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Country: Canada
State: Ontario
Metro: Toronto
Birthday: 6/12/1975
Gender: Male


Interests: All kind of sports. Espeically racquet sports and golf.
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Member Since: 8/2/2005

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Thursday, September 08, 2005

Gemini & Pisces

When Gemini and Pisces come together in a love affair, they can make a very empathetic and mutually satisfying couple. Gemini is cerebral, quick-witted and silver-tongued, and can bring a dash of humor and intellectual direction to help focus Pisces's dreamy view of the world. Pisces has the gift of intuitive empathy; they connect very well with others on a rather subtle emotional level, and their dreamy nature makes them quite open-minded -- in short, Pisces expects the unexpected. Gemini is open-minded as well; mentally both agile and flexible, the Twins are gifted at seeing all sides of an issue and at communicating with other people. This relationship is all about flexibility and connection.

Gemini and Pisces make great friends as well as lovers. Pisces is rather emotionally sensitive and can get their feelings hurt when brash Gemini speaks without thinking. But even when they do have problems, these partners can forgive and forget easily. Neither Sign sees any reason to hold a grudge, Pisces because they understand their partner's true intentions, and Gemini because they simply don't have the time to dwell on past hurts.

Gemini is ruled by Mercury (Communication) and Pisces is ruled by Jupiter (Luck) and Neptune (Illusion). Jupiter, about learning and philosophy as well as luck, lends Pisces their desire to know more deeply, and Neptune makes Pisces so dreamy. Mercury is all about quick wit, innovation and invention -- Gemini's watch words. Pisces is able to understand Gemini's frequent new ideas on a deeply intuitive level.

Gemini is an Air Sign and Pisces is a Water Sign. The combination of an intellectual focus with an emotional, intuitive grasp of the world makes decisions much more solid; if these two can work together, they can achieve much. Their only trouble is the communication breakdowns that can result if Pisces feels Gemini isn't understanding enough, or if Gemini feels hampered by Pisces's emotional sensitivity. The good thing is, both try to get over their own hurt feelings quickly.

Gemini and Pisces are both Mutable Signs, thus quite compatible. Both Signs are adaptable, flexible and very able to deal with change. They also tend to change their own minds quite a bit, so it's a good thing they're both so open-minded. Neither Sign needs to take the lead, and they both provide one another with plenty of space and freedom.

What's the best aspect of the Gemini-Pisces relationship? Their mutual interest in cultivating their knowledge and utilizing their intellect. They are well-matched in their flexibility. Their shared interests and similar personalities make theirs a very companionable relationship.

Thankz for Justin K


Monday, August 15, 2005

Wow, I haven¡¦t updated my Xanga for awhile.  I think this is the time I should write down some of my thoughts for the past week.  The past week was an unhappy and unlucky week for me.  I still lost so much sleep because of him and I still don¡¦t know when can I see him again?  I had already lost a chance to see him at the A/X for the past Saturday.  Stupid me, I should be a bit selfish to leave my friends from the MJ table to go to see him.  School will start soon; the chance that I can see him is getting slimmer.  But I still crazily try to find chewy ice cream for him.  Hopefully, I can see, talk and be friend with him soon.

There was another thing most upset me about. Why people can¡¦t think before they say it?  Especially, I don¡¦t think people should say anything about their lover/ EX ¡§private moment¡¨ to others. Can you respect yourself and your lover or someone you used to love???


Sunday, August 07, 2005

What a freaking stupid day!  Woke up at 715 to get ready for the stupid tournament.  I haven't play a tournament since 2000.  I was so excited and looking forward for it, but the tournament sux. The tournament was poorly organized. We had to wait at least 2 hrs for a stupid game. That's really a waste of time our time, we could went to play golf instead. Finally we lost it in the Q-Final. Thankz for the stupid draw as well.  They put all the teams whom should be seeded on one side.  If not, we could easily go to the final. 

Around 2330, I went to have a drink with the gangs. I was so tired, but I want to relax a bit before go to sleep. During the ride of dropping off Wallace, we had some arguments on how to see stuffs.  There was a moment hurt me the most.  I can't believe he said that to me!!!!!  Oh well, wtf !  I should know better and do the right thing. Life goes on!


Saturday, August 06, 2005

I am so tired, but I am happy.  Last night I dream of him playing tennis with me, but I lost to him on a very close game. I really hope that dream will come true one day. I don¡¦t know why, but I really want him to be my friend. Hope my friends will help me out? LOL

Woke up at 830 and I only have 3 hours of sleep.  Went to my grandma¡¦s house by 915 and help them to move to new condo.  Picked up Wallace at 1145 and went to my place.  We were so tired, so that we went to take a nap together.  Too bad, there is nothing happen between us.  We went to picked up DD at 1715, and then we went to buy foods for tonight pot luck.  Pot luck was pretty good, but too bad I have to leave early, cuz I have a badminton tournament tomorrow. I hope my partner and I will win the tournament.


Friday, August 05, 2005

Today was a good day.  Woke up at noon and went to pick up my ex, cuz he wants me to drop him off work by 4.  After picked him up, we went to Pacific mall to eat lunch.  That stupid Korean lady mixed up his ordered. We had ordered teriyaki chicken in stead of that she gave us a hot beef dish.  Wallace can¡¦t eat hot stuff at all, but him stupid enough try to act tough to eat it. Of course he can¡¦t finish the dish.   I saw him sweating so much and he still insists on eating it.  Sometime I just hate his stubbornness.  I was hurting so much inside my heart when I saw he suffered.  What can I do?  I am so useless when I dealing with him.  After that, we went shopping inside the mall, but there is nothing we want to buy.

After dropped him at work, I went to pick up DD.  We went to those outlets at Orfus road.  We went into Roots outlet store and those stuffs are cheap.  I had brought a hat and a sweater for my god-daughter.  Her birthday is coming up soon and wish her will have a nice birthday party this year. (Last year was sux.)  DD was like a kid in a candy store, he was so happy.  He had found couple items that he loves and brought it.  But he should buy that Vassar as well. It looks great on him and reminds me one of his friends. LOL

We went to eat dinner with Justin K. at Seoul Garden afterward.  The food is pretty good and Justin is so funny.  After dinner we went to pick up Wallace at work and pick up Jerry at home and went to have dessert.  After dessert we went to Thomas¡¦s house to play some Tai Wan M.J.  I went home around 330 and that concluded my day.



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