| So, there's this boy I'll call M. I've known him [or knew who he was] since last year, but we just started talking this year. I've always thought he was super cute/hott, but no real feelings til now. So, at first we talked a lot on the bus and whatnot. He's a pretty big flirt, but I have to say I'm a much bigger flirt than him. Ok, and just a few weeks ago, we started sitting together and whenever I don't sit with him on the bus, he always gets me to end up sitting with him. Now, M likes to talk about like sex and "doing me" all the time, something I get a lot from him because I don't make a big deal about it. I have always been accurate when guessing who likes me since half the time when I guess a guy likes me, I end up being right because they either tell me themselves or their friends come out and it "slips" out. So, I want to say he likes me but I'm not totally sure. But lately he's been talking to me a lot in school and on the bus and almost went as far as giving me his number to call him. [The story about this is that he was talking about me calling him that night and whatnot, and then he had to get off the bus and then the next day, he asked me why I didn't call him (I didn't have his number obviously) and then he told me he waited for me to call for a while] I'm not sure if he was joking or not but it sounded pretty serious to me. And like the other day on the bus he had his arm around me and when another kid was getting off, he pulled me back into his arms and told the people around us, including the guy getting off, that I was his girl and no one else could have me. Now, I KNOW he doesn't do that with other girls and usually the only thing he goes as far as touching a girl that he's not "together with" is hugging them. So, I have no idea what to do, but whenever he's not on the bus, it's boring as hell and I'm in a kind of grumpy mood, he lightens me up and always always always makes me laugh. And everything he says just gives me more evidence that he might like me quite a bit. So, what do you think about it? Does it sound like I think he likes me because I like him so much and it's all just joking around, or could this be a situation where he really could like me.
PS: He also likes to talk about "doing me" all the time and everything that he'd do to "seduce" me and whatnot. The two other kids that we talk to when we're on the bus I've known for ages, and they guessed that I liked M and when I tried to deny it, they knew I was lying since I suck at lying. And I'm not a girl that does absurd things with guys, and EVERYONE knows I go to church every week and that I am such a "little nice girl." So, when the two guys told me that they knew I liked M, they told me that he really wasn't that bad and that he's not a guy that would want to really get in my pants. But, I'm not sure. Also, they told me that they talked about me at lunch with M about me "wanting him" and whatnot but they didn't actually tell him that I liked him and stuff and I don't know what to think about the fact that they were actually talking about me.. soo I have NO CLUE..help me please..=]
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Well Quite frankly it's obvious he likes you. And when his friends said he's a good guy he prolly told them to tell you that. I think you should give him your number because unless he does this with alot of other girls then it's obvious he likes you. I say go for it and ask for his number or ask him to hang out because it seems to me like he's makeing it pretty obvious he likes you. So sorry to make this short but heres my advice MAKE A MOVE. oh and do it yourself don't tell your friends to tell him what your number is or something like that. Be direct. And after you guys talk on the phone, or text, or hang out ask him randomly if he likes you or something.
~Alexandra
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| anonymous, 13.
Ok i know that i'm an advice site but people who give advice sometimes need it to right? Now see the problem is that i like this boy and i flirt with him alot and send him pics and stuff. not bad pics but pic and he tells me im pretty and stuff and i think he likes me too. the catch is my bestfriend likes him and she knew him first and he told me he liked her a while a go and well when i told him that seph thought i was flirting with him because i sent him pictures he said well are you? and i said not really but it doesn't matter if im am stshe likes you so i have to stay away and he says no you don't ima free man and i said she'll hate me then he said ok.. and signed off. i really like him alot but i don't want my bestfriend to hate me. i talk to him like everyday and he always always everyday asks for new pics and says im pretty and stuff i really don't kow what to do. i'm so frustrated i could scream. so i have two questions; Should i tell him i like him? Should i tell her i like him?
PLEASE HELP ME.
Dear Anoymous,
Ok, first of all about the pictures, sending him good pictures is ok but NEVER and i mean NEVER under any circumstances send him pictures that are bad or of you with out normal articles of clothing on because those could get out and be sent to the wrong people. I've been there before and even pictures that are not that bad can be told about to people that you don't want in your buisness. Ok now i think it's your duty as a friend to tell her that you like him and flirt with him and ask her if it's ok and just tell her everything because i'm sure she'd rather find out now from you then later from someone else. Be chill when you tell her though and don't guilt her into letting you have the guy.
hope i could help
-Alexandra
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| Alecia Riley 13.
I really need some advice see this guy i really really really like..
maybe even love lives way far away from me and i want to be
able to trust and believe and love him as much as i would if he
lived by me. See he tells me he loves me everyday he calls me
baby and stuff and i say promise me that your not lying promise
me that you trully do love me and he always says i promise i
promise i promise but something in me tells me not to put my
whole heart into trusting and loving him. i want to really really
really really really really badd. but i don't know how. I want to
be with him. i want to talk to him constantly and it sucks that his
time is a nine hours difference then mines because he's going to
sleep when i'm waking up and i barely get to talk to him. He's
the first guys i truly loved with my whole heart since Brett who
some of you might know about. and i really can't take getting hurt
like i did when me and brett broke up and although Rob (the guy)
isn't my boyfriend he still has my heart in which he could break an
i can't take that. i don't know exactly what he feels about me but
he says he love me and says he really does. But i don't know.......
I know that i love/like him alot. What's your Advice?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
I think that since he's so far away you really can't know him like you want to. Now don't abandon the thought of ever being with him because mabie when you guys grow up you can be together but right now it's simply not realistic to keep this long distance relationship going. Now if you love him and it's meant to be you will be with him eventually but right now it's a little bit of a waste of time. I think you should find someone who lives by you that you can be with more often. Now he may love you and he may not and really unless your moving by him you will never know and it's not productive or healthy to be with him. Also if you can't trust him thats a problem right there because your relationship has to have trust in order to work. So to summarize what I'm saying you should forget about this guy for the time being and if it works out in the future thats great.
~Alexandra
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| mmkay.
heres what i need advice on.
theres this guy i like. and hes in none of my classes except lunch. and the only time i see him besides then is in the hallway. but we've never really talked. we always just make eye contact and just stare at each other and smile. i dont know what to do about it. help?
thankss
DUDE! TALK TO HIM! You should find him before or after school and be like hey what's up or if you have mutual friends get introduced. Doing what your doing now is not going to help. You need to take action and talk to him.
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