from my friends' place where I use to live up until today. Tomorrow I'm pickin her up and letting my sister's friend take care of her until Feb. when I go on vacation to see Todd cause he wants to take care of her until he eventually moves here OR until I get my own place eventually. On a good note, I'm just glad my sister and her family have welcomed me into their home for awhile and I'm totally greatful too that they're there to help me out.

I can't believe the weather outside today, sunny but really cold, and from what the weather channel said, there's talk of some snow flakes in the air sometime this week AND a possible thunderstorm this evening.....love the rainy thunderstorms.....

Anyways, this entry is kinda short and boring but I hope to update it with better pictures and info so........everyone have a great evening.

Friday, November 11, 2005

Fri, 11 Nov 2005 11:46:54 GMT

Well the big moving day, yet again lol, is this comming Monday. Unfortunately for me, I've moved about 2 times since mid June of this year. Long story short, I've never lived on my own per say and moving out of my parents home this past June 1st/05 and trying to make it on your own is so hard when you're not exactly sure where you're going. You never really sure just HOW big the world can be and gets when you finally move out on your own, venturing out into the world wondering "what if.....".

I'll be living at my sister's place for a bit, I'm kinda helping her family out during their slow season with the business they have, Sears Carpet Cleaning. With my rent being $440/mnth right now where I'm living, the expenses of a $365 car lease per mnth and the insurance, and rent and of course your basic living expenses, it's VERY frustrating not being able to have the $$$ for yourself when you need it. So, in moving to her place, it cuts down on the rent which in turn relieves me temp. of money worries. I think that's the big thing when it comes to movin out for younger people these days, money.
It's all great and wonderful thinking about getting your own place and having your own space to do what you like, but in all honesty it's a very big responsibility. A friend of mine in Toronto has been thinking about getting his own place and getting away from having a roomate, and he's been all excited about moving out and into his new place in January of 2006. His lease is up in a few months and with some great advice from his friends, and me too of course, he's going to stay until the lease is done, giving him that extra $$$ in his account to make his new place all jazzed up the way he wants it. I'm totally envious of the guy lol........

Sunday, November 06, 2005

Sun, 06 Nov 2005 19:12:04 GMT

Hey everyone, I've finally rid myself of being sick. It's totally been a very slow week indeed.
On a good note, my bf Todd, told me yesterday that he finally purchased my engagement ring. Of course I had to be there when he came to visit me a few months ago to size it but when he told me he picked it up yesterday I was so happy. Here's a pic of what it looks like......

Not the best picture of it, but I got it from the website of the store he purchased it at. I can honestly say, this guy has been the highlight of my life so far and everything that I've wanted in a sexy hot italian guy
Other than that, Christmas is getting close and I hope everyone has done most of their shopping, the people out there can be really rude lol and not a care in the world who they run over with their shopping carts . I'm glad I've done all my shopping, except the odd little things. I find that the smaller things that happen during Christmas mean so much more to me then the entire gift giving. Being close to friends, family and all the loved ones in your lives is what's important.......I hope that as the season gets closer, everyone finds that special person to snuggle up to late at night, listening to quiet Christmas tunes and a roaring fire .

Wednesday, November 02, 2005

Wed, 02 Nov 2005 08:48:00 GMT

Just thought I would include a picture of my bf Todd. He currently lives in West Haven, CT in the USA on the east coast. This is the guy I mentioned in my last entry about marrying :) Isn't he cute. Of course I have a photo album with tons of nice digital pictures of us together when we went to NYC for the first time. That city totally makes you seem like you're an ant when you're walking down Broadway. Of course I'll be going to visit NYC again with Todd when I visit him in Jan. I'm sure whatever we do in Jan will totally make some new memories for us to share.
This entry is gonna be short today as I'm still packing to move before the end of Nov. *sigh* anyone wanna lend a hand? LOL

Sunday, October 30, 2005

Sun, 30 Oct 2005 13:13:43 GMT

Hate Being Home Sick :(

I hate being home sick with strepthroat. Totally sucks. I don't feel like doing anything today and not sure if I wanna go into work tomorrow. I would rather stay home and relax in bed, of course alone lol but I'm not one to make someone sick so......I'll drink my tea and relax.

Other than that, the weather outside is totally a gorgeous autumn day. I love when this time of the year rolls around, all the beautiful trees turn so many colours, it's too bad it's just once a year that it happens. With Autumn arrives Winter eventually. With all the whiteness covering everything, it's like a huge blanket that covers up all the "bad things" you normally see like trash etc.....at least for a short time.

It's weird when you're sick, kinda gives you the time to think about life and things and people around you and what they mean to you. With everything that goes on in this hectic world, work, family. stress...........doesn't give many people the time to think about all the smaller things in life.

Anyways, next time you're by yourself, late at night or taking a walk.......whatever you may be doing, take the time to think about what matters in your life, what makes you happy. Enjoy your Halloween everyone :)

Friday, October 28, 2005

Fri, 28 Oct 2005 13:24:58 GMT

Friday October 28, 2005

"OMG the unchartered "marriage" word........

Hey everyone, this is my first entry, and of course not the last, for my site here. I hope I don't bore everyone the first time around, I would love to make a first great impression with everyone.

Anyways, just letting everyone know I've made a lot of great people online and a very good friend, a new one actually, that lives in Toronto, and through his site on HERE I've learned a great deal about him and I definately have to say he's grown on me more and more everyday. Once he reads this entry I'm sure he'll know who I'm talking about lol.

I'll have to post some pics of family members or something cause yes this posting lol is kinda boring. Lets see....I can't wait until the new year arrives, it's going to be a busy year for me. I'm sure everyone has big plans for whatever maybe going on in their lives, but I have yet to explore the entire world of.....yes......"engagement"

My bf and I have been together for about 2 years now, give or take a couple months. He's asked me to marry him, well lol he WILL be asking me in January of 2006. We've talked about it so many times in the past but we've been still getting use to the fact he lives in the USA, West Haven, CT actually. At least the Canadian laws recognize gay marriages whereas the USA doesn't BUT only in the sence of "same sex unions" which doesn't really classify marriage in my eyes but so unfair and closedminded. Ok back to me, I never thought of myself getting married , well only because my family doesn't have a great track record lol but then again, I'm the ONLY gay guy so, who knows they might learn something from moi. Getting married, no matter who you are and where you come from is a big challenge and responsibility. It's like the final step in a relationship, next to kids that is, WHICH of course I cannot have lol, imagine if I could.....scarey lol....

I am proud to say though I can't wait to marry Todd, my future husband with every responsibility that comes with saying "yes". To each and every gay couple out there that plans on getting married, I wish you all a great life together.