*sigh*

Love is a word I find so damned hard to define.  You did an amazing job here.

There would be more love if there was less selfishness.

great words fred *kiss*

Jana

love, to me, is sacrifice; what would you be willing to sacrifice for (a) love? the extent of your answer defines, perhaps, your level and commitment.

just a thought...

After a heart break it is often hard to let a person back in but time heals all wounds.  Only to remain scars.  But once you find that new soul mate in your life all the scars soon dissapear.  

Please don´t stop. Keep aware.

I got the meaning Fred.

Peace and chocolate to everybody.

Mon

The problem with the idea that there is "The One" person that you're supposed to be with, that you have a soul mate, is that even if it is true... that one person is not the only person you're going to fall in love with in your lifetime.  People often believe that whomever they are currently with is "The One," however, and they don't open themselves up to the possibility that it could be someone else... so they are stuck with an imperfect fit for the rest of their lives.

That's not to say that you should hold out completely until you find that one person... and I'm definetely not promoting infidelity... but people have to start to realize that right now isn't everything.

i miss love.

i just wrote a post about love.

my world seems upside down...

-bradey.

That´s the way love goes..... ;)

Nice to see you back on your xanga, fred. Hope you don´t give it up.....

Hug from me..

quit looking, it'll find you

looking for love in all the wrong places... like the old country song.. said it best.. haha

I do one day hope to find my soul mate.. but as i get older it seems harder and harder..

its in God's hands.. and i'll gladly let him take it.. i have no will of my own :)

love is unexplainable. it makes us do the impossible... for no reason at all...

Rita 

well, there is someone a little bit desperate out there? but there is no pure remedy for this emotion. i know what your inner desire wants to be fed with inwards, but some needs are more than hard to deal with. i found my husbunny and we are still together, in april since thirteen years. i don´t want to wake your envy with having something that you would surely deserve too, but on the other hand different things are missing (nonemotional ones). but fuck the unfulfilled needs as long as i have my babe. it ain´t the good things that makes us love a person, the mistakes and corners of the character keep us bonded. loving somebody who´s like a catalogue version of a human is easy and boring. bordom kills alternation. i´m quite spirited and he loves to drive me crazy, plays jokes on me and devours me with his loving glance. and when i´m steamed up and ready for the punishment, lava shoots out of me... he comes an wrappes me in his arms. he makes it impossible to escape from his grip (larger than an average door, don´t know it in feet but he´s 2,04m) and i let the pressure off. he loves every wave of rage and nontypical thing men normally are not so interested in (eg. intelligence). he said he wouldn´t be able to live in a relationship where chairs never fly and he wouldn´t need a chair and a whip like a tamer. i often told him to stop kiding me, then i wouldn´t be so energetic, he told me that i should be calm and not so full of fire. although we know each other we do it again and again ( no we´re not perverts), like a game. i can´t stand waiting till he´s home after he makes overhours and i still have butterflies in my stomach when he appears. a prickling desire, respect, faithfullness and pure love is the recipe for feeling whole. i don´t believe in the soulmate shit, fake ideals with sad background. you don´t need the same thing as you have to feel good, you need to have the things you don´t have to feel complete. don´t try so hard to get what you need essentially. fuck a little, kiss a little, but save your emotions for special ones. maybe there is a problem of seperating the instinct from the heart. i hope that you feel as blessed as i am one day, but nevertheless...love is a battlefield.

don´t waste yourself, it would be a shame.   

sil

like you i want to believe in soulmates. is there really that one person out there for you. just when you think you have found them, they are taken away OR you run into a random person and think maybe they are the one. i guess when you find it you will know. maybe we have not found it yet if we are questioning if it exists.

strange that you write in your blog today. you were in my dream last night, no joke!! there was a hurricane and earthquake going on and you happened to be next to me, don't know how but we were holding each others hands and felt safe.. when it was over you disappeared and ended up taking off with 3 girls!! not sure the meaning behind that one.. strange! i know i'm a dork for sharing this.. but oh well.