Lilypie 1st Birthday Ticker
About this Entry
Posted by: WhiskeyJac

Visit WhiskeyJac's Xanga Site

Original: 7/22/2008 7:13 AM
Views: 9
Comments: 9
eProps: 4

Read Comments
Post a Comment
Back to Your Xanga Site

Who gave the eProps?
2 eProps!2 eProps! 2 eProps from:
gwenstylez
neko_nog

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

 in a totally unrelated note - lets talk about something not-so-bitter! we were talkin this morning and i'm packing a hospital bag  this weekend. this is what i know i need

-handcreme
-vaseline or chapstick
-a zipup nightgown/housecoat
-pads - coz i don't like the mat ward stuff. might not care when it comes down to it, but if i do, i'd rather err on the side of being more comfortable insteada less than. pretty sure i won't need help with that... heh.
-clothes... the usual. something to go home in. an extra change of clothes for stephen. cat might want to bring one, too. i heard that it can sometimes maybe get messy sorta. also if either of them stay over night it's nice to have fresh clothes.
-toothbrush, toiletries all that stuff.
   -an extra toothbrush for cat coz she won't think to bring one and i know she'll want one at some point.
   -*hair clips * shampoo
-sobe juices for stephen and cat, in case they don't want to leave to get anything... i don't think either of them will care to eat, and my mom gets low blood sugar without realizing it. if it's a short labour, great. if it's not... i still don't think that either of them will want to eat. i might be wrong. if i am, i don't think i will care. i'm already pushin a baby out one end, you want i should pull a sandwhich outta my ass while i'm at it? man, fuck you guys. get your own sandwhich. god, some people. *gatorade for me
-gum, halls, stuff like that for stephen, cat, me, if i'm allowed.
-baby wipes.

for baby

-i have had a tiny green baby hat with a little turtle on the front packed for a long time. i don't know why a turtle, but just coz.
-oooh, contraction.
-two onesies for her homecoming, the extra in case of baby messes. a cosy blanket in case it is cold going home.
-a few diapers that we can leave in the car. they'll have diapers at the hospital but we're gonna be keepin diapers in the car ANYWAYS so why not a few extra...
-*a pair of (big) baby socks for her hands.
-.....baby's kicking furiously now heh.

that's the bare bones. i mean, that's what i'd take to any hospital visit, really. stephen says they have those exercise balls there, and they look like they would really help so i'm glad i don't have to bring one. or buy one. coz dude, just... no. i'm not gonna use it again. i don't go in for that kinda stuff... gah. i don't think i'm forgetting anything.

BUT

if any of you have suggestions let me know! what were you happy to have, what helped, what did you not need, what did you wish you had had... all that stuff it's not a long hospital stay and my house is a five minute walk from there. it's not a huge city or anything and if we forget something it's easy to go home and grab it. so. i am pretty sure that's all i'll need. but the list seems really short compared to some i've seen - and EVEN THOUGH i think they are slightly ridiculous at times - i look at this and wonder if i'm forgetting something.

i intend to labour at home as long as i can before going so hopefully cross fingers i won't be there any longer than i have to. notice i didn't say "i won't be there long". ha. hahaha. hahahahahaha.

fuck me, i'm getting kinda scared. gah. no i'm not. it's fine. i trust my doctor, i'm sure the nurses are great, i don't think any of the bad ones work the maternity floor, i have stephen there, and my mom. it'll be fine. i hope i'm not mean or bitchy or turn into a panicky wuss or...gah.

fuck, just tell me what you had in your hospital bags, ok? thanks. i'm gonna go kick some gila monster ass now, maybe beat up some punks. coz i'm tough. nothing scares me. or makes me sad. and i never ever fuck up. ever.




am so tired. i closed my eyes for two seconds while sitting here checking mail, and i fell asleep. ha. the cat woke me up this morning insisting on being mushy. she is relentless. oh sure! i can kick her off the bed! but then she waits. and lets me doze. and then creeps towards me ever so slowly and.... nuuuuuuuzles my neck and starts purring and drooling and milk treading and. ugh. goddamnit, elph. t'est donc ben mal elevee.

stephen is doing this workout program that involves getting up early and going out for walk/runs. crazy bastard. show off. nah i'm happy for him, h e looks really relaxed and happy the mornings he goes and does that, it's nice. had some toast and two hardboiled eggs, he made smoothies and washed dishes and we had time to talk... while the cat glared at us. and TRIED TO STEAL MY EGG RIGHT OFF MY PLATE. god, she's a bitch. you don't know what i live with man, she's awesome. anyways it was a really nice morning, i like having time to eat breakfast and chat and read before work. it seems very luxurious. i wonder what mornings will be like with baby around.




 Posted 7/22/2008 7:13 AM - 9 views - 9 comments

Give eProps or Post a Comment

9 Comments

Visit gwenstylez's Xanga Site!
I had all that stuff in my bad too, including:

- Travel size shampoo and body wash. Hospital stuff gets ya clean, but it doesn't smell delightful.
- Pen and notepad. You never know what you might wanna write down
- Camera, but I assume that's a given
- Bobby pins. There's nothing worse than having your hair in your face when you've got work to do.

And just a word of caution: if you're bringing your own pads, make sure they're really really big ones. Just sayin'.
Posted 7/22/2008 7:25 AM by gwenstylez Xanga True Member - reply

Visit WhiskeyJac's Xanga Site!

@gwenstylez - 

word. i got some monster size fuckers. i've had to wear the stuff they use in the mat ward before and the things i have are the same size? but gasp! THEY DON"T FEEL LIKE BRICKS IN YER UNDERWEAR!!! and they don't have to be worn with mesh underwear. seriously. i've already lost all my privacy. i at least want something comfortable to wear. also - hair clips - excellent. i hate hair in my face. and yes to the soaps. might be comforting to have my own stuff as well. thanks dude. wouldn't have thought of these, but they're good to have.
Posted 7/22/2008 7:31 AM by WhiskeyJac Xanga True Member - reply

Visit WhiskeyJac's Xanga Site!

@gwenstylez - 

stephen's in charge of tech stuff. camera(s) will be charged, will have extra batteries, etc. he's already thoguht of that stuff. he's good.
Posted 7/22/2008 7:33 AM by WhiskeyJac Xanga True Member - reply

Visit neko_nog's Xanga Site!
A couple of things I highly suggest in case you stay overnight like I did:

- scratch gloves for baby (you'd be amazed how long their nails can be right after birth, and they'll do a number on themselves without them)
- a small portable fan if you have one... my hormones went sky-high during and after labour, and I overheated soooo bad. That fan was a lifesaver.
- gatorade/powerade... the perfect stuff to replenish lost electrolytes. If you get an IV, they'll take it out early if you drink that stuff.
- slip-on, no-slip slippers! I hate those crappy blue hospital booties.

Hope that helps :)
Posted 7/22/2008 1:12 PM by neko_nog - reply

Visit WhiskeyJac's Xanga Site!

@neko_nog - 

moccasins will be had. also, gatorade is a good tip. i don't like not being able to move freely and i'm REALLY hoping for a HELL NO grade on the strep b, here. i mean, anyone would, of course, but yeah. i'll bring a bottle of that just for me, afterwards. i didn't know about scratch gloves... do you think they'd have something like that there? i did notice them on dante... i can't remember, was he really late? i know you went over your due date but i can't recall by how much. did you know that stephen's brother went over his due date by like, three and a half weeks?!?! all of them were almost two weeks over i think. jesus christ. baby? you listnin? you come out early as you can coz you can come any time now. and pls to not have a head circumference like your dad and nanacat k thx. the fan we can grab if we need it from home, but i think it should be fine otherwise, they probably have something that will work there. the beauty of a small hospital.
Posted 7/22/2008 1:31 PM by WhiskeyJac Xanga True Member - reply

Visit neko_nog's Xanga Site!

@WhiskeyJac - 

Yeah... Danté was a week late... and his nails weren't TOO bad, but they were long enough to give himself a few good scratches. You're not supposed to cut their nails for the first month at least, because they're so close to the quick you can cut the baby's fingers easily. But they peel off 'cause they're so soft. Still... I made Marco run to Sears the day he was born because he just kept scratching himself. They came in really handy. If you don't have any, even a spare set of socks on her hands should do the trick ;)
Posted 7/22/2008 3:00 PM by neko_nog - reply

Visit WhiskeyJac's Xanga Site!

@neko_nog - 

ohhh, were those scratches on his face from his nails?! i thought forceps maybe but jeeze. poor baby. poor mama, baha. my mom used to just bite our nails off. i think i would be too nervous to use a nail clipper until they were much older, i will probably do the same. COZ I"M A DIRTY HIPPIE
Posted 7/22/2008 3:09 PM by WhiskeyJac Xanga True Member - reply

Visit neko_nog's Xanga Site!

@WhiskeyJac - 

no no.. the ones in the pics were the forceps, haha. The ones he gave himself were mostly small ones on his cheeks and arms... nothing too bad, but still, you won't want ANYTHING hurting your brand new little baby, haha. I was seriously over-protective, lol.
Posted 7/22/2008 6:14 PM by neko_nog - reply

Visit WhiskeyJac's Xanga Site!

@neko_nog - 

no kidding who wouldn't be. and thank god, i was horrified for a minute there - baby nails can do THAT?!? doesn't take much to freak me out baha
Posted 7/22/2008 8:11 PM by WhiskeyJac Xanga True Member - reply


Give eProps (?)
Post a Comment
Add Link | Preview HTML comment help 
  • Say it with Minis! (?)

Profile Pic:
Default  |  Choose »  (?)



Back to WhiskeyJac's Xanga Site!
Note: your comment will appear in WhiskeyJac's local time zone:
GMT -09:00 (Yukon Standard)

QuitMeter Counter courtesy of www.quitmeter.com.