I'm here ...I'm just tired frustrated, angry and in my own way. There are far too many people in my house and it's getting on my nerves. My best friends niece showed up Friday with her 2 kiddos under 2....finally leaving her abusive husband - that's a blessing. My hub took the day off to drive back to her place with her today with a uhaul trailer WE rented and loaded all her crap by himself, he drove it back here to Jersey unloaded a shed we had stored tubs of stuff in - by himself - and unloaded all of her crap into said shed by himself ( Eldest and I brought our family stuff down to the basement) He then had to sort and move various pieces of work equipment he had in the shed and when he was done we get a phone call from her.... she wants to bring a male friend HERE tonight?!?!?! Ummm NO! Not a good idea I told her with the foster child and you never know when DYFS will pop in etc. OK she says - see you later. Not 5 minutes later we get a TEXT that it was her girlfriend and the girlfriend's boyfriend she wanted to come to the house BUT she thinks that maybe she'll stay there tonight. I texted back ONE WORD Whatever! I get 3 more texts and she finally comes right out and says she is staying down there tonight. I am PISSED. Our entire family has been disrupted in order to try to help her, my husband took a day off work to get her things for her and dealt with her psycho soon to be ex and she decides to just go hang out with her friends?!?!?!?!?!?!?! I'm just thinking if it were me I'd be a little more greatful to the people busting their asses to help me and instead of pouting and doing what I want anyway I'd get back and deal with my own crap! But then...that's just me. Little Man had a baaaaaaaaaaddddd day at Camp today - I think it's from all the upsetment in the routine around here - it usually jars him - but taking off away from the camp director is just not acceptable. He was told to straighten up and fly right tomorrow or he will be home doing chores the rest of the week! He and Princess have been at each other too! OMG - apparently she is feeling VERY comfortable now! You can tell when she is TRYING to push his buttons - and heaven forbid you call her on it! OH THE DRAMA! Yeah the creator knew enough to give me boys! ARGH lol . HUB has been a doll! For a man with no date nights, no time alone with the wifey and many fast cooked meals he has been a real trooper! Ok I'm off to go read a book and lose myself a while - maybe I can find a good mood in a book LOL Peace! | 
