After a year of multiple funerals of those I hold dear, I'm left with this question:
What do I want my legacy to be?
This has undoubtedly been one of the strangest, most stretching years of my life... too many things to recount, but I've been asking myself, 'what do I want to be remembered for?' I was sharing this in a staff prayer time the other day and my senior pastor responded with, "Most people don't ask themselves that question until they pass 40..." Maybe so, but I'm starting early. 
This week, I went to the funeral of a man from my church... I was talking with my sister and brother-in-law about him, sharing memories, and we all came to the conclusion that not only do we personally miss him, but the world has a hole in it because he isn't in it. He was one of those people who made a significant difference in anything he touched. Known for wisdom, generosity and integrity, he had a gentle grace that commanded a room. I remember him for the countless ways he taught me scripture (he taught Sunday School for over 50 years at our church), the way he always supported Children's Ministry (he'd give $20 for a cookie at a bake sale then give the cookie to a kid) and the A's tickets he'd bless me with (he was a season ticket holder.) As I listened to the list of accomplishments he had accrued in his lifetime, I couldn't help but wonder if his void could ever be filled... I don't think it can. The resounding theme of each person that shared was this, however: the list of accomplishments, though vast, doesn’t define him; his Christ-like character and purposefully self-giving life do.
One of the most touching moments of the memorial was when president/CEO of the Oakland Zoo ended his eulogy in tears, saying "I never got to tell you this, but I love you Warren." It isn't usual for grown men in corporate America to say these things, but Warren had made a difference in his life. Some of Warren's contributions to the world include: building many of the largest churches in the Bay Area, the road to the Oakland Zoo, the parking lot of the Oakland Zoo, Oakland Zoo exhibits: elephants, Sun bears, African Safari, Bethany University contributions: dormitory renovations, three faculty facilities, library, personal investment into countless lives... the list goes beyond what I can remember. I don't think I'll ever look at these places the same way.
My list may never be as long, but if it's said of me that I truly lived a life of love and represented Christ, then I'll say it was all worthwhile.
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