I'm just someone who cares.

If you're raising the kid together, why don't you get married?

Sounds to me like you're assuming it won't work and you're chickening out of putting any effort at all into a marriage. The only reason I am commenting is because it's those kinds of assumptions that make a marriage fail before they even start. How can I help this world be a better place if I stand back and say nothing? What do you think is needed for a happy family?

You do what you want with your life, it's your decision anyways. I'm done.

Hey, I may not know the situation between you and this John fellow up here, but he sounds like a real jerk. I can't say that he is in fact, a jerk because I don't know him.
I think, especially now that I am married, that marriage is way too big of a commitment to dive into just because you want to have guilt free sex or you get pregnant. Having a child is always something to be celebrated, no matter what the circumstances. It makes me sad that people can call themselves Christians and think that they have the right to judge other people. That is not the teachings of My Jesus.It really ruins it for the rest of us who know the truth. You know people who will tell you things of more truth and more bearring this guy.
If I liked ciggars I would light one for you dude! Hey, Keep us posted.

I appoligise for my spelling and gramatical errorrs. give me a break it only took me two attempts at comm arts 1.lol

updates are usually a good thing