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Name: Patricia
Country: Thailand
Metro: Krung Thep
Birthday: 6/9/1961
Gender: Female


Interests: I love watching good movies while reclining in a comfortable VIP theatre, or watching good movies at home if the pirated DVD copy is clear; take me away on a lake in a canoe and I can be Pocahontis; find me in steel-toed hiking boots and on a rugged trail and you will find a woman with a clear head; allow me some time and space in some historic setting and I will time travel; roller-coasters and non-vomit-inducing rides bring my deepest laughter from the inside out; a strenuous, sweaty workout leaves me high like a pothead. Books are friends. Music is liquid chocolate that floats into your head.
Expertise: packing suitcases, Being able to 'just know' how much a suitcase weighs, making fairly accurate diagnosis when my kids are sick, I make a hot apple cider to kill for(maybe not kill, perhaps just mame)
Occupation: Other
Industry: Nonprofit


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Member Since: 10/28/2005

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Thursday, May 01, 2008

May 1st - 26 years ago... then and now!

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Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Currently Reading
The Glass Castle - A Memoir
By Jeanette Walls
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Me For You and You for Me

 

Twenty-six years ago

a princess dress

a prince charming

a gold ring

and a promise

 

iay ovelay ouyay itway all my


Saturday, April 26, 2008

Currently Reading
The Church on the Other Side Doing Ministry in the Postmodern Matrix
By Brian D McLaren
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Who me? Nothing.

 

 

I've forgotten something.

 

I'm avoiding something.

 

I'm postponing something.

 

Can't tell which is wearing me down the worst.

 


Thursday, April 24, 2008

Dying with the Dead

 

I know that is a morbid title for my post, and that I have almost NEVER made a political nor editorial post in my 3 years of xangering. Yesterday I arrived at Au Bon Pain a little earlier than my friend, whom I was to meet to discuss a certain event. While I waited, I read the day's editorials in the Bangkok post and it told about the April 6th tragic deaths of a truckload of Burmese illegal migrants. It told of how the police are responsible. The story is here  .http://www.bangkokpost.com/News/24Apr2008_news19.php

Briefly...121 people were being transported in a cold-storage truck with no ventilation. One of the migrants called from the back of the truck to tell the driver that is was too hot, that they couldn't breath, but the driver then turned his phone off. 54 of them died before arrival. The driver fled. He has since been found.

 I tried imagining what it would have been like... complete darkness. Heat. Fear. Panic. Try to think of what it would have been like, pounding on the sides of that container, standing in a packed crowd, perhaps next to your sister or your mom or your best friend. Then to realise that people were dying. All around you, people dropping and slouching, clawing and fighting, perhaps, with the last fight for survival.

Some onlookers will protest that, "They shouldn't be fleeing their country in the first place, trying to take advantage of another country's social systems!" Just do some serious homework and see how long you would last in a country like Myanmar (Burma). Or Congo. Or...

How can this happen in 2008? What good is saving the planet from global warming when the world is killing itself? The smallest fraction of the earth's population argues for its rights for health care, education and freedom of speech, while the largest fraction feels 'blessed' when they get through the day without having their daughters raped again. Just this past Sunday, the pastor of a prominent church in Bkk gave a sermon on the evils of drinking alcohol. FOR CRYING OUTLOUD!! REALLY?? Are people still asking THAT question? Bless your religious little heart but I fear you may be dying of cancer while you are more worried about the blackhead on your nose! Would you serve that message to the 121 Burmese migrants if you had 'church' in that truck?? Go ahead, but don't even DARE camouflage that message in the name of Jesus.

By the way, I am wondering if you even heard this story in America, Canada or the UK? We are all aware of how Hillary has come near the end of her campaign funding; that I can refer to her as just Hilary and everyone knows who I am talking about; how things are going with American troops in Iraq; how Paris and Nicole and Lindsay are spending their time and money; how much money that latest blockbuster is making...

I am a part of that small, small fraction who loves her rights. It's like so few of us can reach the top shelf, yet almost everything we need is up there. When my son, Jordan, was in 1st grade, he was the tallest and biggest kid in his class. He could have easily bullied the others however I told him over and over that the reason he is bigger is so that he can reach the things in high places and pass them on to the smaller kids who can't reach. The reason he is stronger is so that he can lift things for the weaker ones. Or if you find yourself sometimes smarter than someone, it's so that you can explain things to them. I tried to explain that size, strength and brains were never meant to help us dominate others.

I think we need to pass that message on... More than the truckloads, there are country-loads of people who need help from the top shelf. What are we waiting for?

 


Saturday, April 19, 2008

Inspired by Martian Child

When the movie "Martian Child" came out, I took my daughters to see it. The story really impacted us. Yesterday I bought the DVD and we watched it again. It's about a little boy who has been in and out of foster homes. John Cusak's character takes the little boy home and the movie is about their adjustment and how they both percieve each other.

Our daughter, Amanda, is adopted. She loved this movie. I think this movie inspired her to look at her life in a very different way. For example -just a small example- I usually have to struggle with her to do her homework, but today, after watching the movie, she quietly went about her homework, putting every bit of effort into it all. She cleaned her desk. Organized her schoolbag. Put everything of her own into order. Then she was at the computer for a long long time when she asked me to come read what she had written. Here it is. Please take the time to read the whole thing. I am in awe.It is unedited. She is 11 years old.

My Marvelous Life

By: Amanda DeWit

 

Chapter 1

The minute I was just born my birth mother had passed away from a disease. As she died my father had ran away from me and my grandmother because he thought that my mom’s spirit was going to hunt him. So he just didn’t care about me, his child anymore. As the day rushed past, I was dying from this speck of life on this universe. Every moment of my life was being taken away from me.  But you see that I have lived from this horrible moment. How? Well, you see as my life was draining away from me, people not to far from my village had came in and saw me just laying there in a crib all lonely by myself. They had noticed that I was sick so they brought me to a nearby hospital and as we rushed in the emergency room doctors’ came and took great care of me. Right after they had been in there so many hours of trying to save my life, they did it. As these people were waiting for me they must have prayed to God to help this girl to stay alive. So what I think God wanted me to do was to stay alive since I have so many opportunities to go and explore our mankind.

After the doctors had finished with me the strangers’ decided to take care of me for a few days or so. When I was in the mother’s hands the phone rang obnoxiously. It hurt my ears really badly. You want to know what I felt like saying. This is what I felt like saying “Keep it down will ya! I’m trying to get my beauty sleep. Ouch! Hey, my ears. It’s your entire fault you, you obnoxious whipper snapper phone!” Do you see how I felt like? Bad Temper, I know but it’s still fun to do it once in a while. What really mattered was who was on the other side of that phone. As she picked up the phone I could hear a woman who had a singer’s voice and a man who had trumpets lips. Her voice was as high as an opera singer and his voice was as low as a giant tuba. I could hear a bit of there conversation. The stranger had said “Hey, so you did hear about a little girl in our house. Yes! Said the man with trumpet lips. We would like to adopt her. Sure! The stranger said back. And as they even talked more I felt dizzy as if I was drifting down a golden stream full of people. I was dreaming which meant I was asleep safe and sound.

The sun rising, everybody waking up, roosters crowing. I opened my eyes and closed, than close. I opened my eyes again and you know what I noticed was a group of people around me. I was scared but all of a sudden I felt tingle of joy in my soft heart.

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Amanda is in the forefront of this photo, holding up her two fingers in a peace sign. She's here with her best friend, Jaime (right), her beautiful friends Gabby( red) and Hannah (grey t-shirt), and her little sister, Alycia.

 

 

 

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