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Sunday, September 03, 2006

Rapists in Uniform

RAPISTS IN UNIFORM

theres a new trick some secual predators are using before they go looking for a victim: dressing up as authority figures-- polie officers, firemen, and the like. Here's how to ensure you dont fall for this dangerous hoax.

we grow up believing that the job of the police is to keep us safe, that our part of the deal is to do what they say when they question us.  but recently, there appears to be an upsruge in a style of crime that takes advantage of that relationship: attacks in which men pose as figures we trust with our lives and safety-- policemen and firemen-- in order to sexually assault, rape and murder women.

it's not just happening in major cities: police are still searching for assailants in four different attacks on young women drivers in the sacramento, CA, area.  in each case, a man driving a car resembling a patrol vehicle pulled the victim over by turning on the red or blue flashing lights, then showed a false badge and sexually assaulted her, either in her own car or in his. it's a problem in small towns too, like Culpeper, VI, where a man attempted to force his way into a woman's home by insisting he was a police offiver with a search warrant.

criminals are not limiting themselves to posing as cops. in NYC last fall, a journalist named peter Braunstein allegedly dresses as a firefighter and started a small fire in the hallway of an apartment building in order to gain access to a woman's apartment. once he pesuaded her to let him in, he allegedly terrorized and sexually assaulted her for hours. (he pleaded not guilty, and his lawyer is reportedly planning an insanity degense at trial). "this is a dangerous situation because we rely on policemen and firemen," says Louis Schlesinger, PhD, professor of forensic psychology at John Jay College of Criminal Justice in NY. "we trust them. We have to. and that trust is the most important part of the perpetrator's MO."

one reason such crimes may be on the rise is simple availability. the internet has made it easier that ever before to pretend to be a law-enforcement officer.  But perhaps an even more powerful reason is the very nature of the police-citizenship relationship, says experts, and our readiness to trust figures of authority. "it works!" says katherine ramsland, PhD, professor of forensic psychology at DeSales University. "who's going to say no to these guys?"

our respect for "these guys" is such that some of them have been able to abduct their victims even when others are present-- including boyfriends and husbands. in Alamance County, HC, 25-year-old Ismael Rodriguez Cruz pulled up to his victim and her boyfriend and threatened to arrest the girl if she didnt come with him to the police station for questioning. he drove her instead  to an isolated are and attempted to rape her.  law-enforcement officials are concerned that many rapes by men posing as cops go unreported because of acquaintance-rape shame or because of fear and mistrust of going to the police for help.-- after all, some victims are unsure even after the fact whether their attacker was really a cop or not.  the sense of betrayal that follows such an assault goes very deep, to the heart of our reliance on our society's structure and caretakers. if you can't trust a cop, whom can you trust?

"these men are often very dangerous," says Schlesinger, "and are also very creative. adding to their threat is the fact that their deceptions can be quite sophisticated and intricate."  the worst thing about cases involving rapists this smart and rapes this premeditated, he say, is that "these types of criminals dont let the women go." the attack often ends in murder.

How To Protect Yourself

-if an unmarked car signals you to stop
dont pull over immediately. put your blinkers on and drive slowly to a place that is well-lit and populated. call 911 and verify with the dispatch office that this is a legitimate stop that has been called in. all officers--even plain clothes detectives and those in unmarked vehicles-- usually call in a legitimate traffic stop. when you do pull over, keep your doors locked, and roll down the window only enough to pass documents through.
--remember: although it can sometimes happen, in general, a police officer would not order you to get out of your car just for a routine traffic violation. in any case, an officer should always clearly identify himself.

-if a police officer comes to your home and requests entry
ask to see his badge and ID card, ask him to slip his business card under the door, and call 911 or your local police precinct to verify his identity and presence.
--remember: if things still dont feel right to you, ask him to return with another officer and wait until backup arrives. if you live alone, get in the habit of answering your door with a cell phone conspicuously in hand. "it may sound paranoid, but you need to assume responsibility for your own safety," says Jim Alderden, sheriff of Larimer County in Colorado.

-if a firefighter comes to your door and requests access
open the door if you see or smell smoke, if the fire alarm system has been activated, if you can see the fire truck parked outside, and if there are other fire fighters with their gear, advises Bill Glanz, assistant press secretary for the Internationl Association of Fire Fighters.
--remember: if you cant confirm all those items, call 911 to ask if the fire department is responding to a call at your address and tell them why you're calling. cont be rushed if there is no sign of fire and you feel vulnerable.


The Other Men You Trust

-The Real Estate Agent
in Birmingham, MI, a man posing as a real-estate agent salesman knocked on a woman's door and said he had to leave a note for a client who was late for an appointment down the street. when she went to find a pen, he followed her inside, petted her dog, made friendly chit-chat, and then pulled out a gun and raped her.

-The Repairman
two men in Queens, NY, reportedly entered four women's homes by claiming that they were telephone workers who had been called in to repair lines in the area. once inside, one or both overpowered and raped their victims at gunpoint.

-The Potential Homebuyer
in NH, Oliver Hooper, called the Real-Estate Rapist, was convicted of raping a 19-yr-old woman. hooper pretended to be interested in buying her parents' home, then forced his way inside.





--paraphrased from September issue of Cosmopolitan, Real-Life Reads, Page 193



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Tuesday, July 18, 2006

R.KELLY "Trapped in the Closet" Chapters 1-12

R.Kelly- Trapped In the Closet (12 chapters)




Chapter 1



Chapter 2



Chapter 3



Chapter 4



Chapter 5



Chapter 6



Chapter 7



Chapter 8



Chapter 9



Chapter 10



Chapter 11




Chapter 12


predators and policemen

ok.. so im sitting there, watching Hell's Kitchen, and then the commercials come on. well, that itself it obviously very annoying, but then this commercial comes on about what the news was going to be about for that night.  and this time, it was about "online predators"  that got me to think...

why do people feel threatened by "online predators" (ok.... i'm going to cal them OPs now, cause that;s really annoying to type out)?

i mean seriously.. i really dont blame the OPs for the news stories. i blame the "victims".  they're the ones that seem to always subject themselves to stuff like that. ok... the OPs will continue to do what they do. but its usually up to the victim to decide whether or not they will give in. i mean.. when you enter a chatroom, you should know the risks. if youre a full grown adult, and knows how to use chatrooms, and know what youre looking for, then im pretty sure youve seen stories about OPs. and youd think that theyd be more careful about stuff like that.

but then they go on there, and then they start chatting it up with someone. now.. if some stranger asks you for your personal info, you obviously dont give it to them. and one of the more common messaging programs for chats, is AIM. and in AIM, its an option whether or not youre going to put your address. if you dont want to get stalked or killed or something, DONT PUT YOUR ADDRESS DOWN. its not that hard.  ok.. if youre looking for those no-strings-attached fun, obviously dont join stuff where your address and more personal info is asked, and required.  that's jsut asking for a raping.

so if say...you know youre using a program that does NOT ask for your address and all that juicy goodness, and then some dude starts hittin on yah, telling you to strip for him on camera. and even though u say no, he keeps insisting, to a point where he's not threatening to kill you or something if you dont do it.

ok.. first off, lets stay off the cameras if youre hoping for a one-night-stand thing, shall we?  not only are you exposing your privates for the cyber world to see, youre also showing of WHO YOU ARE. cause once your face shows, you never know if that person has a photographic memory.  and if they do, then youre kinda screwed now, arent cha?  so lay off the cameras, and stick with your trust palm and fingers eh?

and 2nd-ly, if you know you did not give out personal info onto that program, whats the freaking problem?  if theyre threatening to burn ur house down, how do they expect to find it? unless you expose your face.. then they can probably find someone to stalk you or something (you never know what kind of connections people have). just you know.. dont click any sort of link they give you. those hackers mannnnn.. they insane.

come'on people.. just ..stick to the porn sites, and them trusty organs of yours that your momma gave you, alright? you know the risks of chatrooms, especially sex-oriented chats. theyre not going to be calm, innocent people. they want raw animal sex....online. and some will go at any lengths to get it.

when you do suff like, that, really, its kind of your fault if youre being "attacked"  you knew the risks, and you know there are dangers. if you give out your personal info to some dude you dont even know, then well.... kinda your wrong isnt it?

so stop with the complaining.

and kids that are subjected to OPs on mySpac[, theyre old enough to use mySpace, so theyre old enough to know what to do and what not to do.  "dont talk to strangers.." ever heard of that?

OPs target their victims, and its relaly up to the "victim" to decide what to do.  if you give up personal info, you just screwed yourself. if you just play it safe, and just block/ignore them, then you should be fine.

but if you take all precautions and suddenly you find yourself getting a BADDD feeling and vibe around your home-area, THEN you should definitely report it, and start panicking....ok..maybe not panic.. then you'll stop htinking rationally. stay calm, and dial 9-1-1 or something. and remember to report that person to whatever program youre using.




and then, there was breaking news of a "highspeed chase"  ..they were going 40mph.

just cut in front of the car already good lord!

and when he got off and started running, the police were on his tail in the car chase, why didnt they run after him???  i know i cant do better, but im just asking...

i know there are regulations to follow, but... once youre on food, that guys cant do that much damage right?? no wait.. he was armed. nevermind.

and curse to the policeman that shot one unarmed man, and to the other for beating a an unarmed man with his stick, cause they guy didnt follow instructions. the first did follow instructions,a nd the 2nd guy didnt follow, cause it turns out, he was an immigrant, and could speak only spanish.






Thursday, July 06, 2006

PLEASE HELP

please help out ----------------- Bulletin Message ----------------- From: Eugene Date: Jul 6, 2006 2:16 AM Hey Guys,

I don't know if you guys know but I lost my best friend to cancer. We had the type of friendship that would last forever, and in my heart he's still remembered everyday. I'm not asking much from you guys, but if you guys could, please donate to the American Heart Association. We're doing the relay for life. Before I did it without a cause, but once you know someone who is affected by cancer, it can change you 180 degree's. I hope to raise $5,000. It's a hard goal, but I think we could do it. Please help me. I've never really asked much from anyone, but if you guys could donate whatever you can, I would really appreciate it. Just image your best friend, and he/she got cancer. You guys would try to do anything right? Please help us find a cure. I don't want anyone to go through what I went through. It's been over a month and I'm still trying to get over it.

*THE LINK IS ON MY XANGA (xanga.com/eugenelee3), AIM info, And MySpace

Thanks so much guys. It means a lot.

If you guys could just post that link on your info to donate or find anyone who could donate please help.


Wednesday, July 05, 2006

well, i've been home a couple hours now, and already, im bored with torrance. though truely, i must say that i prefer torrance over anaheim...

as some of you know, during these past 5 days, i have been out of town, in anaheim, attending the 2006 AnimeExpo at the Anaheim Convention Center (acc). now i'm back, and i feel like talking about the trip :D i havent been on vacation in a while, and oh man.. i had SO MUCH FUN.

ok... before i start this little happy thing about my trip, i wanna thank chris for taking me, and for everything he has done for me. i really cannot thank him enough for everything... and i know he's tired of hearing me thank him over and over, but really... i have so much to be thankful for, and i really cannot thank him enough. thank you chris... for everything.

ok.. so we left mid-afternoon on friday, so to avoid the rush on the day of AX. unfortunately, there was a sig-alert on the 405 to the 22, so we ended up taking Sepulveda all the way up to anaheim.

when we got there, we went straight to the acc to pick up our badges; can you believe that parking at the acc is $9?! it was insane. well, we got out of the car, and OMFG IT WAS SO HOT. we got out of the car, and the heat just...sat on us. so we quickly headed over inside the acc, which was pumped with AC. XD good thing we got there a day early too, because the line wasnt that long at all. the registration hall was OMG HUGE. it was cool :D so we stood in line for about 3 minutes, and picked up our badges. we got a plastic bag that had little goodies inside. well they're nothing big; just some schedules and ads, and then a small set of naruto pins.

after picking up the badges, we went over to the hotel to check in, and drop off all our crap. the hotel was very small, and kind of hidden from the main street. right next to the freeway though... ._. the pictures online showed much bigger rooms. we werent too happy when we walked into the small room, but at least the furnishings and the cleanliness matched. what was really gross was that the ac was on warm, so our first step into the room was hit with hot and humid air. we sat around and settled in, and then dinner time came around, so we walked over to Mimi's Cafe that was just down the street

that night, we slept fairly early to make sure we had enough energy for the first say of convention.

the next day, we met up with chris' friend matt. ive never met him before, and he seemed like a very quiet kind of guy, but he became more and more comfy as the day went along, and it turns out he is a really really cool person. we hung around the arcade, and waited til the dealer hall opened.

unfortunately, that day, the dealer hall wasnt going to open til noon, so we had about 2 hours to kill. about 1/2 hour before noon, we went downstairs to check the line into the dealer. and OMGGGG the line was soooooooooo long. ok.. so the dealers hall is in section B, which is kind of on one side of the acc. ok.. so the line starts at the doors of the hall, went down the corridor thing, out the door, against the wall, down the walk way, goes out to the front, in front of the dome against the wall, and then zig zaged around in the area in front of the dome. basically, the line is about an hours wait. so chris, matt and i decided to go get food til the doors open. we walked over to carl's jr for lunch. by the time we came back, the line was completely gone, so we just walked into the Dealer's Hall. there was SOOO much stuff in there.

i met up with boeun and brendel and chilled with them for a bit. they helped me find the ear cuffs that i wanted, but after that, i went back to chris and matt and hung out with them. then, chris and matt's other friend, jason, called, and we went to the registration hall to meet up with him. unfortunately, since jason was getting his badge that day, he was going to be in that line for a long time. so the 4 of us chilled for a couple minutes in the line, and then chris, matt and i left cause we didnt want to stand in that line the whole time. chris told jason to just call him when he finally got his badge. so, the 3 of us went back to the dealer hall to shop around.

then, jason met up with us, and then we all went over to the console game room, and jason started playing capcom vs....something. i dont remember what the other one was. but he was in there for a while. then, finally when he was done, we went over to the arcade room, which jason ended playing capcom...again. XD

that night, we went to iHop for dinner. :3

that night, jason stayed with us in our hotel room.

next day... crap.. i dont even remember exactly happened the other days. i'll probably remember later, because right now, im really sleepy and really really tired.

main things: i bought more than i expected i would, food is hella expensive, dinner at tony rama's was the most fun i've had during dinner in a while, deals hall is fun to walk around, i bought a Yaoi paddle, 2 shirts, and a butt load of hats/cranim accessories, and pins. oh yeah... and...

ANHEIM IS HOT AS HELL.

we left disneyland 3hours into the park. it was THAT hot. both chris and i got sunburnt from that trip.

i'll finish this tonight maybe.

ok... continue...

okay.. so now im actually wide awake. the redbull finally kicked in

ohhh man..at disneyland, that...was interesting. when chrisn line, and i were in line for Haunted Mansion...OMFGGGG we're in there for 30min, which was already 5 min over what the people put up as the Wait Time. suddenly, were sitting there for like, ten min waiting, and tahnkfully we were in the shade, and then a cast member comes out, and says "the ride has temporarily broken down. you can either stay in the line, or youre free to leave the line, cause we dont know how long this is gong to take" so we left. as we were leaving, we saw steve and ashley. that was...definitely interesting. :P

we went on space mountain, mattahorn, and big thunder. ....that's it. oh.. and astro blasters. i kicked his ass XD other than that, it was WAY too hot to stay there, so we went back to AX, and planned to go back after the Karas thingy. but then i decided that i was too tired, so i went back to the hotel, and chris went with jason to watch karas. but then somethin screwed up, and karas was cancelled. so we hung out at our room and watched TV.

guess what we were watching...

PLASTIC SURGERY DISASTERS

...we watched most of that show right before dinner. but it was cool.. we got over it, and then in the walk over to the rainforest cafe, we became really hungry :D we sat outside in the rainforest cafe. it was either wait half an hour for an indoor seat, or have the outside seat immediately. so i said that we'll just take the outdoor one, since the temperature was starting to drop anyway. turns out, that was a really great decision, cause the breeze kicked up, and the inside was warm and a lil stuffy too.

oh yeah... as i had said, one night, chris, jason, matt and i ate at tony Rama's, and after dinner, we were waking back to the AX to pick up the car, and omggggg this stupid truck... *sigh* people are really stupid. theres this ... median on the street, and its abou...2 feet high. it slopes up, and then plateaus, and then slopes back down. this truck .... iono... i guess the person thought that since he's in a truck, he can just drive right over it. BAD MISTAKE. that stupid idiot got his truck stuck on the median. we didnt see exactly what happened, but that's what it looked like had happened. eventually, the police came, and then the tow truck came, and they stood around for a while trying to figure out how to get the truck out. so then Harbor became SOOO busy. lousy idiot.

what sucks is that jason had to go home to go get his clothes and stuff, and then his car got a flat tire. so he never was able to come back to AX. so the 2nd half of AX, it was mainly just me, chris and matt. but it was still a lot of fun. XD

but i do feel bad for jason.. pays for 4 days of AX, and he could only attend 2. and even before that, he had lost his badge 5minutes after waiting in line for an hour to get the damn thing.

apparently im now dubbed TofuBean because of my TofuBean hat.

 

 

 

 

 

~~theres a Tofu Records stand, and they were selling Tofu plushies~~

jason: ...wow.. what a way to make profit: 'lets think of something relaly random, make them into pushies,a nd sell them!' ...who the hell would want to buy a tof u plushie?
random dude: *says to person incharge* 'scuse me... can i get a tofu plushie?

jason: ....shit.

*takes out Yaoi paddle* "im going to use this on small world"

"uh...you DO realize that the boat is run on trac--"
"I'M GOING TO USE THE PADDLE."

"TOFU BEAN!!"

"i am not a tofu bean! *points at a little girl waking past with a tofu bean hat on too* look! she's a tofu bean! she's round like one!!"

"...ANNA!! that's MEAN!"

"come'ere tofu bean!"
"so i look like a round little thing without arms and legs??? and beans dont have leaves!! *points to leaves on the hat* "

"fine..youre a tofu SPROUT. :) "

*steals all the straws*

*puts mouth on the straws*
".....OKAY... WHO CHEWED ON THEIR STRAW?!"

"hey... where we going?"

"jason needs to go get his badge, so we're gonna see how long it takes"

"..didnt he get one this morning?"
"yea...but he lost it 5 minutes after he got it."

"come'on chris!! skip with us!"
"its so much more fun when you have no shame"

"my gramma saw the bump once and asks me: 'what you got? cancer?' "

*after finishing watching a documentary on plastic surgery*
"...so.... who's hungry!"

"hey brendel.... just run.. they're not looking... XD"

"..did you steal that rock?!"

"nope. it jumped into my pocket on its own."

 

 

good times good times.

i wish i could relive it all, and change some of the stuff

 



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