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Tuesday, September 16, 2008

  • I (DO NOT) Like Ike

    St. Louis is, I think, about 975 miles (50 McDonalds, 10 KFCs, and 8 Wal-Marts) from Galveston, Texas.  I know this, because we've driven it a number of times, and have flown it many more times.  Once or twice a year we soften a business trip to Houston with a vacation in Galveston, which we love for its faded elegance and Gulf Coast softness.  We really grieved when we saw the pictures of the destruction Hurricane Ike wreaked on it this past Saturday.

    And then, on Sunday, Ike hit us.

    The winds weren't so bad; lots of downed branches, but no real structural damage.  But the flash floods...!  And it didn't come just from the small creeks, but from the very earth itself.  So much rain in so short a time simply saturated the ground, and there was flooding in many parts of the city.  It receded quickly, but not until it had left up to four feet of water in buildings, washed away cars, and drowned several people. 

    In our house, only the lower part of the house flooded, so we got off easy.  But we're still cleaning, sorting, rescuing, tossing, wet-vacuuming, and trying to wash all the clothing and other fabric things that are already beginning to smell sour. But at least I'm not wading through a foot of water anymore (wearing khaki shorts, a khaki Galveston Island t-shirt, and knee-high waterproof boots--and NO, I am not posting those pictures!). 

    I am ready for this summer to be over. Good things and bad, but all stressful, filled this summer:  my son's wedding, my grandson's birth and homecoming to our house; my older daughter's near-death (a week on life support), my own cancer scare (nope), and now flood cleanup.  Bring on autumn, and please, Lord, let it be restful!

    And while You're at it, Lord... I just read that thousands of people in Galveston and Houston may not have showers or hot food for weeks.  I can understand it; the cleanup there is horrifying, overwhelming. 

    I've been reading all your posts; please forgive me for not responding.  I'll be back soon.

Wednesday, August 06, 2008

  • Jeremiah Settles In

    Copy of DSC_0842 DSC_0726 DSC_0841 Jeremiah and his mommy came home from the hospital right at dinnertime last night.  Of course Mommy didn't sleep more than an hour--remember those nights?--and finally figured out toward morning that she could sleep pretty well on the couch, with Jeremiah on her tummy.  Uncle Dave will be here today to help Grandma with "Scooter Duty" while we make Mommy go flop down on her own tummy--for the first time in nine months--and get a couple of hours of sleep.

    Everyone here is exhausted.  Just plumb Tuckered out.  Labor started at 4 am on Sunday with hard contractions 2 minutes apart, and stayed that way for the next 17 hours.  One minor complication after another insured that poor Shana had a really hard labor, and she does not share my misty enthusiasm for childbirth!  Her brother, sister-in-law, and two close friends were there all day long, in and out of the labor/birth room right up until the pushing started.  When Jeremiah was born, his father and Grandpa Amos were on either side of the bed, lifting Shana's shoulders with each push, while I had a front-row seat behind the doctor's shoulder. 

    Oh, the fun of having a tiny newborn baby in the house!  They are just irresistibly sweet.  Shana actually asked me this morning if I minded holding him while she had breakfast.  Do I mind?!  Silly girl--give me that baby!

     

Monday, August 04, 2008

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

  • Not My Child

    It's Time Time has flown, and Shana is at the end of her pregnancy.  All signs indicate that young Jeremiah could make his entrance into the world at any time, so we're doing everything we can to stay ready. 

    I have for many years had a love for the process of pregnancy and birth.  I loved being pregnant and giving birth to my own three--yes, I was one of those weird women who actually enjoyed being in labor!  It was inevitable that I became a childbirth educator, and later a midwife.  I stopped when I found myself with three young children, because I found that I badly needed my sleep, and the children badly needed me; being a midwife just didn't fit into my life at that time, as much as I loved it.  I always thought I'd go back to it someday, but you know how life is... you change, your path changes, and so do your interests.   I still have a great interest in childbirth, but am content now to encourage from the stands rather than be right in there as catcher. 

    I loved my time of teaching couples, preparing women, and later being with them throughout their pregnancies and during the births of their babies.  The entire process glows with the love of God and His perfect wisdom, and I always counted it a privilege to help women give birth as God meant for them to.  I had a great and unfailing confidence that things would go well, and had no problem conveying that confidence and assurance to the couples I assisted.

    But...this time, it's not my own child, and it's not the child of a client.  Now it's my baby girl who's having a baby!  Now, I find myself behaving just like any other worried mom.     Now all that training seems to be backfiring on me, because now I know that, while the vast majority of births have positive outcomes, there are things that CAN happen.  My head is filled now with all the exceptions to the usual rules. 

    And so, now, as Shana spends these last few days washing tiny things in Ivory Snow and packing her hospital bag (again, and again, and yet again), I spend them in prayer, rediscovering my sense of peace and of confidence in God's ways.  He truly IS perfect, He loves us, and He has chosen to make us partners with Him in creation, in this marvelous way.

    Stay tuned; soon I'll be introducing my new grandson to you all.

Friday, June 06, 2008

  • Like a bolt of lightning....

    My son David is getting married tomorrow.  His bride, Sara, is one of those girls who is just luminous in her beauty, from the inside out.  Wherever she stands, there appears to be a sunbeam around her--even in the midst of a storm.

    It has been the usual sort of wedding preparation--lots of work, with some impossible-to-foresee complications thrown in at the last minute.  The ceremony is to be held in in the formal garden in Tower Grove Park, a lovely park scattered with brightly-painted, uniquely-built Victorian-era pavilions for picnics, complete with barbecue stands.

    Tonight was the rehearsal and dinner.  We all arrived at the park where the wedding is to be held, in a driving rain and thunderstorm, to find the site under four inches of water.  After the minister (whose license plate read "Mr. Rite") ran through the rehearsal, we adjourned to the nearby pavilion--the Carriage House Pavilion--and barbecued in the pouring rain.  By the time we got there, no one could possibly be any wetter, so we relaxed and had a great time.  Andrew, my grandson, made the most of being six years old by joyfully embracing every giant-sized puddle he could find--and sharing the experience by flinging himself lovingly  into the arms of every family member.

    But we suspected the rehearsal and BBQ might be a bit damp earlier today, when St. Louis was hit by a cluster of severe thunderstorms all afternoon.  Shoshana, my youngest daughter, had just gone into the kitchen and announced that she was going to bake some brownies for the BBQ when lightning struck our house.   It took out our cable TV, Internet, phone--and oven.   Think it's a sign? 

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