Well, I know Valentine's day is not here yet but I just wanted to share what alot of us men feel and why we sometimes lose the magic. First of all Ladies, we men do love romance as much as you do and often when you think we get to into other things that tend to distract us and keep us from remembering to spoil you on this romantical day, remember this; We live in a fast paced society where women and men have to speed up to stay up. It may be long hours of working, deadlines, kids, whatever the case, we are just in too big of a hurry to slow down and enjoy each other. If women and men would for that one day in February, just put everything aside for the day and relax, this is what we can find in each other;
We can find that the flame never went out , it was just that the door was closed on the furnace. We will find that if we relax with each other and make that day about each other, then we can truely be one with the other and feel what the other is feeling. We will discover communication so deep and so special yet it was expressed without ever saying a word. We can be able to look in each others eyes and truely see the soul. We can re-discover what was never gone, "Love".
We seem to lose the magic for one simple reason, we fail to slow down long enough to enjoy the simple things that really are the foundation of great joy and love. To test yourself on what you are missing, just stop, take a few deep breaths, look at the clouds, a flower, the trees, an animal outside living it's life. Just stand there and watch these things and get lost in it. There is a peace like no other and that applies to our lives together. We need to stop and take the time to enjoy each other.
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