Question? (rhetorical)How do you know if you really like someone or if you are just horny as hell? Sometimes, I got to tell you, I don't know. It's not that being really horny is bad, god made me this way. It's just that it is difficult to differentiate the two at times. I mean, by me missing someone is it because I genuinely care about them or is it because I'm just horny and want something to touch? I guess if you care about someone you can enjoy their company without thinking about sex....sure. You're able to put her/his interest before yours and see her/him as a child of god...ok. Ultimately, I believe what I'm trying to say is that a man's penis can be deceiving. And it's my job to save others and myself from it. ______________________________________________ I want to be obedient to god in this part of my life, and I think equally important, I don't want to undermine the person in front of me. I want to do the right thing. It's difficult being a single twenty-something in a hedonistic culture and trying to follow jesus. Dallas Willard, in The Divine Conspiracy, talks about it being possible to live in control of this through the power of the holy spirit. Based simply on the fact that the bible says we can. Do I believe it? | 
