Breaking Up - Good or Bad?

Conversation with my co-workers:

Couples that want to get married are sometimes requuired to take some sort of pre-martial courses. After the course, sometimes people end up finding that the person they want to marry is not "The One". In cases like that, isn't it good that the couple realizes that BEFORE they tied the knot? Or should we think that the course is bad because it seperated two people?

If a relationship doesn't work, is it better to break up instead of dragging it alone until one thing leads to another? So let's say: Doesn't work but still gets married then ends up getting divorced. What's the point? Waste of youth, time, energy, happiness.

In some situations, breaking up might not be a bad thing, is it?

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"According to certain scientists, whenever a woman has s*x, her body produces a chemical which causes her to emotionally attach. This chemical may also account for the series of terrifying questons that involuntary pop into our minds after just one casual tryst. Questions like: Does he like me? Will he call again? And the classic: Where is this all going? When it comes to men, even when we try to keep it light, how do we wind up in the dark?" - Carrie Bradshaw (just more proof on how emotional women are)

I've always thought that I am a very lucky person~ Although ofcourse nothing in life is perfect, but things do happen to go smoothly. I'm happy with what I have at this moment. Always room for improvements though.

Family = Decent, loves me, takes care of me, might not have the best family in the world but I am satisified!
Friends = Have the best in the world and countless important ones in my life.
Career = Got the jobs I have wanted in life and is enjoying my new career now. Experiencing accomplishments that I didn't have being a crew~

Slowly waiting to get past this bump in my life now~ overcoming it day by day.. day by day...

The whole concept about a perfect man.. what IS a perfect man? There is no such thing as a perfect man~ It's just a fake little dream to let the girls feel like there's still hope out there. hmm.....餘震 ....

Never going to trust any member of the male species. A species that is very talented at lying, bullshitting, lying and bullshitting. Woops. Did I repeat it? Cause yes. They are just too good at those two things.

Ahh. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone or anything. Note to self. Note to self

Definitely correct that I've been such a naive person. It seems silly that I need someone to slap me in the face to tell me that I've been so stupid and childish. For some reason, I thought that everything would go back in time and be just like how it was but what has happened has happened. And I am unfortunately too emotional to let this one slide by. It just isn't the same anymore. What's the point in being stubborn with the past when the future is ahead of you?

"Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. But today is a gift, that's why they call it the present."

The Heart of the Matter

"There are people in your life, who’ve come and gone
They let you down, you know they hurt your pride
You better put it all behind you baby; ‘coz life goes on
You keep carrying that anger, It will eat you up inside, baby..."

- Sex and the City Soundtrack - India.Arie

"wow u've changed". Have I?