this is my opinion.... and it may not be urs, but its just mine, and i have a right to my own opinion

anyway...lol.. things happen in our lives... and the term "what if?" ALWAYS pops up... "what if I tell the person, what will happen?"... or "what if i don't?...." yes... that is a very big "what if"... but i believe that if you like someone, you should tell them.... i think its better to know the truth if you tell them, than the illusion if you don't.... and if someone likes you but you don't like them... TELL THEM! don't lead them on.... its not right make someone think that you like them, when you don't... and then they find out in the end it was all just a game to you... don't play on anyones emotions like that, whether it be a guy or a girl (assuming its the opposite gender of yourself...lol) ok.. well, i just think i should get that out there cuz of some things people have told me they are dealing with...this is what i have to say to them---- make a decision and stick with it, don't back down, don't turn the other way (--in other words, don't chicken out!)... it may hurt someone, but they'll get over it.  it may make someone feel like the most special person in the world. BUT and theres the downside of maybe feeling hurt yourself... but thats what life is... life pulls us curves and we just gotta turn with them... move on with life... find another person......lol....