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Thursday, May 08, 2008
 

Would you trust these people to treat your cancer?

Only growing my disgust with all things traditionally medical, this morning I got out of bed, woke Steve, and woke up the boys so Steve could get them all ready and drop Sam off at school.  Note: Steve HAD to take the other two boys with him to drop off Sam, because I had a 7:30 AM Dr's appt.  Yep, 7:30 AM.

And my boys normally sleep in, except for Sam.  So does Stephen.  He is a bear in the morning when he's forced to do stuff like this.  This was a major ordeal.  Sam Sean was screaming "I want a bath!  I want a bath!", just adding to the frustration.

I burned my leg last night on my own tights (don't ask), so this morning I hobbled around, got my hair washed so I wouldn't smell like old sweat, all that good stuff.  I got out the door barely on time, but the Dr's office was just about a mile away, so I wasn't too worried about it.

The door was locked when I got there.  Checked my phone.  Ontime.  Tried again.  Called Steve.  He looked the # up for me.  Called.  Answering service.

I was just about to give up and leave when they opened the door to let me in.

After going through all the stupid paperwork and all that crap (it's always four pages, isn't it?), they took my co-pay and took me back to a room.  The nurse started to ask me questions for Dr. Male to look over before he came in.

"Dr. Male?" I said.

"Yes," she said.

"My appt. is with Dr. Female," I said.

She made a face.  Her eyebrows did that thing you see people do when they're trying to figure out a poorly-worded sign or something.  "Dr. Female isn't here today.  Do you want to reschedule?"

"Dr. Male is a man, right?"  I asked.

"Yes," she said.

"I'll reschedule."

We went out to reception, where the receptionist made excuses for the other receptionist who set the appt.  I assured her that the other receptionist DID know I had asked for Dr. Female, and that I'd originally set the appt at the East End office ("Dr. Female only sees patients at the East End office!" this receptionist explained.  In other words, "Not in your ghetto neighborhood, lady!") and that the receptionist there suggested I move the appt. to New Albany.  She also said Dr. Female would be there on this particular day.  I guess the words "never sees patients there" are not written on whatever schedule she was looking at.

I was so disgusted by the whole waste of time (and parking costs--yes, you have to pay to park there), one irritation after another, that I no longer CARED that this woman was supposed to be one of the best dermatologists in Louisville.

Her shitty staff is a liability.

And I'm SICK of people with shitty staffs, shitty teams, shitty standards being in charge of our HEALTHCARE.  Sick of it.

I called a different practice and made an appt. there.  I'd go back to my old (hott) dermatologist, but I'd feel weird having him look over my whole bod for moles and stuff.  I really would rather have a woman do that, even if she's a diesel dyke.  Whatever.  Women are more DETAIL-ORIENTED.  Supposedly.  As long as they're not setting appts, I guess.

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Wow, what a bad experience. However, we had a bad experience with a male doctor, then had a great experience with a male doctor. And I do love modern medicine. I think insurance companies have made even the kindest, most detail-oriented doctors go through hoops. Hope you feel better.
Posted 5/8/2008 10:10 AM by sfamylou Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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I feel you...
It all gets back to management. Doctors are not taught business management skills in med school. It's assumed you figure that out. Hubs was gifted with business savvy as well as technical and interpersonal aptitudes and hired a business manager that's been with him since he opened his practice. She sets the tone for the whole office.

Most practices are poorly managed. I travel an hour to Birmingham to an OB-Gyn who has decent staff because of lousy management in both practices here.
Posted 5/8/2008 11:58 AM by coffeeiv Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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UGH, OMG, I AM FEELING YOU.

I have been trying to make a doctor's appt. for the last three days and it seems like if you're not already a patient they could care less about seeing you. Yes, it would be SO convenient for me to come see the gyno IN JULY. Thanks! This was after they told me they could "fit me in" next week then called back to say, oops, that was just a mistake, they were wrong, they "didn't know the doc's schedule." THEN WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING MAKING APPOINTMENTS?!?! Oh, or Planned Parenthood, where they told me they don't, in fact, have anyone who takes insurance on Saturdays, but if I want to come in and pay out of pocket ...

GAH GAH GAH!

They've also been SO rude, every single receptionist, with their upturned noses, they've made *me* feel bad for wanting an appointment when *I* want it. Like, OH NO, the patient is trying to come in when it's good for her. THE NERVE.

Hey, thanks for the venting! :)
Posted 5/8/2008 2:13 PM by LibraryPrincess - reply

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At least my new OB/GYN has a great staff! They are the nicest I've ever met!!

But, yeah, what is with scheduling everything according to the Dr's convenience? Then you get there and still wait for sometimes HOURs in the waiting room. Ridiculous! I understand insurance hoops, but knowing whether or not a Dr. even visits a certain office is not an insurance issue. That's just housekeeping.

My last OB/GYN left me waiting an hour with no other patients in the entire office (last appt of the day), while he explained to someone how to fill out their payroll tax return! I heard every word through the wall! I almost said "Let me save you some time, I'm a freaking tax preparer and you are eating up my time right now in tax season when I could be earning money!!! I will explain the fucking forms to your numbnuts friend while you do my frucking ultrasound!" God, I was pissed.

Well, anyway, I found another Dr. Female for my mole inspection, and joy of joys, her receptionist actually KNEW where she'd be on any given day. I look forward to meeting her.

Thanks for listening.
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I know what you mean! Last year, I switched OB GYNs because of the rude doctor and his shitty staff (particularly one, who just happened to be the DR.'s wife). I wasn't going to let a jerk doctor deliver my baby. I eventually got into a big tiff with the MRS about her being rude and rolling her at me and I switched DR.s. I later found out he had a record of malpractice to which he pleaded guilty to on 4 counts.
Posted 5/8/2008 4:40 PM by AnGeLmArYy21 - reply

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I've been really fortunate my entire adult life as far as medical folks go.  Just lucky, I guess. 
Posted 5/8/2008 5:24 PM by middleageguy Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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I totally feel you on the shitty staffs and standards.  I have had a recurring problem for the past 8 years or so.  I have gone to several doctors and they only seem to want to treat teh symptoms rather then find the cause.   So they treat the symptom, it goes away for a few months and then sure enough I'm back at the doctor starting the whole ordeal over again.

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OMG... I can go on for days about the lack of standards in the doctors office... I had a situation simmilar to this where I was so discusted uh!

I'm sooo sorry about that whole mess... geesh

Posted 5/8/2008 11:42 PM by Rbynfairy Xanga True Member - reply

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I always judge a doctor (or practice) by their staff.  Because my estimate is that you interact with the staff 2x as much as  you do with the actual doctors.  When I make a "new patient" appointment... I take a note of how they're willing to work with me on the phone to find a mutually convenient time slot.  If it doesn't work out, I cancel and move on.  NEXT!!

I did that with my dentist recently.  I moved about an hour away from my old one and had to find a new one.  Eventually, I gave up and just stuck it out with the old one.  I'm willing to drive an hour away for a man who knows how to run a private practice.

And I agree with coffeeiv... they really need to teach management skills in med school.

Posted 5/9/2008 9:00 AM by Halfy79 Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply


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