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Monday, October 06, 2008

  • Somethings about my good Bosnian friends :

    I didn't know that was the case...

    We are having Global Village in Macedonia, inviting people from Romania, Serbia, Turkey, Bosnia and Herzegovina, and of course, Peru, Hong Kong and USA.

    As usual, I asked a lot of friends connection, Bosnia is a place where Jonathan told me about, he has been there facilitating a national conference, I met the national team vice president, and he really knew Jonathan :)

    After the friends connection, as my style I asked a lot of questions that I don't really know, realted to history and culture. I asked about the history. Bosnian people just refused me to talk about it at the beginning, and I thought ok maybe another time. At that time, all I knew is that first world war started in Sarajevo.

    The first time I met them in my flat, it's like a sudden, more than 10, 20 people in our tiny flat, all drinking beer from Sarajevo, and they put Bosnian stuff everywhere, the posters, the really huge flag, wearing the same clothes for AIESEC Bosnia, feeling really energetic even after 19 hours jounery from Sarajevo to Skopje.

    We had really great time in global village and study tour, what I really have to say is I appreciate Bosnian a lot a lot: they can drink so much, they are so funny, they have endless energy (they played football at home after 2 days endless party at 5am...), they are so hospitable and nice, they are so proud of their food and drinks :)

    we had parties every night, we traveled around, a lot of jokes and sharing, really great fun to be with those giant guys. 

    I like Bosnian as a country where they have nice people and great views, also they have the european pyramid just discovered last 2 years! There are so many reason to visit them, let alone they will host a central and eastern European conference in February 2009, I will go for sure to Bosnia.

    We sang song, we learnt from each other the foul language, we did crazy stupid stuff, I drank too much until I threw and they were still seem like nothing happening though they drank at least 5 times more than me and faster than me... Those Bosnian friends, I just like them!

    And it comes to the reality and deep understanding for Bosnian. In 1992 to 1995, Bosnian war.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUFhwkEZHec

    Living in Sarajevo at that time means hungar, terror, darkness, without water, electricity and food suppy, people may die oneday in the street without any reason with shooting, horror, fear, frastruation, and the big questions in mind: why it happens? and when would it finish?

    They are the similar age with me, losing childhood, living with life and dealth, are they deserve to suffer? what went wrong for those innocent people?

    I just got the book: <<Zlata's dairy>>, it's like Anne Frank in Bosina. It's not really really interested to me before I knew those Bosinan friends, now I just read a part of it, and I was feel like crying. As my friends were suffering from the same reality.

    I didn't ask much about the details of the war and how they were going though this tough period. But from their voice and their willingness to share, I agreed: we cannot change history, let's focus on the future.

    And I am going to Sarajevo to visit all my beloved Bosnian friends in Feburary 2009 as a facilitator in Central and eastern European Motiativion and Organization Seminar.

    I hope I can understand Bosnia and Herzegovina as a country and Bosinan people in general.

Wednesday, October 01, 2008

  • These days are kind of crazy...

    Today we received 15 people from different countries to help for a global village in different LC to attract and impress those freshmen. Surprisingly, there are always people knowing Jonathan in Europe...

    Today we are going to the radio station for promotion, we would be on Air :)

    Tomorrow traveling around Skopje with these people, 3rd to Ohrid, 4th to Prilep until 7th.
    then a lot of work to do for induction and selection, as well as conference preparation.

    At the same time in the end of the month, I am going to Czech Republic, Prague for a conference facilitation.

    then I will have my own conference in Macedonia. Probably will go to Ukraine for facilitating in December as I promised when I was in India.

    My computer is broken, no Chinese typing anymore...damn it.

Monday, September 29, 2008

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

  • wake me up when my September ends.

    September 2008, is like a dream. A true reality exceeds all expectation I have ever made in my life. It starts when I finished my 2nd LC visit to a small Macedonian town Prilep, for the local beer festival and a music concert held by AIESEC alumni for different bands from Balkan countries.

    And then I went to another LC visit - the undoubtedly most beautiful place in Macedonia - Ohrid. I home stayed with my teammate (Svetle), eating traditional food, really really fresh ingredient that just being picked up from the ground seconds ago and then ate it with the freshest taste ever. Simple, yet unforgettable, specially can shock a modern citizen like me from such a city like Hong Kong with huge isolation from nature.

    Most amazing, I lived in the home town (Radoshda) of my teammate, it's a small village with around just 1000 people, located exactly near the Ohrid Lake, 10 seconds from the house, we can reach the lake. Swimming in the clear water where you can see your toes clearly, with small fish swimming around you, it's totally unimaginable dream place that I have been longing for since I was a child...

    Visited different famous and oldest Orthodox churches everyday, I have to go back to Skopje and work really hard in Mc office for preparing recruitment and stuff because the next 2 weeks I would not be physically present in the office.

    Romania. Here I finally came. Meeting with my lovely best Romanian friend Georgi, having traditional Romanian food, talking things in Hong Kong and Romania, it's like not real, am I still in Hong Kong or Bucharest? Living with the agenda manager Popic, we would have our conference in the next 6 days. He showed his passion to me, all about human excellence, I remembered a lot of my reading before I join Google, I realized that I cooled down my passion when I was living in India...(Job, parties, friends and stuff made me busy all the time, haha)

    International Train the Trainer. Facilitating and training, such a professional conference that I realized a lot and learned a lot from each and everyone, from different moment and different places. Brasov, the most beautiful city I had ever seen!! (as I am so new to Europe, show me the best in your country my friend, Prague and Budapest are coming I knew :) Also friends from Romania impressed me a lot a lot. There were several Aha! Moments, as well as life lesions and loads of professional knowledge gained. Working with international team formed by talented and experienced people, really, it is incredibly awesome!

    After the conference, it’s time to explore a little bit more about the Romanian people and the places. Staying in Brasov with all different places and people everyday, joining the LC meeting, hanging out all together, traveling around, it’s such a great moment to live in! Additionally, I went to the famous city Sibiu, that’s the first city I knew apart from the capital because I was living with a Sibiu friend (Catalin) in Athens for a month! Eventually here I am. Sibiu is similar to Brasov, you will just look at the architectures and keep saying wow wow wow, no wonder this is the European cultural capital last year.

    Going back to Bucharest, living in an intern flat who is also a delegate (Stefan) of ITTT, feeling just like home. So comfortable with the place that I have been just once in my life, it’s like magic, my friend. Finally have to leave, while I know I will come back again, at least for another conference maybe.

    Sofia, Bulgaria. Welcome to a place where I have completely no idea about. Arriving late for an hour at mid night, a member was picking me up, explaining to me everything is happening in AIESEC Bulgaria. MCP (Nasko) is so hospitable and caring, there is a conference going on in Sofia, MC office and MC flat, so glad that I can be part of it and made some inputs. Traveling alone in Sofia, feeling should be strange but nothing like that. I am feeling so enjoyable although physically I was so tired for the last 3 weeks endless working. I was impressed by the determination and spirit of the MCP, and indeed I learned so much from him about the management of Balkan people and AIESEC.

    September 2008 is a Balkan month, is an unexpectedly great month. It’s like taking a path that you haven’t planned to go yet you finished walking already. Coming back to AIESEC is never be a choice that I would be regret upon, ever now the finance aspect maybe facing a little bit trouble, I knew I am going to enjoy each and every moment.

    I learned something in ITTT from a very energetic delegate: when we wake up everyday, we have a choice, to choose whether today should be a good day, or should be a great day. :)

    Thank you so much everybody, though my laptop is broken in Romania, my charger is lost in Bulgaria, doesn’t matter. Just enjoy the present like a gift. That’s why it’s called Present. :D

    I believed every month could be as exciting and interesting as September 2008, if I am wrong, wake me up when my September ends.

Friday, September 05, 2008

  • <<三杯茶>>


    不要低估一個人的力量. 一個失敗的登山客, 一份強烈的信念, 為了素未謀面的孩子, 摩頓森用半生的時間在巴基斯坦建學校.

    「<<三杯茶>>, 算是我這趟旅途的意外收獲」在一張希臘名信片背後, 來自台灣的Wendy給我寫道. 據說Wendy出發背包希臘遊前, 到誠品書店買些什麼, 送了一套英語學習教材, 她不太喜歡, 到書店嘗試交換些別的, 店員就隨手在暢銷書欄中, 奉上這本<<三杯茶>>. 她把它帶往希臘, 在雅典的最後一天, 她拚命閱讀, 務必在往機場前, 把這本書送給我- 香港這位特別的朋友, 並祝福我在馬其頓的生活一切順利.

    <<三杯茶>>是一個謙卑的偉大故事, 箇中孩子的教育, 更勾起一份份過往回憶.

    一個地道香港故事.

    我剛剛大學畢業, 和退下金融界, 剛剛失業的哥哥一同出門, 跟媽媽說「晚點回來, 留飯留餸」. 拿著一個手提袋, 內裡裝的是四十本小筆記簿、一百支鉛筆、十塊擦膠、數個鉛筆刨和一疊單面白紙.

    在西鐡上, 「準備了教學筆記沒有?」哥哥問.「我正想著下一回教材, 這趟早已發到明愛, 待會阿里會拿到清真寺, 希望他不會遲到」一邊想, 一邊答. 阿里是巴基斯坦藉香港年青, 任職天主教機構西九龍明愛中心, 致力服務香港小數族裔.

    「下一站南昌...」鐡路廣播著總站的名稱, 是時候給好友阿科致電. 「快到了! 巴士站等」阿科速速回答. 我一個失學, 哥哥一個失業, 而阿科算是失學失業的那一位, 正等待考取英語能力的證書, 然後到澳洲完成他的學業.

    一個小時的巴士車程, 阿科跟我說「別讓教會內的朋友知道, 今天我胡扯推掉了聚會才來」兩個基督教的小伙子, 幫助天主教機構, 到清真寺內教導一班南亞裔小孩.「別讓Emum(清真寺主教)知道我們是基督徒才對!」我微笑.

    三位青年才俊, 終於到了土瓜灣舊區, 在舊式商業大廈內找到清真寺的單位, 我們早到了. 孩子們都坐在地上, 看著個人小型閱讀架上的可蘭經, 用阿拉伯語大聲朗誦著. Emum隨意點名, 問一句, 孩子就要起身, 放聲背誦經文.

    「我從未見過他們如此靜心專注在書本上」我跟阿科輕聲道.「那當然! 如果你也手持Emum手上那支長木棍, 孩子們豈敢不從?」孩子環圈坐在大廳牆壁, Emum來回渡步, 一下一下把玩著那支長棍. 他停了下來, 大家也靜下, 他作了一個禱告, 然後看看我們, 點頭旨意廣東話課可以開始了.

    我叫阿里拿出那塊沉重的白木板, 我到大廳的右邊教授6至12歲的女孩子; 男孩子們屬於哥哥, 他在中央用牆上少年警訊贊助的白板教學; 而阿科則負責照顧3-5歲的大堆孩子們, 跟他們說故事、玩遊戲.

    津在地上, 我在白木板上寫下「交通工具」四個中文字, 這是今課的主題. 發了筆記簿、文具和紙張, 女孩們都伏在地上跟著一筆一劃的抄寫著. 在沒有書台、沒有椅子、沒有課本的情況下, 這是我能力上認為最有效的教學. 哥哥和我算是受薪的老師, 教學的60分鐘,我們得花上來回的三句鐘, 為了南亞孩子, 4小時我們受薪一百五十元; 而阿科則津貼四十元車資.

    不單沒有資源, 教材亦乏善可陳. 香港擁有五萬名南亞裔人, 二十五萬菲律賓和印尼人, 就是沒有一本簡單廣東話課本. 我參考的教材, 就是曾經教導我的理工大學中文系教授Lolita為這次計劃所寫的.

    沒有財力, 也沒有人力. 起初只有我一個人, 面對40個孩子, 沒有班房, 怎麼教? 穿上印度買的傳統服裝, 向一群大學生做了一個動人的演講, 結束後收到不少語言上的支持, 而最後也如舊只有我一人. 苦無計策之下, 只好拉攏家中的哥哥和十年好友的阿科, 而其後亦有另一好友阿昌的加入, 為香港南亞教育出一分力.

    這是我在香港未前往印度工作的半個年頭.

    在印度, 馬路邊乞討的兒童, 赤腳追逐舊車胎玩樂的孩子, 孤兒院內不斷增加的人數... 曾經心灰, 亦曾經心酸, 問道誰可以幫助那些孩子呢?

    <<三杯茶>>以一個真實故事告訴你, 一個人也可以改變世界, 只要堅持那一份強烈的信念與無私的付出.

    記得我一位巴基斯坦藉菲律賓裔的學生在課堂完結後, 告訴我一句阿拉伯文. 我問這是什麼意思, 她用流利的廣東話對我說「阿拉會保佑你的!」我微笑, 摸摸她包著領巾的頭, 我贊她乖巧, 懂得烏度語、泰加羅語、英語、阿拉伯語和廣東話, 她笑笑說「好容易咋嘛, 一句句咁學, 好快就識晒嫁喇」(其實很容易, 一句一句地學, 很快就全都學會了) 我受啟發了, 只要一個一個人去改變, 很快, 世界亦隨之而改變.

    神, 會保佑我們的.

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