﻿<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Tanus's Xanga</title><link>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus</link><description>Latest Xanga weblog from Tanus</description><language>en-us</language><ttl>60</ttl><image><title>The Weblog Community</title><url>http://s.xanga.com/images/xangalogobutton.gif</url><link>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus</link></image><item><title>Tuesday, February 28, 2006</title><link>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/450822848/item.html</link><guid>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/450822848/item.html</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Feb 2006 22:34:24 GMT</pubDate><description>http://adjunctscholar.blogspot.com</description><comments>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/450822848/item.html#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Saturday, August 13, 2005</title><link>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/325937984/item.html</link><guid>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/325937984/item.html</guid><pubDate>Sat, 13 Aug 2005 04:23:35 GMT</pubDate><description>I didn't intend to post again about Hiroshima &amp;amp;
Nagasaki; but because of both my strong beliefs about the issue and the
surprising amount of response it generated, I've decided to post one
more time. I'm going to do my best to lay out the problems that most of
my readers seem to still struggle with and give what I believe to be
the best answers. I admit that I am far from the "Answer Man"
concerning this or any other topic; but hopefully I can generate more
beneficial discussion and thought with my words.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
First, let's discuss the argument that &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;conventional war would have resulted in more total casualties&lt;/span&gt;
(&lt;a href="http://www.eagleandelephant.blogspot.com/" target="_new"&gt;William&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/10873138" target="_new"&gt;CJ&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Aurenande" target="_new"&gt;Matt&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Arthenor" target="_new"&gt;Arthenor&lt;/a&gt; all touched on this). This is an
argument that I discussed previously. However, I believe it deserves
more attention because (a) my arguments have apparently been
unconvincing, and (b) though I disagree with the conclusions of the
argument, I agree that it is a very popular and convincing line of
argumentation.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
In response to it, I would first like to refer you back to some
analysis I made earlier, which attacks one of the implicit premises of
the argument above. Essentially, the argument is a utilitarian claim: &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;If Action X will result in less harm than [not Action X], then Action X is justified&lt;/span&gt;. In other words, one should evaluate the "rightness" of the nuclear bombings by an ends-based utilitarion criterion.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Unfortunately, while my readers make some really compelling claims as
to why a continuation of conventional war would have caused more deaths
in the long run, they seem to mostly miss (or implicitly reject,
perhaps) my deontological claim that &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;the action is still wrong&lt;/span&gt;. In my last post, I talked about the &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;perverse situations&lt;/span&gt; that can result from an ends-based mindset, especially with regard to wartime analysis. &lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Arthenor's response is threefold. He argues first that the situations
are "different" (in other words, that starting an unprovoked nuclear
war is disanalogous to the nuclear bombings of WWII). My point was
simply that if it could be argued that nuclear war is inevitable (or
likely to happen sometime in the future), utilitarian reasoning could
justify such heinous actions as beginning a nuclear omnicide.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
He secondly questions my uncomfortability with making decisions based
upon calculation of "likely body counts." I am certainly not rejecting
this, which is made clear by my argument that to &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;commit&lt;/span&gt; an act that casuses [bad things] is worse than to &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;allow&lt;/span&gt;
an act that results in [bad things]. Arthenor's response (and one I
believe William gave) is that, barring the nuclear bombings, we would
have instead invaded Japan, resulting in the killing of civilians
anyway.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
However, it is &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;imperative&lt;/span&gt; to note that this argument creates a &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;false dilemma&lt;/span&gt;.
It assumes that there are only two possible options: (1) Drop [2]
nuclear bombs on Hiroshima and Nagasaki or (2) Continue firebombing and
invade Japan. Tony correctly points out that this argument leaves out
other options--conditional surrender, for one. In fact, I would argue
that there were options that would not have required the United States
to take actions that would knowingly result in many civilian deaths.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Another major argument I would like to address is the idea that &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;the United States was already killing innocent civilians&lt;/span&gt;
through firebombing, etc. The argument more generally posits that the
nuclear bombings were not uniquely morally reprehensible; that any
ethical concerns against it could be equally applied to other tactics
already being used by both sides in the war.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Well... sure. That simply means that the US did &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;another&lt;/span&gt; bad thing, not that its &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;other&lt;/span&gt; morally reprehensible actions somehow justify all of them. "Two wrongs don't make a right."&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Moving on, Arthenor makes an interesting argument that there were really &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;no innocent civilians&lt;/span&gt;. His argument is supported by a few claims: (1) &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Evaluate the act, not the intent &lt;/span&gt;(i.e. coercion is irrelevant for determining innocence or guilt); (2) &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Non-fighting civilians still contributed&lt;/span&gt; (sewing shirts for soldiers); (3) There is really &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;no brightline for establishing complicity&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Regarding (1), my response is... well, he's simply wrong. If a man
holds a gun to my head and forces me to hand him my brother's wallet,
most moral and ethical systems would not hold me at fault, even though
I &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;technically&lt;/span&gt; had a choice ("Be an unwilling participant in theft or have your brains splattered all over the wall").&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
On his second argument, he makes a really dangerous slippery slope
analogy. I think it's pretty clear that a 34-year-old woman, who sews a
button onto a shirt that makes its way onto Hitler's body is not held
morally responsible for the actions that Hitler takes. Now, I know
that's not Arthenor's intended conclusion. His three arguments are
simply fuel for his main conclusion, which is that since we cannot (a)
flawlessly determine guilt or innocence or (b) save all innocent lives,
our only option left is to "save as many as possible."&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
But I must heartily disagree with his analysis. First, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;just
because you can't save all (or most) innocent life or create a distinct
brightline isn't a reason to completely disregard it.&lt;/span&gt; By this
reasoning, since our legal system is imperfect and cannot perfectly
distinguish the innocent from the guilty, I should ensure the safety of
myself and my family and kill anyone I suspect is guilty (vigilante
style, baby!). It's not a perfect analogy, but I think my point stands
regardless. Applying it to the situation in Japan: If we can't
perfectly determine the majority of Japanese citizens' innocence or
guilt, we &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;should not simply disregard it altogether&lt;/span&gt;. &lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Keep in mind that Arthenor's conclusion that "well, might as well save
our own lives if we can't tell" falls short at the point where &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;invasion or nuclear bombings are not the only two options&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
There was a lot more I wanted to say, but I have to get up early
tomorrow, and I don't want my post to get any longer. =P I'm guessing
there's enough here to talk about anyway. =)&lt;br&gt;</description><comments>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/325937984/item.html#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Thursday, August 11, 2005</title><link>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/324868803/item.html</link><guid>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/324868803/item.html</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Aug 2005 17:30:31 GMT</pubDate><description>Well, after getting back from vacation, it seems as if
my comments on Hiroshima and Nagasaki have generated a bit of interest
(read: disagreement). I have work today and tomorrow, hanging out with
people before I leave (Sunday morning!), then extreme busyness with
freshmen orientation... but I'll try to get something up sometime on
here/blogger/&lt;a href="http://cafeliberty.blogspot.com" target="_new"&gt;Café Liberty&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
4 days. =)</description><comments>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/324868803/item.html#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Sunday, August 07, 2005</title><link>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/322099747/item.html</link><guid>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/322099747/item.html</guid><pubDate>Sun, 07 Aug 2005 23:26:19 GMT</pubDate><description>As you may or may not know, yesterday marked the 60-year anniversary of
the nuclear bombing of the cities of Hiroshima and Nagasaki, which
killed around 150,000 civilians. Ever since then, people have debated
the morality of what took place. Some argue that the bombings, though
horrible, were a necessary evil that helped to end the war and probably
saved lives overall. On the other hand, there are those who maintain
that what took place sixty years ago was a horrendously immoral action
that deserves to be exposed for what it was: a war crime.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
I'm of the latter opinion. Though I believe that President Truman did
what he perceived to be pragmatically necessary, I also believe that he
was horribly misguided in his authorization of the bombings. I know
that there are many who disagree with me, though, especially having
argued this issue with a number of acquaintences. Therefore, I will do
my best to elucidate the arguments of those who believed that the
bombings were the best (least bad) of the options available.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
From my experience, every argument in favor of President Truman's
course of action is centered around the pragmatic claim that it "saved
more lives in the long run." While the argument will often include
moral claims (e.g. saving more lives is a morally good action), the
argument does center around the fact that the bombings, regardless of
how horrible they were, had an overall net benefit.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
The reasons for believing this statement are many, but the two most
common deal with the &lt;b&gt;Japanese's unwillingness to surrender&lt;/b&gt; and the
&lt;b&gt;subsequent military action that would have been necessary in the
absence of the nuclear bombings.&lt;/b&gt; For example, a typical argument might
sound something like the following:&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
"While what happened was horrible and killed thousands upon thousands
of civilians, far more would have died in the absence of such a drastic
course of action. For one, the Japanese were willing to fight to the
death rather than surrender, an ingrained cultural belief that
surrender was the ultimate sign of shame. This mindset would have
lengthened the duration of the war significantly, most likely resulting
in even more civilian deaths. Second, absent the bombings, the United
States would have been forced to conduct numerous more small-scale
bombings, including civilian-populated areas, which would have had
higher projected death totals."&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
As you might have predicted, I disagree with this argument, for a few
reasons. First, the argument &lt;b&gt;assumes that the Japanese would have
refused to surrender.&lt;/b&gt; Even if this claim were true (and there are
reasons to believe the contrary), the position &lt;b&gt;disproves itself.&lt;/b&gt; If the
Japanese were really willing to "fight to the last man," then by that
reasoning, &lt;i&gt;the nuclear bombings would not have deterred them.&lt;/i&gt; The very
fact that they were pushed into surrendering means that &lt;i&gt;their supposed
"fight to the last man" mentality was not absolute.&lt;/i&gt; If this is true,
then there is no reason to assume that many more civilians would have
died had the war continued conventionally. For all we know, with conventional warfare that did not specifically target civilians, the Japanese could have surrendered before the death totals passed those of Hiroshima and Nagasaki.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Second, and more generally, the argument &lt;b&gt;assumes that more civilians
would have died.&lt;/b&gt; This is related to my analysis above--while it is
possible that the bombings "saved" lives in the long run, there were so
many factors involved that any assumption about future actions and
results is specious at best.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Turning to a more offensive line of argumentation, I would argue that
&lt;b&gt;the intentional targeting of innocent civilians was immoral.&lt;/b&gt; This
argument holds true for several reasons:&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
First, I believe that &lt;b&gt;intentional targeting of innocent civilians is
categorically wrong&lt;/b&gt;, in war or otherwise. I understand that this
statement would take pages upon pages to coherently and comprehensively
defend, but let's just say I'm a deontologist, not a utilitarian. If
you disagree with me, well, we can hash that out sometime. =)&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Second, the logical end of such belief &lt;b&gt;creates perverse situations&lt;/b&gt;.
When we start to talk about lives in terms of cold, calculating
analysis, it becomes easy to argue such positions such as spark analysis, where
it is posited that, given the inevitability of nuclear warfare and the
rising possible death toll as nuclear technology is developed and
equipment is secured, it is defensible from a utilitarian perspective
to start a nuclear war now. While I know that many utilitarians would
not buy that argument, it does show the danger of using mere numbers to
determine morality of actions, especially when those numbers are real,
actual human beings.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Third, I would argue that &lt;b&gt;committing an act is distinct from allowing a
course of action that could itself result in an immoral action being taken&lt;/b&gt;. For
example, I would argue that there is a definite difference (in terms of
moral culpability) between &lt;i&gt;participating in&lt;/i&gt; the genocide in Sudan and
&lt;i&gt;allowing&lt;/i&gt; it to continue. With this in mind, my conclusion becomes
clear: Intentionally targeting innocent civilians is more morally
reprehensible than allowing a war to continue that "might" or even
"probably" would result in more deaths.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
I know that my analysis is far from comprehensive in nature;
regardless, I thought I would take 20 minutes of my time to throw out a
thought-provoking post. Comments, disagreements and questions are
welcome. =)&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
</description><comments>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/322099747/item.html#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Sunday, August 07, 2005</title><link>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/321447397/item.html</link><guid>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/321447397/item.html</guid><pubDate>Sun, 07 Aug 2005 22:45:26 GMT</pubDate><description>I got a new cellphone, which is pretty awesome. But I lost all my
contacts; so please call me (at the same number), IM or email me your
phone numbers again. Thanks. =)&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
edit: gone on a family vacation for 3 days. Back Wednesday sometime. Call the cell (I might have service; not sure.) =)&lt;br&gt;</description><comments>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/321447397/item.html#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Tuesday, August 02, 2005</title><link>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/318291993/item.html</link><guid>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/318291993/item.html</guid><pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2005 17:12:50 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;span style="font-size: 100%;"&gt;As
a single college-age male, I have had my fair share of association with
members of the opposite sex. Despite earlier facetious claims to the
contrary, I am far from the world's foremost expert on the mysterious
and often nervewracking entity known as the Dating Relationship.
Nevertheless, I feel that I may be able to offer a bit of insight,
however small, to my female readers (and, of course, to my male readers
as well).&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;First, though, the background. Despite the opinions of
some of you, I do not spend every waking moment thinking about girls;
neither do I pass my waking hours analyzing the Dating Relationship.
But the other day, I had an interesting conversation with a couple
buddies of mine. We were discussing girls, obviously. But the focal
point of the conversation was not what you might expect from three
immature, single guys ("So, who do you like?" "Isn't ______ hot?")
Rather, we were discussing and sharing opinions about why we make
certain decisions about who to date (or not date).&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Though I
cannot speak for anyone but myself, I believe the ideas presented in
the forthcoming list of "The Top 5 Reasons I Won't Date You" are at
least held, in some part, by a fair number of my male friends. Please
keep in mind that this post isn't intended to "diss on" girls. Rather,
I hope to accomplish three simple goals: First, I intend to inform my
female readers how some of us guys view girls in general, and
specifically girls in the context of dating. Second, by doing this, I
hope to foster an environment in which my friends can talk openly about
these and similar issues. Far too often, we are simply too shy or
embarrassed to talk about such matters. This is childish (well, perhaps
adolescent), and it stops here. Third, well, I hope that this list
entertains you to a certain extent. Otherwise you wouldn't read it, and
I'd be wasting my time.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;So, onward!&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;The Top 5 Reasons I Won't Date You&lt;br&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;1. You take dating too seriously.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 100%;"&gt;
Now, before you jump all over me, allow me to explain myself. I hold
the Dating Relationship at a pretty high level of respect. I consider
cheating (whether physically or emotionally) to be one of the worst
betrayals of trust that can occur in an interpersonal relationship, and
I'm all for faithful, monagomous dating relationships. Nevertheless, I
believe that many girls simply &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;take dating too seriously.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Allow
me to explain. In the culturally Christian and conservative environment
in which I've been raised, there has been a strong movement for the
advocacy of what is known as "courtship." The interesting thing is,
there's really no clear definition of what courtship actually means,
and why it's mutually exclusive with (and of course preferential to)
dating. Perhaps the biggest downfall of this movement has been the
surprisingly predominant view that courtship is a "really really really
&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;really&lt;/span&gt; serious commitment that
should only be pursued at the point where you believe that marriage is
in close sight." While not everyone takes this extreme view, the
implications are obvious. First, it creates a Catch-22. You don't want
to date a guy unless you are pretty sure he's "The One(tm)"--but I
would argue that you simply cannot know if he's "The One(tm)" unless
you date him, spend time alone with him, etc. Second, once the
courtship phase has started, it creates a perverse incentive to stay in
the relationship. Let's say you do all your little preliminary work and
decide that Spiffy Jones is The Man For You. So you begin to court...
and oops, maybe he isn't. It's a lot harder to finally break up than it
is when you don't hold the dating relationship on a skyscraper of a
pedestal. I have a lot more to say on this, but it would take way too
long. =)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;2. You're Still Emotionally In Junior High. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;font&gt;For
those of you who don't know, I attend a small, private Christian
college in the LA area called Biola University. While there is
certainly something to be said for a 3-to-1 girl-guy ratio, there are a
shockingly high number of girls who are, well, immature. This problem
is not unique to small Christian colleges, however. I have friends who
attend major universities, and they encounter the same problems with
girls at their colleges.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I believe that a large part of the
problem stems from before college. As we all know, junior high girls
and guys are really immature and crazy. While this may be extremely
annoying, it is unfortunately necessary to get all of that out of their
system before they transition to high school and college. Sadly, some
of them fail to get it out in junior high or high school--and those are
the ones who are still immature and childish in college. Strangely
enough, a majority of them that I have encountered have been girls
instead of guys. I think the reasoning for this phenomenon makes sense,
though. More often than not, girls are expected to act more maturely
than guys are. When junior high girls goof off, they are told to
behave; but when guys do the same, even if they are reprimanded, it's
usually accompanied with a shrug and, "Well, guys will be guys." This
divergence in attitude towards guys and girls plays itself out in the
scenario I gave above. Girls may &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;seem&lt;/span&gt;
to mature more quickly (as I hear all the time from people), but
visiting a college campus will quickly remove that trite saying from
your mind.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Now this presents an unfortunate dilemma. Because of
the relative immaturity of girls my age, I often find myself hanging
out with girls older than myself. Don't get me wrong; there are
certainly mature young women who are in their freshmen or sophomore
years of college. But they are far less prevalent than they should be.
So I never thought I would say this... but junior high girls, be as
silly as you want. Get it all out before it's too late. &lt;img src="http://www.xanga.com/Images/smiley3.gif" height="15" width="15"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;3. You Don't Make Things Obvious Enough.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;font&gt;
Now this problem may very well be fundamentally with guys, but I think
girls are at least partially at fault for failing to help solve it. As
we all know, guys can be pretty clueless. I'll admit it--when it comes
to girls, a lot of the time I just don't know what I'm supposed to do.
But this is where girls should step in and make things easier, right?
Sadly, this often does not take place. Here's a hypothetical situation:
Laura wants something for her birthday (a necklace, a puppy dog,
whatever). She's dating John, who wants to get her something she really
wants. So he asks her if there's anything she would like for her
birthday. Common sense dictates that, in order to maximize the
happiness of both individuals, Laura should simply tell John. But she
doesn't! Instead, she gives little "hints" and "suggestions," expecting
that John will be able to deftly piece together the offhanded comments
about how the sun is shining brightly today, which obviously refers to
the fact that the necklace would reflect the sun beautifully. But John
doesn't make the connection, and gets Laura something else for her
birthday.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;SO frustrating. Girls, it's ok to tell us if you want
something, whether it's a present or a certain way for us to act. If
you don't like it when we go get coffee with another girl, don't think,
"He should KNOW that I wouldn't like that" and then get angry at us
secretly. We're stupid. Tell us you don't like it. Even if we disagree,
at least we'll disagree and be able to talk about that disagreement,
instead of us losing the fight without knowing it ever existed.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;4. You Expect Too Much.&lt;/span&gt;
Like most other guys, I think it would be pretty cool to be perfect.
Not having to worry about ever messing up would be neat. But this is
not the case for me, or for any other guy I know. For some reason, this
fact has seemed to escape the knowledge of some girls, who expect their
boyfriends to be perfect gentlemen in every way. When said boyfriend
fails to achieve this impossible goal, the girl is devastatingly
disappointed. Now I certainly agree that there's an appropriate amount
of disappointment to be shared when someone messes up. But far too
often, I've had talks with girls who completely freak out because they
find out that their boyfriend drove without his license once, gave an
old lady the Evil Eye in the parking lot last week, or had a sip of
Heineken while underage.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I'm going to be honest here: The guy
you're dating probably hasn't told you about a tenth of the mistakes
he's made in his life. This shouldn't come as too much of a shock, but
it's true. Guys mess up, but it's ok. The fact that he forgot that it
was your 374-day anniversary is not grounds for a DTR. Now if he gets
strung out on cocaine 4 days a week, that's probably something you need
to talk about. But the fact that he glanced at a girl who walked by?
Not so much.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;5. You're Too Insecure OR Too Proud.&lt;/span&gt;
The final thing I want to talk about is a girl's self-esteem. There are
(obviously) two fundamental ways in which a girl can go wrong here: She
can either view herself too harshly (the "insecurity problem"), or she
can think she's all that when she's really only half that (the
"primadonna complex"). If I had to choose one, I would most likely go
for the girl with the insecurity problem. But ideally, I wouldn't have
to choose between the two.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Girls who are insecure are painful to
be around, because most of the time, they're really neat people. The
most insecure girls I know are attractive, intelligent and have great
personalities except for that one flaw. And that is so hard to take,
because they are way harder on themselves than anyone else is. The
worst is when a girl refuses to take a compliment. "Hey, good job on
that test!" "Uhh... I didn't do that well." "Silly, you scored a 105."
"Well... I could have gotten a 106." "ARGH." I understand that humility
is good, but that humility needs to be balanced with a correct view of
one's self.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;On the other hand, primadonnas are just plain
annoying. (I know guys can be arrogant too, but again, that's not the
topic of this post.) It is completely frustrating to see a pretty,
smart girl with a horrible attitude, because her positive attributes
get shoved out of view. When I first meet a girl, I first notice her
looks (obviously). But as I get to know her more, looks matter
proprtionately less, whether for friendship or dating. So here's some
advice: Don't be insecure, and don't be proud. Be glad that you are who
you are.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;So that's all I have for now. I'd like to remind my reading audience that this post is most definitely &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;not&lt;/span&gt;
meant to disparage or rant about girls. Almost no girls have all 5 of
these problems, and the ones they do have are probably not to the
extreme I've stated in here. Nevertheless, I think it's important for
girls to see some of the problems we as guys face. Hopefully, as I said
earlier, this will go far in helping guys and girls to relate to each
other better.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And if you're a girl reading this, you should write one about guys. Because God knows we need it.* &lt;img src="http://www.xanga.com/Images/smiley3.gif" height="15" width="15"&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
*Except Alexander J. Schumacher, who is perfect in every calcuable and
perceivable way. In fact, if it were possible to be perfect and not be
God, Alexander J. Schumacher would be that person. Alexander J.
Schumacher, a man for every occasion. Alexander J. Schumacher, The
Ideal Gentleman. Alexander J. Schumacher, God's very own handiwork.
Alexander J. Schumacher, a hero for our time.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description><comments>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/318291993/item.html#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Monday, July 25, 2005</title><link>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/312726889/item.html</link><guid>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/312726889/item.html</guid><pubDate>Mon, 25 Jul 2005 19:37:09 GMT</pubDate><description>I normally try to avoid "what I've been doing" types of posts; but I
suppose they're good once in a while, especially when most of my
readers don't actually live nearby during the summer. So in a nutshell,
here's what's been up in the past month or so:&lt;br&gt;

&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Relatives:&lt;/span&gt; My
grandparents and one of my uncles have been here for a couple weeks
now, visiting from Hawaii. Also, an aunt and one of our cousins flew in
Saturday, and are staying here for several days. They're all from my
mom's side of the family. Seeing relatives is cool, but it does
generally mean that we've been engaging in two primary activities for
the duration of their visits: (a) eating and (b) shopping. I swear that
I'm going to need to put myself on a rigorous exercise regiment once I
get back to school, because I'm going to get *so* fat from the nonstop
eating out and good but unhealthy meals at home.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Friends: &lt;/span&gt;I've been able
to hang out with my friends here quite a bit recently, which has been
refreshing and encouraging. The months I've been away don't seem to
have affected our friendships negatively to any significant degree,
which is good. We've been able to do everything we did before I left:
Go to the movies, hang out at the mall, crash/eat meals/sleep over at
each others' houses, play basketball and other games, and all that good
stuff. I only have a couple weeks left at home now though... it's
strange to think about it.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Work:&lt;/span&gt;
Working hasn't been
much this month, because my boss has been out of town (ironically in
LA) for business trips. I also haven't been working as much as I could
have beceause I've been sick (see next post). On a more exciting note,
though, I have been accepted for two (yes, two!) part-time jobs for
next semester! One is a tutoring job, paying $15/hour, and the other is
a job working for Biola's Advancement Program (specifically, Wes
Wilmer, one of Biola's 5 VPs) for $10/hour. Here's to hoping I'll be
able to keep that, debate, and school up!&lt;br&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Sick:&lt;/span&gt; During the latter
part of my trip to California, I developed what I later discovered to
be a nasty eye infection ("iritis" or something--inflammation of the
iris). Gross. My eye doctor said it was one of the worst cases she's
ever seen--apparently I'm genetically predisposed for it, which sucks.
I'm on 2 different eye drops, oral prednizone, and pain meds. Hopefully
that'll only be for a few more days. By the way, much thanks to
everyone who inquired about my eye and its progress; I really
appreciate it. And if you read this, big shoutout to Lily for the
get-well card. You rock girl. =)&lt;br&gt;
  &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Music:&lt;/span&gt; I've been listening to a lot of music lately... and as I like to do every so often, here's my current playlist:&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;"First Day Of My Life," Bright Eyes&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;"Cut Your Hair," Pavement&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;"Costello [Bonus Song]," Straylight Run&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;"Tifa's Theme," Final Fantasy VII Soundtrack&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;"Learning To Fly," Pink Floyd&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;"Catapult," Counting Crows&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;"Pin Your Wings," Copeland&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;"I Will Play My Game Beneath The Spin Light," Brand New&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;"Portions Of Foxes," Rilo Kiley&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;"We Both Go Down Together," The Decemberists&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;

Now I'm going to go read Harry Potter 6 or something. I'll be back in
LA Sunday the 14th, so hit me up if you want to hang out before school
starts. Can I just say that I am *so stoked* for this next school year? =)&lt;br&gt;

&lt;br&gt;

-ssm</description><comments>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/312726889/item.html#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Thursday, July 21, 2005</title><link>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/309979959/item.html</link><guid>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/309979959/item.html</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Jul 2005 18:49:03 GMT</pubDate><description>While I was at the mall with a friend the
other day, I noticed a shocking and pervasive phenomenon. It should
have been neither shocking nor pervasive, since it was something I have
been noticing for months now. Nevertheless, this is worthy of note.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Perusing
through the guys' sections of stores such as Pac-Sun, A&amp;amp;F and
American Eagle, what jumped out at me (aside from the disgustingly high
prices) was the inordinate number of pink articles of clothing. All
right, so I know that this is nothing new. Pink has been permeating the
men's wardrobe for quite some time now. But never, and I repeat &lt;font style="font-style: italic;"&gt;never,&lt;/font&gt; have I seen such a disproportionate amount of it. Also, never have I seen so much &lt;font style="font-style: italic;"&gt;bright&lt;/font&gt; and &lt;font style="font-style: italic;"&gt;hot&lt;/font&gt; pink in a guys' section.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This
indeed is truly disturbing. I can handle guys wearing pink; done well
and in conjunction with other colors, it can actually look quite nice.
Nonetheless, there is something terribly wrong and aesthetically
unpleasing about a bright-pink polo shirt from American Eagle.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Ladies
and gentlemen, what did I do in response to this situation? I sagely
restrained myself from purchasing one of the aforementioned hot pink
shirts. I think that wearing pink for (a) the "shock" effect or (b) "to
be different" are both rather silly. So, beloved readers, I rebelled.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I
bought a pale pink long-sleeved shirt. But no, this is no bright- or
hot-pink shirt! It has pale pink and grey vertical lines. In short, it
is fashionable, subtle and smart. And despite Rebekah's insistence that
I refrain from ever buying (and consequently wearing) a pink shirt, I
Have Rebelled. But not to be a rebel.&lt;br&gt;</description><comments>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/309979959/item.html#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Monday, July 18, 2005</title><link>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/306282063/item.html</link><guid>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/306282063/item.html</guid><pubDate>Mon, 18 Jul 2005 16:20:51 GMT</pubDate><description>As promised, here's a bit of a summary from my week at the &lt;a href="http://www.theihs.org/" target="_new"&gt;Institute of Humane Studies&lt;/a&gt;' Liberty &amp;amp; Society Seminar.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;To
be honest, I wasn't completely sure what to expect. I knew that IHS was
an organization committed to the classical liberal tradition, and that
the seminar was supposed to have approximately 70 fellow college
students in attendance to discuss such principles. &lt;font size="2"&gt;In
retrospect, the seminar was quite satisfactory and thoroughly
enjoyable. In order to avoid rambling, I'll simply note a few
highlights (or lowlights) of the seminar:&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;First, the &lt;font style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;diversity&lt;/font&gt;,
which was most ostensibly evinced by the residences of the students.
The majority of the students were from the United States, anywhere from
California to Florida. But a number of students hailed from other areas
of the world--Latin America, Canada, China, Belgium, Russia, Italy,
France, England and Turkey, to name several. There was also &lt;font style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;diversity of thought&lt;/font&gt;. Although the faculty (and &lt;font style="font-style: italic;"&gt;most&lt;/font&gt;
of the students) were self-described classical liberals, as is often
the case, the title proved to be less indicative of libertarian party
positions and more of the understandings that each individual had come
to on his or her own (which seems rather appropriate, given the nature
of libertarianism). Finally, there was a &lt;font style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;diversity of age&lt;/font&gt;.
I was a little surprised to be one of only three undergraduate
sophomores; most of the students were either close to completing their
BS/BA, or in graduate school. Nevertheless, I was able to hold my own
quite well. All three types of diversity proved to be quite beneficial,
as I was able to bounce my own ideas and principles off those with
different views, whether shaped by living in a different country, being
in a different point in life, or simply sharing common yet divergent
views.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Second, there was the &lt;font style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;lecture and discussions&lt;/font&gt;.
Each day was packed with 4 lectures and subsequent small-group
discussions. The faculty made it clear that their intent was not to
indoctrinate the students; rather, they intended to provide us with
information and personal views, from which we were encouraged to shape
our own ideas. This turned out to truly be the case, as I often found
myself disagreeing with certain proposed positions that both the
faculty and other students had. On the continuum of libertarian
thought, I tend toward the "anarcho-capitalist" side. For example, I'm
not convinced that it's necessary to have either mandatory taxation or
a national army, unless all the citizens agree. I hear this phase
dissipates as one gets older though; we'll see.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The one
complaint I would have about the lectures would be that they were
sometimes a bit elementary for my taste. This point of contention is
partially tempered by my observance that some of the issues I had
previously thought through and discussed innumerable times seemed to be
new to many of the students. This seemed a bit strange to me,
considering I had read almost none of what many would consider to be
"necessary" classical liberal writings (Ayn Rand, JS Mills and Hayek,
to name a few). It was good to learn that I need to become more
well-read, though--it's something I've known for a while but have never
actually gotten around to curing. Consider the remedy beginning as soon
as this darn eye heals. =)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Third, there was the &lt;font style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;socialization&lt;/font&gt;.
IHS was kind enough to provide free snacks and drinks every night,
encouraging everyone to sit/stand around and simply talk. For me, this
was my favorite part of the seminar. While sitting around and nursing a
beer or five, students were able to talk about anything that happened
to be of interest. For example, I had conversations about the following
subjects: the current political climate in Belgiun; the role looks
should and do play in relationshipsp; the most apparent differences
between the United States and Europe; the government's role in
regulating activities such as sexual practices, drugs and alcohol; the
merits of the schools of analytical and continental philosophy (and
their pitfalls); which college teams were most likely to win the
college world series next year; and a psychoanalysis of so-called
metrosexuals.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Finally there were the &lt;font style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;friendships formed&lt;/font&gt;.
All too often after similar events, people promise to keep in touch,
but rarely follow through. While discussing this with one of my friends
at the seminar, we came to the conclusion that although this phenomenon
does frequently occur, the chances of it happening after the event were
dramatically reduced, for a couple of important reasons. First, we all
shared a common ideological thread. When you go to summer camp at age
13, there's no guarantee that you will have anything in common with
those you meet; such was not the case at IHS. Second, the age of
technology has produced such wonders as instant messaging and blogging.
While allowing us to cultivate our relationships further online, it
will also hopefully provide a forum for us to inform each other of
future events concerning the classical liberal ideals. Thanks to &lt;a href="http://eagleandelephant.blogspot.com/" target="_new"&gt;William&lt;/a&gt;, we've already started a &lt;a href="http://cafeliberty.blogspot.com/" target="_new"&gt;community blog&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And
now, I'm done rambling. Perhaps later, I will attempt to tackle
particular issues that arose during IHS and attempt to provide cogent
explanations of my position, as well as the different views others held
(and, of course, why I believe them to be wrong). =)&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;</description><comments>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/306282063/item.html#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Saturday, July 09, 2005</title><link>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/300734158/item.html</link><guid>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/300734158/item.html</guid><pubDate>Sat, 09 Jul 2005 00:07:06 GMT</pubDate><description>(From &lt;a href="http://www.xanga.com/ginarina87/" target="_new"&gt;Gina&lt;/a&gt;): &lt;a href="http://www.humanforsale.com/" target="_new"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Human For Sale&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/a&gt; says that, at this particular junction in my life, I'm "worth" over 2.5
million dollars. I find it to be far more entertaining than
informative, though. For instance, going through the various
permutations possible--why does the "Pacific Islander" ethnic group
receive only a $50,000 bonus, while all other ethnicities receive
$130,000?&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Also, &lt;u&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.sonician.com/live8/list.html" target="_new"&gt;download&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/u&gt; some Live 8 videos. Out of the ones I've seen so far, I think my favorite is Pink Floyd's &lt;i&gt;Comfortably Numb&lt;/i&gt;. I've also downloaded Coldplay, Keane, U2, Jet, and Linkin Park/Jay-Z.&lt;br&gt;</description><comments>http://www.xanga.com/Tanus/300734158/item.html#firstcomment</comments></item></channel></rss>