Now that I'm finally back for good and no more travelling, it is a good time to put up some pictures and other stuff of the trip. But here is a short summary of facts and stuff.
Graduation Trip: Vietnam and Cambodia (11 May - 8 June)
Travel Partner(s): Fu Peichong, my Campus Crusade Friend. He's a male
not a girl as some have mistakenly and/or conveniently assumed.
Real Aim: To have fun after 4 years of hard work and study in NUS and
to visit places that previously I had only seen on Powerpoint slides
during history lectures.
Supposed Aim: To find a Vietnamese girlfriend or wife.
Type of Trip: Budget/Assimilative. That meant no shopping and no luxuries and eating at street side stalls throwing all caution to the wind. To live like the locals as much as possible.
Cost of trip (lodging, food, travel and sightseeing): S$865 (remember its budget and NO shopping)
Places Been: Hanoi, Halong Bay (North Vietnam), Hoi An, Vinh Dien, Quy Nhon (Central Vietnam), Dalat, Ho Chi Minh City, Mekong Delta (South Vietnam), Phnom Penh (Cambodia), Siem Reap (Cambodia)
Modes of Transport: Walk (savings galore!), sleeper train (jarring!), local bus (safe? dunno, just do it!), long distance tour buses (often overnight to save on accommodation), slow boat (reeaallyy slow!), motorbike (Born to be wild!) and bicycle (madness on rough potholed roads with crazy traffic).
People met: All kinds. From locals ripping you off to super helpful Vietnamese men in the street and friendly guesthouse staff. Fellow travellers run the gamut from a French TV journalist to (get this) a Korean American former IT consultant from NY turned elephant mahout trainer who travels for fun. And she's female.
Food: Street food, glorious food. Hygienic? I did not get tummy aches when feasting on street food everyday when in Vietnam. Only got the runs in Cambodia, where we had more restaurant food.
Lessons Learnt:
1) God cares. He provided for so many things. We met a friendly local guy who helped us get on a local bus without being ripped off. On the day we crossed over to Cambodia, all Singaporeans need not buy a visa to cross the border.
2) Partner with similar aims. A travel partner, even more so for a life partner, must have similar aims and values. The trip gave me a 1 month glimpse into living with another person, even though its a guy. Most dating is done to impress and is often too short and romantic to consider the mundaneness of daily life which this trip made me aware of.
3) I love Vietnam. Studying Vietnam was great. Being there was better.
4) There's order to chaos. The traffic there is madness and chaotic (worst traffic to be found in Hanoi) yet there is an order and consistency to it. Same way like life is often chaotic, the Master Designer has a grand plan. Reading now Ravi Z's The Grand Weaver: How God Shapes us Through the Events of our Life.
5) Independence and daring. Over there I grew up a little. I did the things my mom told me not to do like riding on a motorbike and cycling on impossibly difficult roads with crazy traffic in Siem Reap (we did nearly 60 km around the Angkor temple complex in 3 days). Spent US$ 4.50 and saved Gaia.
More pictures to follow.
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On a more sombre note, I read in the news of a female student who was sexually assaulted in a park nearby NUS on Wednesday night. The Clementi Woods Park is often used as a short cut to get to West Coast Road and I myself have done the route before and at night too usually after Campus Crusade meetings. Although lit, it is indeed eerie and unsafe at night. Walking home in the shadows with dark trees and foliage besides the path gives me the creeps. It is definitely unsafe. And if you are female, AVOID it. By the way, the shortcut is besides the bus stop opposite the School of Design and Environment.
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