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Name: Brian
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Birthday: 1/3/1970
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Sunday, November 19, 2006

Making a Difference

originally posted at www.youthandleadership.com

My brother's brother-in-law (the two guys married sisters) is the Vice Principal at Green Bay East were a Columbine attck was planned.  On the main part of this entry I posted a recent newspaper article that highlights Matt as he went to his old high school to talk about the incident.  In the article there are some great comments about what youth development is all about:

Columbus grad talks of thwarting school massacre

By Adam Rodewald
Marshfield News-Herald

Matt Mineau takes a step towards the students. He takes his left hand out of his pocket, and his right hand grips the microphone.

He's getting to the meat of his presentation.

"It's not what's in a kid's back pack," he says. "It's what's in a kid's heart."

The words are simple but strong, especially in the trail of school violence.

Mineau, vice principal at Green Bay East High School and an alumnus of Marshfield Columbus Catholic High School, spoke at his alma mater Wednesday about the significance of open communication for students' safety.

He was the school administrator to whom a student reported plans for a Columbine-style attack this September. Three students were arrested for the scheme to explode homemade bombs near various bathrooms, block exits with homemade napalm and shoot students before dying at the hands of police.

"Realistically, after seeing all these things, I think it can happen in any school," he says to the student body. "I'm not saying this to scare you, but it can (happen)."

Thankfully, there's a way to prevent attacks of this kind, and it all starts with the students.

"Try to build other people up so they feel part of this school," Mineau says. "You've got opportunities to be a role model in this school that no one else does."

Everyone wants a sense of belonging, so they join in various social groups, he explains. However, those groups all want to be the best and tend to shut others out.

"We never open up ourselves, tear down those walls and let other people in," he says.

Over time, exclusion can cause a student to feel so low they even forget who they are, he says, and they may take extreme actions, like planning a massacre, to regain a place in the world.

"I feel sad for these guys. How could we let them get so low?" he says.

So here's his advice: Don't follow others simply for acceptance. Remember that little things matter. Be open to people with differences and listen to them. Serve others before yourself, and most of all, remember your values.

Katie Miller, a 15-year-old Sophomore at Columbus, sat on the bleachers after the presentation. She found the message something all students could relate to.

"I think we all just assume there are people like that, but to really think about it and the thoughts that would go through their head is really strange," she says.

In 80 percent of school shootings, at least one person knows about it ahead of time, Mineau says.

Students need to build relationships with their parents and teachers so they feel comfortable reporting those threats, he says. It's not snitching or tattling. It's protecting the school.

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So here is my what I'd like to hear from you: What elements are highlighted in this article that we need to always keep in front of us as we work with students?  How do make them a reality in the groups we are called to work with?

 

I have my thoughts, but I'd like to hear from you.

Brian


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Tuesday, August 01, 2006

lasts

So tomorrow morning is my last Sunday morning at my church in Appleton before I transition up to NCU.  A week ago I had my last youth service, I just finished my last week of camp as a youth pastor and I just did my last wedding at our church a few minutes ago (praise the Lord).  That word "last" is an interesting word because it doesn't mean finished, but it means "that which is next before the present."  It is more of a joining word than a word that creates cessation. Isn't it interesting that we use the same word to describe a conclusion as we do to describe something that has the power to continue (I hope this feeling will 'last').  So I'm excited because I'm standing at this junction point.  This point that is now and not yet.  A point that sets a new minimum standard for what God has for me.  Like the Jesus during the Sermon on the Mount; He didn't end anything, but He stood at a junction point that launched something more amazing than we ever thought possible.  I'm sad to leave somethings behind, but I'm excited about what is about to begin. 

Brian   


Sunday, July 09, 2006

CAMP

All I gots to say is that camp starts tomorrow!



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