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| 25 Rules for Dating (quoted from nikki tran)
1) People never change.
If you don't like something about the other person now, it WILL become a problem later.
2) Even if you are unsure of what you want, always be sure of what you DON'T want.
3) NEVER get into a relationship with a person that cheated/left their significant other for you. There's a pretty high chance that they'll do it again when they're bored of you or the relationship. Don't be a fool.
4) There's a reason why they are no longer with their ex. Try not to be jealous. 
5) You shouldn't have to be constant fear of losing your significant other, always thinking..."Omg, what if i do this and he doesn't like me anymore?" or "What would she think of me if she knew?"...."What if she wakes up one morning and decides that she doesn't love me anymore?" "What if he falls for that girl in his office?"
You should be confident that if they were approached by a really hot person, they'd just shake it off and walk away.
6) Anyone is capable of anything. Don't think they won't cheat on you. Trust me, i've seen it first hand. Even the people who you think would never cheat...CAN and WILL. However, you might never find out (sucks for you).
This point kinda contradicts my last, but whatever!
7) If you start picking up signs of things you DON'T want in a relationship, talk to them about it...and if it seems to go nowhere, Leave.
8) When you stop enjoying the presence of the other person, and the relationship seems like a drag...Get out.
9) When the trust is lost, the relationship goes downhill.
10) When the lies begin, the relationship ends.
11) If you're not happy, you should probably end it. Better now, than later...when you are much MORE attached.
12) Don't stay with the person if the bad times outweigh the good times. If you spend the majority of your time together fighting, then it's not worth it.
13) Make sure you're able to stand their temper when they're mad or when you guys are fighting. (Because let's face it, it's gonna happen a lot if you are together for a while.) 
14) None of that break-up, make-up shit. If it didn't work the first time around, it won't EVER work.
15) Do not, i repeat, DO NOT, get too attached. Always ask yourself, if he were to leave me tomorrow, would I have other things lined up to do? Never be the person whose world falls apart when their significant other leaves them.
16) If you can't see yourself with them for a while, don't get into a relationship. Have your fun, enjoy your time together, but that's it.
17) Try, i mean REALLY try to work at it. Don't just step over your problems. It will always come back. Try to understand the other point of view. Don't always think you are right. Most of the times, both sides have good reasons to be angry, it's just both people too stubborn/heated to see the other side.
18) DO NOT cut ties with your friends once you get into a serious relationship. You won't have anyone to turn to when you're having relationship problems, and no one's going to want to hang out with you once you get dumped.
19) Try to have the mindset that if they were to leave you tomorrow, you'd be okay. You'd be sad, of course, but you'd be okay. Who gives an eff...their loss!
20) Try not to take breaks, but if absolutely necessary, be clear what the "break" means. Be specific. Don't pull a Ross.
21) Breaking up is not the end of the world. (Despite what you may think at the time.)
22) After a break-up, you have to work on bettering yourself. If you run into them or talk to them six months later, you'd want to be able to make them think, "Damn, I wish I hadn't let her go" or "Her new boyfriend is a lucky bastard".
You may think..."Why do i even care what my ex thinks of me? I don't give a s***. I shouldn't even be doing anything because of them."
But no, think of it this way: If you are constantly bettering yourself, one relationship after another...in the end, it's for YOUR benefit. You become a much better person overall.
23) Always trade up.
You would think this a given right? But it just blows my mind how some girls (or guys) can go from someone who treated them really well to someone who treats them like a P.O.S. Every guy that i've dated has been better (for me) than the previous guy. Otherwise, there'd be no point. Don't settle for less.
24) Hanging out with you ex = bad idea.
Unless you're both single...and just looking for some ass.
25) Have fun!  | | |
| 4.27 graduation 本身是一件令人開心的日子, 但卻俾我發現了2件事情, 足以令我跌入谷底
一直認為不可能發生在他的事情已靈驗了
雖然他一直不斷解釋, 但我想我不再是一個傻瓜or 後知後覺的人
短暫的痛苦好比長期的猜疑
我依家已睇得開la, 其實都吾係第一次遇到呢d 情況, 我相信我可以handle 到.
好! 等我呢幾日不斷食甜野, 令自己開心d!
最後, 祝大家同自己單身快樂...回復自由
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| ...everything is clear...n now is finally settled
i have seen yr real side
睇相0個個人真係好準, 真係吾信都吾得...
吾通搵一個真心對你真係好難ga 咩? | | |
| 尋日因為下午carlos 要開會的關係, 我就同vicky 去左3樓同4樓observe patients...第一次親身接觸他們, 感覺並不可怕, 反而非常同情他們的遭遇, 雖然他們有些偏差的行為 我終於可以同我client 做左first interview, 總算對prof.mary 有d 交代! | | |
| 今日同emily, analisa, stella同victoria 約左個師父出黎批名..因為我的名字...潔雯的"潔"字不太好
所以他將我的名改成陳家瑩, 我本身的英文名也是有先苦後甜or 先甜後苦的...所以改成lisa
師父說可以改善我的運....我希望大家以後叫我呢兩個名!
師父也再三叮囑我不要相信男人, 因為我好易被人呃...叫我吾好咁易信人, 要色戒, 男人不是真心喜歡我...只是好色. 並說小心今年就可能有bb..同埋我會易離婚...oh ....shit.....之後的18年都會抱住個bb 走..
哎, 聽到咁講, 我覺得佢好似講到我會行my mum條舊路.......
雖然未來的事大家都吾知, 不過師父呢句說話真係點醒左我, 我真係好快信一個人, 同埋好易冇戒心, 希望我吾會再睇錯人......我都吾想師父講既野會靈驗!
其實我可以吾打呢篇blog, 但係打左之後, 我要再警惕自己吾可以重複犯錯! | | |
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