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arissa read my profile sign my guestbook Name: Connie Country: Hong Kong Metro: Hong Kong Gender: Female Interests: being w/ friends, dancing, singing, travelling, photography, enjoying music & movie, playing, sports, etc. Expertise: being happy :) Occupation: Student Industry: Medical Message: message me Website: visit my website ICQ: 7353411 Member Since: 4/1/2003 SubscriptionsSites I Read Subscribe to arissa Get trial subscription Alvene wongtingsquare ifinance JosephTse PBun evavae17 g_le_333 raymondkan sandyng Cyrio yyvonne McJill cheerfuladerf nork_nork Ah_Yu0_0 Siufei amoeba_baby mynameisron taimanchan bumchum32 Daisy_memory piyeinniw greenpui tomato_rine in_love_paradise ssjs Macy_amazonite jeshikalam louise_the_mouse Tata328 kalingyiu KamChai knnth_c cs_smile terencelai queeniesee ac_alice feiyin119 qiyu kayan_lovely charLee1026 ricochu callmeJ jerms3000 VivianYang henry_smallpotato wanyuenting me_llamo_esther LeungMan alfredchan_2000 lsjim calluna1015 princess_oggie HorusLo derek_fung Luna_Tsuki lisa_yip chungching noahfongzhao Hilson_C earil buteo oreophile eddykaho prayercrafter Timothy_hong bioKam_KL_MaPh kelly_nicole jomania kayenho aliene gazi AnnieinnA xiang_yue alta TulipyGrass carrie_au jenny_yuen1212 Herbert_Yuen andrealiu cynthia_wai36 tszki dennis_spma jacQuelinaa marmarie Watermelon_zzz kgt1b theta_6_ching_2 matchman_sophie dominicnic1 junelily christyhaha ivycsy mlaw1008 lscjonathan shadow_sun blues_winnie roythepig wongmomo nganwill KaKa_UK jeffreychchan laukay acheng1404 mzinggrace astatinelam Ybmay vickykei athism hiuyan_arbean cyrader KaiAiAi janezhuyidan Vincent_Mango bleem cfkim y_i_n_g526 aH_gI silverhonda irene24 chanball ckvkelvin kpsiege ivy_happy bestandy wailokleo JenksLam cysticterry sun0908 chunk150 alextsui Jonathanfang nychik Aleeson pollyannacwpd BorisCWH paulcylam rois EricWan lam_larry KHAU SaraWWF wl003j dominicklh woebegone2001 winnieeee hkuchristian keitabest n_chung123 charmaine_c Vasaberiel Mownchacha mirandal i_m_SOQ thin_thin nickz MissSmileyFace tomato_203 Florence_taku denn ArthasHo Fionalws curlyada joycejoys doctorkenneth carolyn_wong HoiDicDic chezdiane feelhong Paedan aubun ycdavid nawk bcatz louiseho612 wesleyjilu xiaomogui Wyman_Wai_Hok_Man Liwong caleychan terrytwins jo99 g_don tokiwai1015 dbsdan bigana chacha5124 Mc_C kelvinchow shrimp_salad Zippy666 pink_paint jonane_r bertlai_bt ameli ireneyeung MrDenI Spring_HALU Blogrings SAcReD HEaRT :::SHCC previous - random - next HKU M09 previous - random - next Health Comm 2005 previous - random - next HKU M10 previous - random - next ^_^ HKU M10 Fellowship ^o^ previous - random - next Christian med students/doctors previous - random - next HKU Medic - graduates and fellow students previous - random - next HKUchristian previous - random - next YCKers~~ previous - random - next Posting Calendar Jan Feb Mar Apr May June July Aug Sept Oct Nov Dec 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 2008 2007 2006 2005 2004 2003 2002 2001 2000 1999 |<< oldest | newest >>| view all weblog archives Get Involved! Suggest a link Recommend to friend Create a site

Monday, July 14, 2008 when recalling our days of going to school tgt w/ irene ytd, so memorable ^^ i didn't like to live so far away from school at all, but if it weren't that, wouldn't have met irene & kelvin regularly so much, travelling to school, practising clin skills... so, maybe, it's gd to live far away too ^^ i didn't like myself being less able to focus on studying at home too.. but if it weren't that, wouldn't have so much fun w/ classmates at lib, and wouldn't have the memorable times w/ lilian... i usually don't wake early at holidays too, but if it weren't so, wouldn't have so much great chats w/ elaine @ breakfast... stimulates my thinking every now and then too so, it's all good ^^ * after these few months (substracting the 2 mths when i'll be in an isolated hospital), only ~15wks (including exams) to see all classmates regularly! already started missing everything.. * previously have been thinking which suits God's will more: 1. getting tgt w/ a guy as a bf whole-heartedly, versus 2. staying single & when a friend is match enough then serious dating. then. afterall my conclusion is, I think God doesn't mind much.. the only thing that He'd mind is that I exhaust myself in solving problems in temporary problems (dating marriage) in the expense of what I can do for eternity. so, the above qu should be, which way would be wise in terms of eternity. i think, both 1 & 2 can be.. it depends on how you do it. so, yea! God's will on us is not a point, it's an area - an area with boundaries but so wide that's beyond our imagination, an area that's safe for us to have free-will but not getting lost, an area with a mixture of love and sufferings but you can only experience god's love & His super-caring accompanion more. * recently very amazed at how God wonderfully works in the lives of my friends ^^ 11:47 PM - 2 eprops - add comments - email it Saturday, July 05, 2008 rotation list is out! medicine for 2 mth first: qe - kw - qe - qm then surgery for 2 mth: @ the famous py mixed rotations for 2 mth b4 diane's wedding~ =) looks like a very good single friend of similar age has found her guy lu~ super happy for her and esp so much joy to see her waiting her bf to seek god b4 getting together~ yea~ i knew this would happen. now i'm on my own lu~ (i mean finally all my close friends of similar age has a stable relationship lu) thanks god for sending them to accompany me for the past many yrs~ i still believe that god's shaping me and my future partner to be a better person, and there must be a good reason for the waiting =) maybe we're slow learners? or maybe god wanna equip us more? whatever the reason is, gotta spend my coming period of singleness fully sinn duc~ ^^ btw, also in DT camp, i love chatting w/ 2 sis from m05 alot~ one of them told me that she actually prayed for 'not having any relationships before her relationship with god is good, and no need to give her extra guys, just let her identify the one'.. i asked myself if i could make the same prayer, then i was a bit shocked that i hesitated! porpor's v happy tonight.. made me v happy too~ ^^ 11:47 PM - 2 eprops - 2 comments - email it Friday, July 04, 2008 folk-dance today. so jang~ ^^ this summer, did group project together w/ 1 groupmate. frankly, didn't really like that groupmate after trying my best to love this groupmate for months for the past 1 yr. but after seeing how he takes up the group responsibility without any complaints or comparision to efforts from other groupmates, i think my view towards him has changed.  i wouldn't say he's the friend i'd desire to have (great difference in personality), but i was unexpectedly a bit sad after knowing that he won't be in my group anymore! so, what god wants me to learn is far more than what i saw at the beginning le.. =) disciples training camp in late June was great. encouraged. it's funny to see generations of disciples training at one time.. many age groups dou yau~ it's like i can see my future, short-term or long-term~ it actually encouraged me to push my wish from 2 yrs later to this yr.. but let's see if god'd open the door la~ i wish sisters from other classes could help too =) if the previous generation didn't take time to do disciples training, i wouldn't even have the chance to know god lu.. thankful last day of summer vacation lu.. .. last day of school for my sis =.= 12:32 AM - 2 eprops - 1 comment - email it Friday, June 13, 2008 read something abt manhood & womanhood how men & women should keep in mind whether they're single/married not rules, but wisdoms about living our lives. i found that most of us naturally takes what our parents' doing as the 'norm', and hence, the 'correct way' of doing things.  while reading, i know that i can't take what's in the previous generations naturally too.  Like, altho i love my parents and grandparents, there're still things that they haven't integrated into their lives yet.. like how to be a supportive wife for her husband, & support husband spiritually, & like how a father can resemble the father in heaven in guiding the growth of kids, & father can take a greater responsibility of kids' spiritual growth rather than leaving it to the church alone.. i mean, they're great people who raised me up in a loving family, but maybe becoz they aren't raised from a christian family and maybe more things can be added on. some of these also applies to the time when we're still single too. =) yea! let me explore as much as possible of what i can integrate in the future.. it's much wiser to discover it now then later~ can use time more wisely mah~ ^^ * also browsing thu prev notes by pang on love, "a lot of christian guys/girls, but not godly men/women" 5:03 PM - add eprops - add comments - email it Thursday, June 12, 2008 chatted w/ a classmate and was just thinking, wow he has changed alot better since 3 yrs ago.. then, i received a call in the evening, this guy has trusted in the Lord lar! one more brother in M10~!! he finally believes after a year of intense bible study.. so he knows our system very well right after he's our bro haha~ we're so happy for him! i believe the heaven's rejoycing too! ^^ * 看了Ka Yu 的日記，記下蘇牧師的講道， 主題是「男人大丈夫」。 蘇牧師引用了《創世記》2:18-25、3:10-13、17-19節，帶出了做男人應有的態度。 開首，牧師引用了很多數據，反映出很多地方都是女多男少的現象，也有很多地方，男人都好像消失了一樣。究竟「男人，你在那裡？」 另外，他指出「配偶」二字，英文是helper，希伯來原文則是「拯救者」的意思，所以娶太太不只是為著打理家務，而是要「拯救」男人。你們看，女人的角色多麼重要！ 牧師說，聖經教導夫妻二人要「分」、「合」、「一」和「親」。 「分」：《創2：24》：「因此，人要離開父母與妻子連合，二人成為一體。」這句意思不是說結婚後便完全脫離父母，甚至不再孝敬父母，而是心智上和經濟上要獨立，不再如小孩般依賴父母，要做一家之主，所以夫妻關係，在聖經的教導上是比父子關係更重要； 「合」：是「連合」的意思，代表夫妻間之關係是永久的，是需要委身的； 「一」：「一體」，夫婦間無論身心靈都要結合，想著對方感受； 「親」：《創2：25》：「當時夫妻二人赤身露體，並不羞恥。」代表夫婦二人的親密關係，無論身、心、靈都親熱，不自我中心。 但現代很多男人都墮落了，卸膊的男人比比皆是，一遇到問題便選擇逃避、失蹤、不面對、甚至推卸責任，好像阿當吃了禁果，他第一時間將責任推向上帝，然後再推向夏娃身上。(《創3：12》：「那人說：「你所賜給我，與我同居的女人，她把那樹上的果子給我，我就吃了。」)而結果卻是自討苦吃。(《創3：17》：「又對亞當說：「你既聽從妻子的話，吃了我所吩咐你不可吃的那樹上的果子，地必為你的緣故受咒詛。你必終身勞苦，才能從地裡得吃的。」) 而根據聖經的教導，作為一個男人，必須： 「是頭」：是要承擔一家之主的責任，有服侍心態； 「有愛」：愛妻子、兒女，「按情理與妻子同住」。所謂的「按情理」是要體諒、敏感和敬重妻子； 「不惹氣」：要有忍耐和有犧牲的愛，處處為對方著想，作男人最重要是做家裡的牧師。 11:57 PM - add eprops - add comments - email it Next 5 >>

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