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Monday, December 18, 2006
 
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homosexuality, projection, and sanctification

It's no secret that in today's world of evangelical Christianity the issue of homosexuality is a hot topic. I wonder why.

The answer that most people would give would be along the lines of, "They are attempting to destroy the sanctity of marriage" or "It is a sin" or "It is a heinous lifestyle that deserves no less that burning in a lake of sulfur and brimestone while listening to K-Fed's new album for eternity." I think there is more to it than all of this.

First of all, with the divorce rate within evangelical Christianity being no different from those outside of evangelical Chrisitanity, the whole "sanctity of marriage" argument goes out the window. Lust, adultery, porn, apathy, and self-interest have done a lot more to destroy the sanctity of marriage than the homosexual community. It's funny that 50% of evangelical Christians who would make this argument most likely end up in divorce. Sanctity of marriage, huh?

Second, it is a sin, no matter what kind of hermeneutical gymnastics or 'reframing of the question' tactics that Brian McLaren wants to play. But so is pride, lust, self-righteousness, gluttony, lying, etc. I find it slightly repulsive that the same preachers that will take a hard, party line stance on the issue of homosexuality won't say anything to the self-righteous, overweight businessmen driving a Range Rover, living in a multi-million dollar house. Don't you think there are many sin issues there as well?

Perhaps it has something to do with projection. It's easy to point at the homosexual community and point out their sin because it is outward. I think more people are quick to condemn and judge the lifestyle because people are repulsed by it; because they could never understand the mindset or the physical aspect of homosexuality makes them sick....I don't think it has as much to do with the fact that it is a 'sin' as much with the fact that it is homosexuality. Its easy for people to hide their pride, self-righteousness, apathy, dishonesty, etc. by jumping on the right-wing bandwagon and harping on the evils of the homosexual community. It's always easier to point out someone else's sins that dealing with your own.

I'm not saying that homosexuality is not a sin. What I am saying is that the way that the evangelical world has chosen to deal with the homosexual issue is completely hypocritical. We will welcome all kinds of prideful, arrogant, lying, self-righteous, overweight, unjust people into our churches as members and leaders, but we would never let a homosexual do the same.

The church is a place for sinners. It is composed of sinners and it is run by sinners. Of course, these sinners have been redeemed by God through Christ after being made alive by the Spirit....but everyone of them still sins and needs the Gospel. You would be hardpressed to find a church that would make one of the membership requirements, "Stop all your sinning immediately....then you can join." But it seems that this rule does apply when it comes to homosexuals. It is within the Christian life and within the church that sanctification happens. People struggle with pride, much like myself (so much so, in fact, that I needed to get a permanent reminder of the fact). The place to deal with pride is not before you come to Christ, but after you come to Christ. Of course one must repent of their sins to come to Christ, but sanctification happens after one becomes redeemed, not before. Sanctification happens within the body of Christ, not outside of the body of Christ. So why does the evangelical world make it an unwritten rule that homosexuals must become heterosexuals before they are welcomed into the church? Don't you think that people who struggle with homosexuality are going through a process much like someone who is struggling with pride, lust, self-righteousness, etc.? Those problems aren't gone overnight, but they take a lifetime of repenting, falling, repenting again. We will only be completed by Christ on that last day (Phil 1.6), not before.

Christians need to hate sin because God hates sin. All sin. Not just the sins that repulse us or the sins that we have never struggled with. All sin. The sin that you have in your life, God hates it and you should to. It would be easy to only deal with other people's outward sin while the sin you struggle with sits in the back of your heart untouched. Easy, sure. But completely unhelpful and even dangerous.

We, as a church, must realize that we are just as full of sin and evil as anyone else. The only difference is that we have Christ and the Spirit. We need to share Christ will everyone and trust in God's sovereignty that HE will change people's hearts, lives, and actions through the Spirit. We need to stop walking around with the log of pride, self-righteousness, gluttony, lust, etc. in our eyes while attempting to remove the speck of homosexuality in other people's eyes.

Thomas walked around with Christ for three years and still struggled with the sin of doubt and unbelief. Did Christ kick him out of the community of apostles because he was a sinner? No, in fact he kept Thomas close to him because that is where change happens: in the presence of Christ.

If we sincerely hate the sin of homosexuality and sincerely want people to change the answer is not shunning them from our communities, but preaching Christ and welcoming them into our communties. Because that is where change happens.

Shalom.
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A reasoned, thoughtful post.
Posted 12/18/2006 6:20 PM by TheologiansBlog - reply

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Amen brother, we were just talking about this the other night and I couldn't agree more.  A reason people hate it so much is probably because (and this was said by Big Zimm during this convo), it's right in your face.  No one has a "I'm full of pride" day parade.  Or a "I watch porn" day parade.  Most people hide these sins, not fight for the right to have them.  I understand that argument, but agree with yours.  Why can we put up with all sin EXCEPT homosexuality.  I ADORE my gay friends and know they need CHRIST... not to love women, then love Christ.  A good post coming from the boy who 10 years ago said, "If my son's gay I'll show him pictures of hot women."  It's nice to see you grow :)
Posted 12/18/2006 9:52 PM by Imtookewlforyew - reply

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God bless you for seeing through Christ' eyes!
Posted 12/19/2006 6:03 AM by LaleoCafe Xanga Premium Member - reply

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sort of the moat and beam thing. I think you are right. But at the same time when churches condone what God commanded not to do that is a bad thing, but the person doing the sin is to be loved, the sin not loved.

Heather

Posted 12/19/2006 7:10 PM by wondering04 Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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It seems to me there are two different issues. One issue is, is every sin equally sinful in God's eyes? Well, it would seem like the answer is yes. Therefore, all sinners who come to Christ in repentance seeking forgiveness and reconciliation should be welcomed into the Church. I'm with you all the way there.

However, it is a different ballgame when the sinner stands up and declares that the unanimous teachings of the church since its earliest days are wrong, and what they are doing simply IS NOT A SIN, and then demands that their lifestyle choices be recognized and BLESSED by the Church of Jesus Christ. I don't care what sin we are talking about - if this is how the sinner is presenting himself to the church, it is not repentance. It is defiance.

Jesus calls us all to the same thing: to take up our cross and follow him. And we all have to start at the same place - admitting that what God calls sin is in fact sin. I am in no way saying that a homosexual must "switch" in order to be a "real" Christian - I actually don't know anyone at all who has ever said that, but maybe there are places where that is the way things are approached. I hope not. I'm just saying, with homosexuality or any other sin, there must first be a repentant heart before the hard work can begin to change behaviors.

I say this because this is a very personal issue. I have a relative who has chosen a gay lifestyle, left a bible believing church, joined a liberal church where he could have his gay relationship "blessed", and has said that all the teachings in the Bible on homosexuality are inaccurate, and therefore, we're all wrong, and he's right, and we should accept his lifestyle and partner as normal. We would LOVE to welcome him into our lives and continue the wonderful relationship we had with him all our growing-up years until he "came out" - but if the price is rejecting God's word, his terms are too dear.

Sorry if this turned into a rant. I just wanted to clarify that yes, all sins are equally sins; and they all require repentance.
Posted 12/20/2006 12:34 AM by nettieheidmann Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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Good points nettie. I, by no means, meant to belittle any sin or feel that it is right to compromise biblical principles in order to accomodate sins. This is also a personal issue for me as well. I had a gay roommate while I was in undergrad who grew up in a Christian home and who I care about. I also work with gay people and I genuinely love them.

This blog was more of a cry for the recognition that the church cannot chose to brush over some forms of sin and focus on others than a cry for outright acceptance of different forms of sin.

I appreciate your comments.
Posted 12/20/2006 12:41 AM by aboulet - reply

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Art long time no talk man. Good post. I think one of the reasons why the evangelical community treats this sin differently is because they feel it is being promoted, pushed, and taught as an acceptable lifestyle in our society,through the media, and even in our school system. They see this as an accelerating trend.They are scared that their children will have to be confronted with these issues at a younger age and more intensly than when they grew up. Jess was right they dont have "I watch porn parades" or "I cheat on my wife parades" but they do have Gay pride parades and GAY DAY at Disney World. This is in your face.I think most evangelicals are just scared and thats why you hear them do ignorant things like name calling. Scared people do stupid things.We need to realize the battle is not with the homosexual community but our battle is with satan himself. If satan can get us so scared and elevate this sin above others then he can take the focus off of the fact that we need to be living holy lives that are pleasing to the Lord and that our own sin grieves God's heart. It is sad to say but I dont think the Church today would be so vocal about this issue if the homosexual community would go back in the closet. Correct me if i'm wrong but sin done in a closet is still sin. The world is still in the closet about alot of thier sin. Does that make it any less of an offences to a Holy God?WHAT IS OUR CLOSET SIN? Oh i'm sorry is that too personal? Lord help love what you love, hate what you hate ,and value what you value.- sorry @spelling

Posted 12/21/2006 1:12 PM by supersweetfinchum - reply

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Fantastic post! Extremely thought out and well written. Would it be okay if I posted this on my blog? I'll give you all the credit, of course, and link to your blog here as well. Please let me know... I'd love to share it. :)
Posted 1/4/2007 5:07 AM by peacefulveganmom - reply


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