Others are simply mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself. Your answers lie inside you. The answers to life's questions lie inside you. All you have to do is look, listen and trust.

Life has given you an opportunity to find out if you are being untrue to yourself in anyway...if you are, your partner is simply reflecting it.  Work it out within you, and you will find those traits disappearing from his/her personality too!