There is something instinctive in us which tells us that hearts are not meant to be broken.                    Relationships are not meant to end, or bad ones are not meant to have started.

by me:

I do not want anyone to fall in love with me, because I cannot bear to love them back.

it amazes me how when you watch a movie about two people in love.  one person always messes up in some horrid way. yet, in the end the other always forgives them because they just love them that much. that no matter how terribly they mess up, it could never change the way they feel about them. sometimes the situations are so horribly tragic that you could not think forgiveness was possible.  this  never happens in real life.. people hardly mess up that terribly, but no one is willing to give that forgiveness, that second chance.

a second chance seems to be what truly saves  us all. we would hardly survive if it wasnt for others letting us fix our mistakes and having the hope we have change for the better.

love cannot survive without second chances. this is because sometimes it scares people so much that they let go. they fear that they will not be able to hold on forever, so they let go before they really should.

ok so seriously..i am going to update more often lol.

the only thing that matters is just following your
heart and eventually you'll finally get it right

"it doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get, or gyms you join,
or how many glasses of chardonay you drink with your girlfriends.
you still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder
what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood.
and how in the hell for that brief moment you could think that
you were "that happy." and sometimes you can even convince
yourself that he'll see the light and show up at your door. and
after all that.. however long all that may be.. you'll go somewhere
new. and you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again.
and little peices of your soul will finally come back. and all that fuzzy
stuff, those years of your life that you wasted.. that will eventually
begin to fade.." --the holiday

the worst part of getting used to someone
                   is having to get used to them not being there
                       when they're gone*

people think that if you love somebody
hard enough, then everything is just gonna work out.
well people are wrong.
-one tree hill

life's a tragedy for those who feel
and a comedy for those who think.

She just smiles because she
  knows the world will never
    really understand her, but
  she doesn't mind; it doesn't
matter. She's happy anyway.

"You've got enemies? Good.
That means you've stood up for
something, sometime in your life."

"life's a fact, people do fall in love, people do belong to each other, because that's the only chance anybody's got for real happiness."- breakfast at tiffanys

no matter how bad you end up hurt trying to find the right
person there's that right person getting hurt to find you

Its not about being who everyone else wants you to be.
Its about being yourself and finding someone 
who loves every bit of it.

" you want to know what living life to the fullest actually is? it's waking up on a monday morning with no complaints. it's knowing you always deserve to laugh. it's doing what feels right no matter what. it's doing what you want no matter how stupid you look. it's about being yourself, because no one can tell you you're doing it wrong."

why are softball players so rich? because we play on diamonds.

When I tell you I love you,
 I don't say it out of habit
 or to start a conversation,
I say it to remind you 
that you're the best thing                                                                                                                        that has ever happened to me.

10 Things I Hate About You Quotes

"There's a difference between like and love. I mean I like my Skechers, but I love my Prada backpack"

"I hate the way you talk to me, and the way you cut your hair. I hate the way you drive my car. I hate it when you stare. I hate your big dumb combat boots, and the way you read my mind. I hate you so much it makes me sick; it even makes me rhyme. I hate it, I hate the way you're always right. I hate it when you lie. I hate it when you make me laugh, even worse when you make me cry. I hate it that you're not around, and the fact that you didn't call. But mostly I hate the way I don't hate you. Not even close, not even a little bit, not even at all."

"You don't always have to be what they want you to be. "

"don't let anyone ever make you feel like you don't deserve what you want."

"Just because you're beautiful doesn't mean you can treat people like they don't matter."

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 recognize the small things..
they usually mean the most.

If you dont stand for something, you fall for everything

I don't want to look for someone, I want someone to find me. -Laguna Beach

"Maybe we're lying here because you don't wanna be standing somewhere else." --serendipity

Currently Watching Rent (Fullscreen) see related

There's a huge difference between giving up and letting go.Giving up is sacrificing what was rightfully yours and letting go is forgetting what never was.

A couple of hundred years ago, Benjamin Franklin
shared with the world the secret of his success.
Never leave that till tomorrow,
he said,
which you can do today.
This is the man who discovered electricity. You think
more people would listen to what he had to say.
I don't know why we put things off, but if I had to
guess, I'd have to say it has a lot to do with fear.
Fear of failure, fear of rejection, sometimes the
fear is just of making a decision, because what if
you're wrong? What if you're making a mistake you
cant undo? The early bird catches the worm. A stitch
in time saves nine. He who hesitates is lost. We
can't pretend we hadn't been told. We've all heard
the proverbs, heard the philosophers, heard our
grandparents warning us about wasted time, heard the
damn poets urging us to seize the day. Still
sometimes we have to see for ourselves. We have to
make our own mistakes. We have to learn our own
lessons. We have to sweep today's possibility under
tomorrow's rug until we can't anymore. Until we
finally understand for ourselves what Benjamin
Franklin really meant.
That knowing is better than wondering, that waking
is better than sleeping, and even the biggest
failure, even the worst, beat the hell out of never trying