Now take to consideration that not all of this has to do with every girl. This is mostly a general idea. And some of the answers to the topics are going to have more then one because I am having a few of my friends help me out with what they think, plus what I think. So if what I say doesn’t have to do with some of you girls out there I appologize, and if you’d like you can comment and say what you think.
And men if you have any more questions. Just comment and ask.
Question number 1. “ Why are they so hypocritical about things”
Not all women are hypocritical about things. But there are a majority that are. (( bare in mind some men are hypocritical too. But sense this is a post for men, about women, we wont get into all of that )). But… some answers that I got to this question is…
--we are really hypocritical. we just might not realize it because we might be doing something that seems hypocritical to help ourselves move on. not get back at the guy or anything, we aren’t trying to hurt them. were just trying to help ourselves move on.
--at times us women are very greedy/ selfish about things. In some cases we might insult the other women that a guy we have feelings for hangs out with or talks too. But in all reality we mean none of the drama/ unkindness that we put out towards them. We do it because we don’t want to have to worry or make sure that these other girls aren’t going to take someone that we really care about and that in all honestly we want to be with. It’s a sign of insecurity in a way. Because we know that if other girls see what we see in this guy, that there is no doubt that would try and get them also. And then we have to worry about loosing them.
Question number 2. “how they can just criticize guys for moving on but then when the girl moves on the guy cant have any say in anything? “
-- half the time we move on, its rebounding. we hate staying stuck w/ a guy who doesn’t have the same feelings we do. we feel vulnerable. and that’s not a good feeling w/ girls. the next guy we are with probably is just to help us get our mind of the last guy who broke our heart
-- its upsetting when guys move on, because they move on so much faster than we do, and they don’t come out and talk to us about it.. and usually when they move it, we still like them.. n the fact that they move on so fast, makes us wonder if they ever liked us. Because if you really liked someone you wouldn’t be able to move on that fast.. and we move on, either because we are trying to get over them, make them jealous, or actually found someone who care and treat us better than the last guy did, and respect us and understand or at least try to understand us
-- when a girl moves on its normally an emotional thing... for a guy it is physical right away most of the time.. that’s why they get more crap for it … when girls move on from a breakup, it normally is because they need that emotional part back w/ someone ..because its hard as hell to go from being best friends w/ a guy to having no best friend at all. they’re just looking for that support they had. But normally w/ a guy, it would be the physical attraction
Question number 3. “why you do the things you do”
-- we do the things we do, because we are girls. We try to make ourselves look so beautiful because we want them to want us.. or make them jealous because we want them to want us.. that’s just it the main point we want them to want us
Question number 4. “ why you can't tell us stuff even when you know we could help or possibly make it better”
--some girls WILL tell people when they are upset.. some wont.. it really depends on the personality... its just the same with guys... sometimes you want to talk about it.. sometimes you don’t.... and also... sometimes girls feel it necessary to make a person keep asking what’s wrong to make them feel more cared about by someone... it really depends on if the girl is insecure or not.. she may just not want to talk about it
-- a lot of girls are independent and really damn stubborn. we think that we can handle everything by ourselves, but just because we say we can handle everything by ourselves and saying we don’t want our guy's help, doesn’t mean we honestly don’t want it. if we say we don’t want your help, but you end up helping anyways, most likely well be more than happy you helped us out
Well… that’s it. We aren’t complicated at all... all that we want is for them to be honest, treat us with respect,, want us,, when they say they like us/love us show it, and be important to them and actually talk to us when there’s a problem or when they are thinking about something … i mean, actions speak louder than words, so if they love us, show it. Because yeah anyone can just say i love you, but if they don’t show you that, then it doesn’t mean shit
us girls know,, when we are second best, we know when guys treat us like shit,, and guys know that when they want us, they can have us, so us girls,, wont be around forever, so if they want to give us up, then that’s their fault, but when they come crawling back to us,, and we don’t want them, they have to realize, that its their own fault, because none of us should be second best.. so guys really need to open their eyes and realize, that when something great comes along, they have to treat us really good and hold on to us, because like i said, we wont be there forever ..we aren’t high maintenance, we don’t ask to be with them 24/7 because we like time with our friends too, but every once in a while we need reassurance n we need to be shown we are loved and cared about…
Well that’s all for now… but comment about what you think…
And the more I look at all that analysis… I have the smartest friends in the entire world…
Wow…
I Got That Post From One Of My Friends...cuz it really does explain us lol....and question #2 is sooo tru it takes a girl longer 2 get over a guy then it takes a guy 2 get ova a girl.....i would kno.........but yah....
Comment about it or if u guys have ne question coment them!!
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