Mexico, part dosI know it has been a while. My apologies. This post will be less about specific events in Mexico and more about cutural differences. Keep in mind that these are thoughts brought on from spending 4 days in Mexico and I experienced a very small portion of the culture for a very short amount of time. None of these things I am stating about the Mexican culture are stated as concrete facts because I understand they come from a very narrow perspective. The trip after the point that I left you all off at was sucessful and a good time for all. Nothing happened on time except for 2 or 3 of the meals and the Sunday morning service. I don't know if that was a cultural thing for them or it just turned out that way. I saw the largest bag of Cheetos in existance... 3 kilograms to be exact.... I think. I was about 3 feet tall. I also got the best shoe shine of my life... as well as the only one... but they were very good. One of the biggest characteristics of the Mexican people I noticed was their lack of individual pride. This wasn't something I only saw with the people involved in the church, but also with people in the entire community. This trait was demonstrated during numerous occasions. Driving a large truck through the town we were in proved to be difficult, but there were many helpful people around the community. Random people on the street sidewalks would help me drive by telling me if I was able to finish making a turn, if I had more room to back up or if traffic was clear for me to pull out (with hand gestures of course). All of this was done without anyone asking for their assistance. After a few occurances of this I realized that this was not something I had experienced before. In America these kind of gestures would many times be considered offensive and personally oppressive. I believe in America we are told to live for ourselves, take care of ourselves and stay out of each others way. If someone randomly helped another person in a similar manner to what I experienced, most would immedeately react along the lines of thinking "this person doesn't need to be telling me what to do", "I can do this on my own", "this guy probably doesn't know what he is doing" or "I wish he would get out of my way so I could park". We are caught up in too much individualistic philosophy here. In Mexico people are just people. One is very much the same as the next. I think some of this has to do with socioeconomic classes not being as diverse. We don't seem to view things the same way, which I believe to be a mistake. That is a whole different can of worms though. Along those same lines I enjoyed the sense of community and family. I knew a little about this trait going in but I wasn't thinking about it until I saw it. Everyone supports others much more than we do here. As I was saying above, one person is the same as the other. It was neat to see. When we played for the sunday morning service, I was blown away by the congregation. There were about 100-150 people in the room but they sounded like 1,000. Everyone contributed the same as if the room was one body aimed at one specific purpose and nothing else. No one singled themselves out by contributing too much or too little. I think this signified a cultural difference between Americans and Mexicans. (generalization time...) In american churches we seem to be afriad to be heard. We are very self concious/self centered people which many times causes us to focus on how we are percieved by other people during a worship service. We are afraid for people to hear us sing, or see us raise our hands (don't get me started there though) and on the other side people do things to be seen and heard so that they are percieved by others as worshipful and strong. Because most everyone is on one side of the fence or the other, of course this makes it nearly impossible to be comfortable in a community worship service. I think the approach of the people of First Baptist Church in Monclova is something to be admired. Think amongst yourselves. On another note... I am thinking about something I heard the other day. "There are two types of people, those who want to believe and those who want to know." Tell me what you think about that. I am going to write my next post on that subject... I think. Partly depends on what you all think. I would post about it now but then this post would be really long.... er than usual. Later |